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Waitress
18/m
Ok, so I went to this restaurant the other day and had this waitress that was the most beautiful woman I have every seen. I really want to speak to her again. I know her name, and I remember what she looks like (how could I forget?) but I don't know if it would be too creepy to maybe find her on facebook or something, and I'm not even sure if she'd be interested in talking to me. What should I do?
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Hi there, here I think you should just go to the restaurant again and if you run into her, say hi. Start a conversation with her. Don't expect anything, try to remember you're trying to find out if she's right for you, not prove you are right for her. You might speak to her and find out you've nothing in common. If you want some more tips, here is a related article : [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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Hey,
NO! Don't add her on facebook, especially if you haven't even spoken to her yet. Just next time you go to this restaurant, be polite and say thankyou everytime she does you a favour, like if she brings you something or takes your order. Be polite, and at the end start a little conversation with her about anything, but I say talk about the restaurant to her, make her laugh somehow and ask her if shes interested in going out.
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You're right: adding her on Facebook would come across as completely creepy and would ruin your chances in a heartbeat.
Your best bet is to talk to her in person. Hit up the restaurant a few times. You can sometimes request specific servers by saying that you've had fantastic service with them before. At the end of your meal, AFTER you've paid and tipped (no girl wants to feel like you're basing her tip on whether she'll go out with you or not) just say something like "I know it's your job to be nice, but you seem like an awesome person. Would you like to go get coffee some time?"
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