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i am looking to buy a ipod but i have to pay for it myself. i am only 14 so i dont and cant get a job. i was wondering what is the cheapest ipod. i have a mp3 player but it wont work so i am just going to get a ipod. so is the ipod nano mini or shuffle or whatever else type they have cheaper. thanks in advance!
Ipod shuffle.
But that has no screen and you wontt
be able to see what song u want to play.
so i say the second cheapest is ipod nano.
Hello Ya'll!
I Was Wondering If You Know Of Any Legit Websites Were I Can Find People Locally To Join/Form A Band? Or Any Other Techniques That You Have Found Useful?
Thanks So Much For Your Time! May God Bless Y'all!
Vee.
put up flyers! and send out messages! On notice boards and stuff :)
I am 18-f and my sister is 16. I have come to the conclusion that my sister is a compulsive liar. I really want to reveal her true strides to my family and everyone else who has been a victim of her lies, but how? Every time I try to catch her in her lies, she keeps lying to cover her tracks. This has become a major problem, and has ruined my relationship with her. I don't want to hurt her, but I wish she could learn a good lesson from her awful behavior.
Catch her in the act.
Confront her once and for all.
& when she realizes how serious you're
being she will hopefully put a stop to it.
Dont come down too hard on her though, but still sound like you're drawing the line. Dont say "if you dont tell i will" because thats blackmailing and she will hate you for that, just address to her that she needs to put everything right and thats HER responsibility. And tell her your leaving it to her to do the right thing. Which might guilt her and she will put everything right. Goodluck.
I was dumped by a boy and he said the only reason he did it was because he felt bad going with his best friend sister but now he goes with somebody else and I think he lied about it. We don't get along as friends and I can't stand not talking to him and only time we get along is when going out. He's like my heart but at the same time he's acting like a douche bag to me. When I'm with my brother only thing he does if he's with us is talk about his new girlfriend. So help me. How do you get over boys when they live near you ride your bus and is at your house 24/7??
MOTIVATE yourself and think ;"two can play at that game" ,whenever he comes over and when u see him. you must not even look at him, and just blank him. act like he never did exist it will be hard but its the end result that counts. & it will take time but as long as you have patience it'll be allright. keep yourself busy and social and slowly forget about him, try to think about the hurt hes give you and how u do not deserve to be treated like that and by each time he hurted you or been a douchbag to you he's thought of you less. and doesnt respect you enough if he makes you feel that way, when you remind urself of these, then you will be over him in no time. Plus try keep your options open and availability for other guys, hang out with them more! Goodluck.
I have a really spoiled best friend and I really can't stand being around her anymore. Her parents have lots of money and my friend gets showered with money all the time. The last time my friend and I went to the mall her dad gave her $200 and said here honey have fun! I have an allowance and I actually have to work to get my money and my friend has never done any work in her life! She wears expensive clothes and has a container ten times the size of a shoebox chock full of makeup she never wears! She makes me so mad! She brags about it too!
Please help me!
Thank you :)
Hey,
You will have to deal with it if she's you're best friend. Some people have to work for money, and some people will get it. The one who brags will have nothing left in the end.
Just tell her that she might jinx herself if she keeps bragging about it and might lose it all, so she should keep that information to herself.
im 21 years old...and heres my story , sorry if its short but i really need advice ,ok so i have a boyfriend who ive been in an on and off relationship for the past months, there was one time where we broke up for good like the other times we used to say we were broken up but kept comunicating and eventually got back...we were back now for good and things where better than ever, but i noticed there was a girl who has been trying to contact him like calling nonstop and texting alooot and he never replies to her messages he didnt wanted to tell me the complete story and kept giving excuses, today he had finally told me the truth, he told me during that time we were really broken up which was like 2 weeks... which is the only time i really felt we weren't gonna get back together, he told me he hooked up with this girl and they kissed , and thats why she's been trying to contact him cause she never felt like that with anyone or whatever, i dont blame her cause she didnt knew i existed , my point is..should i still be upset about this? it did hurted ALOT cause even during that time i was thinking we were gonna get back together and we kept speaking during that time but not like suggesting getting back just casual speaking, so i really dont know what to do now, please i need an advice i really gave my heart to him and eventho he tries to justify it by saying we were broken up, i still feel he cheated , cause we talked about this girl and he said nothing happened, and he told me he hasnt hooked up with anyone ever since we started dating which was february,
Hey,
I'm sorry you feel that way for starters.
