Hey guys. My name is Jelisse Landon and I just wanted to let you know that I am here to help you guys with anything you need. No matter what subject! You guys can ALWAYS come to me for advice when you need it and I will get back to you as soon as possible! I will be your right hand gal in everything. Have a question? I'd love to answer. Want to just talk? I'd love to chat. I love giving advice and you guys can count on me to give the best advice of my abilities.
Just to let you guys know as well I am a 17 year old girl who is very knowledgeable. I will stick up for anyone no matter who it is.Even if you just need a friend, message me :).
If you guys ever need to reach me sooner, my email is: j.m.landon@hotmail.com or you can text me at 289-687-9114. I am available almost 24/7.
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My boyfriend and i have been together 5 months we are both 15 he's a little shy the other day we started making out and i noticed he had an erection he got really embarrassed and tried to cover it up i didnt say anything i wasnt sure if i should he get nervous he doesnt want to do anything else but make out he is shy about me seeing his penis he says its small he's really insecure about it i told him a like him a lot im not sure what else to say or do how do i get him to be more confident? (link)
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Even though this may be an embarrassing subject, you should talk to him about it. Make him feel comfortable and tell him that your ok with it and you don't mind. I don't think you guys should be seeing that kind of stuff so young. Though something like this is a little irregular for a 15 year old guy to be shy about his body parts. Most boys just try to show it off. So like I said talk to him about it. If he ever gets one again just keep going with it (if he says stop you should stop) maybe he just needs a little warm up.
Maybe sometime in the past he has in a relationship and some girl made fun of him and now that made him really insecure about it.
Some guys might feel a little nervous about they're first time.
I really don't know what else to say other then talk to him about it. Tell him it's ok and that your ok with it and tell him he shouldn't be ashamed.
I hoped I helped just a little bit. If you have any more questions you can contact me on here or text me at 289-687-9114. Hope to hear from you soon.
-Jelisse
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ayee thnks :) im 14 too btww! (link)
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That's great! I don't mean to be a creeper or anything but where are you from?
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okay thanks it did. how old are you anywyas? and um does it hurt when its "popped" like what makes it bleed? like i wanna no if it hurts when ur cherry has been popped. like do u feel it? (link)
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As to the extent of how much it hurts, depends on how you're popping it. Slow and gentle or fast and quick, ya know? Some girls dont even pop their cherry the first time they have sex because it's been broken from using tampons, or vigorous exercise, ect.
So, it may feel different for each person depending on how it's done and what types of activities the girl has been doing leading up to it.
I am 14 by the way : ).
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Okay I know that my boyfriend loves me and he hasn't ever said anything. But I am the type that gets jealous easily. Idk why??? Idk how to stop either. Just over stupid things like him hanging out with a friend or even family. PLEASE help. I try to just bite my lip and not say anything. I don't want to be the jealous girlfriend, and I don't want to feel like that.
Help Please (link)
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It's perfectly natural to be jealous. I am the jealous type too. What I do is, I keep myself busy until my boyfriend comes back. I sometimes ask to come along. I've told my boyfriend that I get jealous. Yeah, he laughed at me but he made it all better by taking me along or texting me when he's out. When ever my boyfriend goes out I go out with my friends to the movies or the mall. Just something to keep my mind off of it.
I hope this helped. If you ever need anything, please feel free to text me at 289-687-9114 or email me at j.m.landon@hotmail.com
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Yesterday I hung out with my friends all day. At 6 I went over to their dorm and hung out until 10. There were a couple guys there too but just friends. When I get back he is mad at me because I did not spend the day with him. He says that I have to apologize and that I am wrong. The next day he says that I can't hang out with those friends anymore because they tend to sleep around. I hardly hang out with anyone besides me boyfriend in the first place. Their sleeping around does not affect me at all, they are nice and never push anything on to me. They only do that when they are at parties which i am not allowed to go to without my boyfriend. So because I still want to talk to them he broke up with me. Is this controlling? (link)
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To me it seems like he he's trying to be protective. Maybe he was hurt in the past and doesn't want anything happening to you. Then again, I could be wrong.
Some guys get jealous way to easily. Maybe he was so you to you being with him that he just wants you all the time. Some guys can't stand not having your attention.
So I wouldn't really say it's controlling it's more like being protective.
I hope this helped. If you need anymore help please feel free to text me at 289-698-9114 or email me at j.m.landon@hotmail.com
-Jelisse Landon
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So let me start by saying I don't have a lot of experience with different girls, my shortest relationship was 2 months and my longest was 3 years and that just ended 4 months ago. I was head over heels for this girl from the beginning and I beleive she felt the same way too at the time. We recently both moved to a bigger town to attend school (not living together though) about 2 months after moving she says she wants to break up with me because she doesn't feel the same way about me as she did before, it hurt but I understood and she suggested we still be friends, well three days after she broke up with me she was "seeing" another guy she became friends with after we moved out here, it made me mad to be around them so I stopped, but then she found out he was a douche and stopped hanging out with him, a few weeks after that happened we started fooling around again, sleeping at eachother's house and whatnot and that has been going on ever since, but she says she doesn't want to get back together even though we act like we are. I'm pretty confused about the whole thing and wonder if she is over me why is she keeping me around and if she isn't we won't she get back together with me. (link)
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Have you ever thought about the way she's feeling? I'm not trying to be mean or anything like that but the first thing that comes to mind is she liked this other guy a lot more then you think she did but she completely crushed her and she's hurt. Maybe she's scared to get hurt again. Then again I could be wrong.
Maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you. Maybe she see's you more of a friend then anything else. I have been in a relationship before where I felt like he was more of a big brother to me rather then someone I could be spending my future with.
Then again, you did say you two were fooling around. Which means she does want you in some way. She could just be just using you for something.
I don't want it to seem like I'm picking sides or saying that anyone is the bad guy. I'm just trying to give it to you from all different angles.
You don't have all the details, I don't think. My advice to you would be to talk to her ad see how she's feeling. Ask her about what went wrong between you two.
Hopefully this helped. If you have anymore questions, please feel free to text me at 289-687-9114 or email me at j.m.landon@hotmail.com
-Jelisse Landon
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okay. so i dont completely understand what "popping the cherry" means. like i no it has something to do with sex but like whats the details? (link)
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Popping your cherry is a reference to when a girl firsts has sex. Every girl will bleed a little their first time and that's where the saying comes in 'popping of a cherry.'
I hope this helped. If you ever need anymore help, advice or just a basic question feel free to text me at 289-687-9114 or email me at j.m.landon@hotmail.com
-Jelisse Landon
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Hello, i woke up and my nipple been hurting for 2days now and sometimes underneath it, it aches..I wonder whats going on? (link)
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I don't think asking this question on a site is very helpful unless there is a doctor giving advice.
My advice to you is:
You should go see a doctor and see what's up. He can probably help you better then we can. Good luck!
I hope this helped. If you ever need any advice on anything else please feel free to text me at 289-687-9114 or email me at j.m.landon@hotmail.com
-Jelisse Landon
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so i just met this boy and i am really infatuated with him.
we hav been texting nonstop for a couple of days and today he didnt text me ONCE
im so upset.
clearly if he liked me he would of texted me or something
y am i not on his mind??
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Well, first thing I would say would be that you have to understamd that he may be busy. Maybe you are on his mind but he didn't have time to text back or didn't have access to his phone. You have to be careful, you don't want to seem to desperate. Sometimes it's not the best idea to push a guy to like you because it may drive them away. Maybe you should just wait a bit before actually making your huge move and decide you want to date him. You have to give him time for him to figure out his feelings. Guys are slow sometimes.
Which leads me to my next point... Guys can sometimes be slow and clueless. Some guys may not even be able to take a hint. You have to understand that guys are nothing like girls.
If you really want to get his attention, do something drastic and bold. Stand out. For example, change your hair color, wear something sexy to school to get his attention, bump into him. Just make sure you don't get into trouble doing any of these things.
I know once you like a guy right away your mind jumps to 'Oh my god, I want to date him'.
So here's my official advice:
Wait a bit and let him think about his feelings towards you. Make yourself standout somehow. Talk to him, flirt, get to know him better. Show him why he should date you.
I really hope this helped. If you have any questions, feel free to text me at 289-687-9114 or email me at j.m.landon@hotmail.com
-Jelisse Landon
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Ok so me and my friend had been best friends since the first grade and were best friends for 12years. But about 5 months ago one of her friends moved into her parents house with her. Once that happened she started to bail on me last minute for us to hang out and didn't have time for me anymore and started to change. she claimed it was because she didn't think id want to hang out since she was always with her other friend since they now live together. I understand that part after we talked about it and we kept on talking and were find again. But then about two and a half months ago i found out she was talking bad about our friendship and saying i was the one throwing it away because i stop trying to hang out with her because i got tired of always being bailed on. I confronted her on how she was talking shit on me and our friendship and we got into a fight. We haven't talked since and its been 2months. I miss her so much, it feels wrong throwing everything away after 12years of being best friends.I don't think she even cares about it or me anymore but i want things back to how things were. How do i make things better between us? (link)
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I can relate to this. Me and my best friend have been together for over 15 years. We once had a fight like this and it was terrible! I know how you're feeling and I can totally relate. So here is my advice:
Ask your friend if she can come to let's say a café or the mall or something like that. (Not the movies because you want to be able to talk.) Once she arrives, right away, give her a hug. That show's that you mean no harm and it's friendly. It also show's that you don't want to fight you want to work thingsout. Then you should tell her exactly how you feel. Don't be afraid to be honest. Even though you did nothing you should say sorry and that you feel bad about what happened between you two.
Hopefully she will tell you how she's feeling and you guys can work it out from there.
When me and my best friend had a fight like this I brought something from our childhood or a memory. It kind of lightened the moment.
So I believe the whole point would be talk to her about how you are feeling and how she's feeling but at the same time I want you guys to be comfortable doing it.
I really hope I helped. If you ever need help please text me at 289-687-9114 or email me at j.m.landon@hotmail.com.
-Jelisse Landon
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