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I don't want to be the Jealous gf
Okay I know that my boyfriend loves me and he hasn't ever said anything. But I am the type that gets jealous easily. Idk why??? Idk how to stop either. Just over stupid things like him hanging out with a friend or even family. PLEASE help. I try to just bite my lip and not say anything. I don't want to be the jealous girlfriend, and I don't want to feel like that.
Help Please
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It's perfectly natural to be jealous. I am the jealous type too. What I do is, I keep myself busy until my boyfriend comes back. I sometimes ask to come along. I've told my boyfriend that I get jealous. Yeah, he laughed at me but he made it all better by taking me along or texting me when he's out. When ever my boyfriend goes out I go out with my friends to the movies or the mall. Just something to keep my mind off of it.
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trust me jealousy is the main reason why people break up and i'm sure you don't want that but what people don't know is that this is all in your head it tells you that you love him so much and now is the time to be jealous but you should try and convince yourself that this is not right and you will lose him if you don't stop if this still doesn't help then you should sit him down and talk to him before it gets out of hand
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Jealousy is a huge downfall in a relationship, If you want it too work out you are going to have to find a way to chill out.
Why are you so jealous? Ask yourself..
Your boyfriend has the right to see his family, You have the right too see yours. TRUST, Is huge and if you let jealousy get in the way overtime your boyfriend may begin to feel you don't trust him. If there is no trust then the relationship is not going to work. If he loves you, There is no need to be jealous about anything. Has your boyfriend given you a reason to be jealous?
Lets reverse the situation; How would you feel if your boyfriend became jealous of you spending time with your family?..Overtime it would bother you, You'd guess whether he trust you..and before you know it you have put so much stress on your relationship that it is doomed.
Find a method, Try to understand where your boyfriend is coming from and be more open. The worst thing you can do for yourself is to expect him to spend all his time with you and not have any time for himself. Relationships need to breathe once in awhile and perhaps while he goes to spend time with friends and family you should make plans with yours too. It's a healthy thing to do for the relationship.
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Well sit down and talk to him about it. Im guessing your uncousiously just scared of losing him. Jelously(if you realy love somone) is just a form of enxiety (of losing them) Explain that to him. Tell him that you don't want to be that way, but you just can't help it. Hope this helped (:
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