Basically, it's completely understandable and normal for you to feel hurt by this, but you have to realise the truth of the matter was that you both did split. It doesn't matter how long for or anything, it's just that you broke up. Which is permission go separate ways. I read you say, that you're relationship was on and off? Just think, why was it on and off? Why not just "on"? It means it wasn't working right from the beginning, and even though you must've broken up a couple of times, you went straight back to him. To him that indicates that you're no longer a challenge. That he can hurt you whenever but you'll come back all the time. If the relationship is on and off all the time and you kept going back shows the damage of the relationship is doing nothing but bringing you back each time. So he probably thought that it's not that serious that you both broke up and that he must've got bored with the same routine and hooked up with some other girl while you both were split up. If YOU feel somethings not right then go with you're sensible instinct and end it, before you get hurt even more.
This won't be to long but anyway I have made mistakes in the past with guys and I am not going to go there but lets say I know good methods that work to get a guy but I just was wondering if anyone had anymore because I really need some help. I know everyone says be be yourself I know that its just do you have any like fun ways or you know what I mean haha?(:! see I am trying to get back my ex boyfriend and I can't really use the same approach anyone have any ideas?? -ThAnks(: Happy Holidays(:
Hey,
If you want to get back together with you're ex, then you'll have to start off slow. And I'm talking slowww! Like a "Hi-bye" when you want past eachother. Then get to talk more when you have more time to see him. Make him laugh, dont seem flirty! Be safisticated and friendly, plus it'll make it look like your not coming on too strong. Then when you feel you've been acting enough friendly, start flirting a LITTLE. Don't make it seem obvious, just drop little comments here and there, this will make him wonder many questions! So it'll look mysterious and guys like that! When you feel you're getting the right reaction from him and he does it too, then progress more on the flirting, then also go back to innocent. Do both at different times. It'll make him think "what is she trying to say.." which means he will think about you more!
18/m
Ok, so I went to this restaurant the other day and had this waitress that was the most beautiful woman I have every seen. I really want to speak to her again. I know her name, and I remember what she looks like (how could I forget?) but I don't know if it would be too creepy to maybe find her on facebook or something, and I'm not even sure if she'd be interested in talking to me. What should I do?
Hey,
NO! Don't add her on facebook, especially if you haven't even spoken to her yet. Just next time you go to this restaurant, be polite and say thankyou everytime she does you a favour, like if she brings you something or takes your order. Be polite, and at the end start a little conversation with her about anything, but I say talk about the restaurant to her, make her laugh somehow and ask her if shes interested in going out.
I really want to call Selena Gomez cell phone number and talk to her. I only want Selena Gomez's real phone number.
I loved her as Mikayla in Hannah Montana and she is just as awesome as Alex Russo in Wizards of Waverly Place. And I just
Hey
You probably wont be able to get it.
Shes in the public eye and so she keeps
things very private and only gives it to people who she knows extremely well.
Sorry!
So, over the past months I've been second guessing my love for my Boyfriend. I've been dating him for 4 months now, but I've known him for about 2 years before we started dating. Before we started dating you could tell that there was always something more between us. And this year we finally started dating. and It's been an awesome couple of months. I never knew i could care about someone so much until I met him. But this last month, I've been thinkin about everything. Do i really love him? Is this guy the one? and i've been so depressed the past month. I'm so confused. I cry about how I don't know if I love him, then I'll cry about how I'm hurting him not being around him. then i cry about how i don't want him to leave or go. I've never been or acted like this until I met him. and its only been like this the past month. Oh and his family is AMAZING. i LOVE him family and they love me. I feel like i've been dating his family the past month, not him. and i really wanna get back to dating just Him. but when he tells me he loves me, i just wanna break down and cry. i just miss the way things use to be, just having fun with him and not worrying about Love.
Oh and i have a doctors appointment next week, because I'm crying so much and so badly. my mom thinks i have unbalanced hormones because its been so bad.
What do i do? what do u think?
HELP.
Hey,
Sorry for to hear that first of all.
What I advice you to do is to take sometime to go for a walk or something, alone. During the day. A place where you can clear your head and think about things peacefully. I personally dont think there's anything wrong with you, your just having doubts that's all. When you see him and start crying it means you just feel guilty. Just take sometime out to think things through! You have to realize that you DONT have to love him right now, love might come later in the relationship, there's no rule that says you MUST love him! Its only been a few month. You'll know when you're in love. You'll know inside. Take my word for it. But for now, if he makes you happy, and You KNOW he makes you happy, then stick with him. Because what you need right now is happiness, dont fret about it. It's totally normal. So do what I suggested. Remember that, you don't need to be in love right now. It'll happen later, you'll know. It takes time and patience.
Merry christmas! Enjoy this day because it's a day of joy. So forget about you're problems for today! :)
i need ideas for a fun way to ask a guy to a dance!
a group from my school is going to london a few days after christmas and we're both going so i thought it would be fun to ask him while we're there, but i cant think of a fun way to do it! if anyone has any ideas of how i could ask him while we're in London that would be awesome :)
Hey.
