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i like this boy
so i just met this boy and i am really infatuated with him.
we hav been texting nonstop for a couple of days and today he didnt text me ONCE
im so upset.
clearly if he liked me he would of texted me or something
y am i not on his mind??
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Well, first thing I would say would be that you have to understamd that he may be busy. Maybe you are on his mind but he didn't have time to text back or didn't have access to his phone. You have to be careful, you don't want to seem to desperate. Sometimes it's not the best idea to push a guy to like you because it may drive them away. Maybe you should just wait a bit before actually making your huge move and decide you want to date him. You have to give him time for him to figure out his feelings. Guys are slow sometimes.
Which leads me to my next point... Guys can sometimes be slow and clueless. Some guys may not even be able to take a hint. You have to understand that guys are nothing like girls.
If you really want to get his attention, do something drastic and bold. Stand out. For example, change your hair color, wear something sexy to school to get his attention, bump into him. Just make sure you don't get into trouble doing any of these things.
I know once you like a guy right away your mind jumps to 'Oh my god, I want to date him'.
So here's my official advice:
Wait a bit and let him think about his feelings towards you. Make yourself standout somehow. Talk to him, flirt, get to know him better. Show him why he should date you.
I really hope this helped. If you have any questions, feel free to text me at 289-687-9114 or email me at j.m.landon@hotmail.com
-Jelisse Landon
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Hey, well first off don't take it so seriously lol i know its hard not to but he is probaly just busy trust me you probaly are on his mind like I said he could be busy or anything(: Hope this helps don't feel bad I'm sure its nothing its just one day.
(: :)
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well you said it's only been a day maybe he was really busy or some guys use that tactic where they don't speak to you for a while in order for you to keep thinking about them it kinda keeps you hooked and plays on your mind like what it's doing to you right now or he's probably playing it cool you know being a guy but if he doesn't text you for another couple of days you should confront him but in a nice polite way, you never said if you were dating but if you're not then he probably doesn't see it as a problem that he didn't text you today
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Just because you're not talking to him doesn't mean you're not on his mind.
You don't want to seem like you always need to talk to him. Plus him not texting you is obviously keeping him on your mind.
So yeah, it doesn't mean that he doesn't like you just because you guys didn't text today.
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He's probably playing tricks with you to keep you hooked. Some guys use this exact method, texting you nonstop for a couple days and then not texting you at all for a whole day so you're left sitting wondering why he hasn't texted/won't reply to your texts. You just have to learn how to play the game, as well. It can be fun once you get a hang of it.
Good luck!
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