Try making him laugh while you ask him, say "would you like to dance with me" in an immitating-london accent! :)
I'm a 15 yr. old girl in the 9th grade. I'm naturally shy and socially awkward, but I have some friends that I really care about. Sometimes, it seems like my friends ditch me for their other friends or boyfriends and I end up being left alone. Or I feel like I care more than they do. I've tried making new friends, but that is too hard for me to do because I tend to emotionally shut down and push people away. I need help because I'm tired of being alone all the time.
Hey,
You need a self esteem boost.
You probably isolate yourself because you're unsure of where you fit in, or if you even fit it at all. You need to make yourself open up, make a new friend in class,and ask if you can hang out with them,trust me they WONT say no. Unless theyre complete jerks, just choose the right people and you'll be fine. Talk to as many people as you can and slowly you'll develop to be more involved. Good luck.
I hate my name and id like an emo name cause some people at school call me emo. To help u ill tell u my name. My name is Tia. ^^
Hey,
I know exactly how you feel. These are soft emo names, that do have an edge hidden in them.
Isabella/bella
Rayna
Stephanie.
Dawn
Avril/april.
My friend always brags about all the things she gets, how can I ask her nicely to stop? I don't mid hearing about it sometimes, but all the time gets annoying.
Hey!
Don't we all have a friend like that.
What you have to do is, seem polite while she's telling you. You have to make sure your comments towards her dont seem like you're being bitter or jealous, as she could easily think that. Just say to her next time she brags that "you shouldnt keep talking exessively about what you have,because you could jinx it and lose it all, just keep it to yourself and be grateful".
i used to talk to a guy. he's 17. Lets call him A. we've been talking for about 8 months (i know. way too long to be "talking") about 2 months ago were hanging out and one thing led to another, i lost my virginity to him. we we're really good; it seemed to have brought us closer. about a month ago he told me he loved me but i didn't say it back. he understood why i didn't say it. about a week ago I was talking to one of our mutual friends and she said that A has been telling her he's "done" with me for a while. A and i had plans that day too which i ended up canceling. he said he didn't care anymore. the next few days another one of our mutual friends (he's closer to me) was with me a lot at school. he's also 17. i'll call him B. every time i was with B, A would come NEAR us with a serious face and not say anything. A's also been coming too close to me. i was sitting down and he was literally over me reaching for something that was on the opposite side. he comes around me a lot but he doesn't talk to me. he talks to everyone around me while staring at me. I just realized how stupid he sounds haha. I'm not sure why he's acting like this when he supposedly told our friend he's done with me. I still have feelings for him but i'm not sure what to do. I still haven't confronted him about him saying he's "done" with me but i will. i don't think it has to due with sex because we rarely have it and there's A LOT of girls that are always trying to get with him. I need advice on what I should do? any ideas on what's going on with us or why he's acting this way?
Heyy.
Basically "A" is becoming bitter because you didnt say you loved him back. So he's not quite sure on how to deal with what he feels is "rejection". Basically, "A" does like you! But because you "rejected" him by not saying i love you back, he's trying to be a big shot by saying he's "done" with you. To make it sound like its Even and to make you as hurt as he is. Why else would he act bitter? Know what I mean? It's nothing to worry about, he's just having a hard time and is trying to get back at you for not saying it back, he's trying to hide his feelings. Which are that he still loves you and can't stand the fact that you dont love him. So he's trying to get closer to you to catch you're attension and to make sure you dont forget about him, and finally talk to him again.
16/f
So my boyfriend lives a few hours away and he says he's gonna send me my Christmas gift. It's just a few things he found that he thought would have some significance. I am completely clueless on what to give him. I don't want to get him something too much since it'd be through mail. So have any ideas? Thanks!
Hey!
ALL boys love some kind of sport. So get him tickets to see a basketball,soccer,rugby game! Whichever one he likes the best, buy him tickets to see it.
I am 18 and my sister is 16. In a weak moment, I told her what I had done with my ex boyfriend sexually. (It was right after he and I broke up, and my sister asked me what I had done with him sexually. I told her.) My boyfriend and I dated for over a year; we didn't have sex, but I did give him a hand job in my living room on a rare occasion when he slept over one night.
My sister ended up telling my mom and my younger brother this information months later when she was mad at me...which would be what happened today. This may not seem like a big deal, but I am ashamed that she would betray my trust, and at the secret I told her itself. I would like to think of myself as a pretty innocent girl, and this is why this behavior is considered uncharacteristic of me to my mom and brother, although it is probably very normal among teenage couples. I was not really sexually attracted to my boyfriend, but I felt pressured to satisfy him since we were together for so long. My sister didn't tell my mom and brother this info. because it made her uncomfortable- no, she told on me to try and make herself look better, and to try and get me in trouble and use it against me, although I told her in confidence that she wouldn't tell anyone.
How do I handle this situation with my mom, brother, and sister? I am ashamed at myself for trusting my sister, who has proven to be more immature than I thought she was. She has gone farther sexually than I have, yet she tried to make me look bad for a mistake of the past. She is only every concerned with me when she can get something out of the bargain, and she doesn't value our relationship as sisters. I am ready to disown her as my sister at this point.
My younger brother is 13, and when he heard what I had done with my ex boyfriend, he shunned me and is still acting like he wants nothing to do with me. My mom didn't say much, but I can tell she is disappointed in me, which is understandable. What should I do about this situation? I feel so guilty knowing that my family thinks less of me, and I am so angry at my sister for betraying me when she said she wouldn't tell anyone. I didn't realize until now that she probably only asked me what I had done to form blackmail to use later...
Hey,
I'm sorry about what you're sister did. It is so not cool, there are boundries in sister relationships, which is to never break trust. I'm not saying keep secrets from you're family, I'm just saying, be careful with who you trust.Think about who you tell and WHAT you tell. But trust me this will all blow over, your family will eventually realize they have to get over it,deal with and move on from it. Next time make her earn you're trust. Make her prove she will never tell a soul anything. I actually have a friend shes 16, and her sister is 20. Her older sister tells the 16 year old EVERYTHING. And the 16 year old has Never Ever told anyone anything, none of the secrets you can be told in 4 years. Even if they had the biggest fight, the young sister would never tell,because she'd never cross that line,however, the younger sister couldnt tell her older sister anything, not even the fact that she has a crush. Because she knows for a fact that her older sister will tell someone and go all "flip mode" for no reason and jump to conclusions. So the 16 year old never tells her sister any secrets,ever. The older one tells her all of them. What Im saying is Be cautious and think about the consequences that'll occur in the future, and think "will she tell someone". KNOW what kind of person you're little sister is and remember it whenever you tell her something, and you're family will move on and eventually deal with it, they can't disown their daughter! It looks bad right now but it will blow over. Good luck.
17/f
i just wanted to know if this would be considered rape. so heres the story.
i was at a new year's party last year. i was with my best guy friend. i drank and smoked a blunt with him. i got drunk and high but he didn't. we went to the beach to go swimming, i took off my clothes except for bra and undies, he took off everything but his boxers. i don't know how ALL of my clothes came off or telling him it was okay for him to take my virginity. it was almost as if i blacked out for a little while, when i opened my eyes i felt the worst pain i've ever felt although i wasn't sure what was going on. he asked if i wanted him to stop, i still didn't know what was happening and i replied no. very shortly after i realized what was happening and i told him to stop and he did. i was a virgin and he wasn't. i wonder if this is rape because i never gave him permission from the beginning. i know he definately took advantage of me after being drunk and high and nowhere near my right mind.
thank you
Hey
Im sorry about what happened.
But I wouldnt consider it rape, because you told him to stop when you wanted it to stop and when he asked to if you wanted him to stop carrying on you said no. Even if you werent fully aware of what happened to told him when to stop and not to stop. Its only what I think, I may be wrong. Take this experience as a lesson and learn from it.
I've had the biggest crush on this one guy for a while and we use to talk bit then all of a sudden we stopped talking. It was wierd but anyways I'm a freshman and he's a sophmore he's in two ofmy classes but I never get the chance to say something. Any advice how to get me into his mind again? Oh btw I'm the kind of girl who's kind of awkward at conversations startingit off and carrying it on so?
Heyy,
Find ANY chance you get to see him and talk to him a little, even if it's a Passing-By-Hi kind of thing! Everything counts. Hopefully it should expand from that. Its important for awkward people to step out of the shell and just GO FOR IT. It's only for the best. It's either your awkwardness or losing this of yours. Overcome this awkward feeling and give him a smile time to time. Just anytime you see him, you have to speak to him.
Ok so I like this boy and apperently he knows. My friends decided to message him on Facebook to ask him if he likes me and for his cell number and all of that. Then my friend hacked my account and asked him out for me but i deleted it before he could see it. Then thIs week he commented on my status saying that I was cute. Is there any chance that he likes me after all that?I want to move on but I really do like him...
Hey,
What do you mean by "apparently" he knows you like him. You should find out for sure if he knows,it would make everything more clear. Did he reply when you're friends asked for his number and asked if he liked you? I think there is a chance! I mean he only knows you like him, theres nothing bad about that, he should be flattered. And he probably is! He might like the fact you like him and might like you back. But only he can answer that. You'll need to tell him yourself you like him especially if you're hung up on him so much that you don't want to get over him. Try talking to him more