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Q: i have been thinking about what i should do for the talent show.i didnt realy thought about it yet or found out some ideas.so what do you think i should do for the talent show?here i will write some of the things that i like:ladygaga justinbieber usher demi lovato and miley cyrus.
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You should do a medley of covers by those artists! Pick snippets of songs from each of them and blend them together to create one huge song with all the artists you love.
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Q: I'm 15, sophomore, female. He's 18, second-term senior, and a friend. We've only known each other for a few weeks, but have gotten very close: writing 2000 word, 21-paragraph emails to each other, my Facebook wall is 90% his posts/tags, as are my notifications, and we talk all the time, and often end up separating as a pair to talk more personally. But he has a girlfriend (of five months), who lives in a separate state. He's been very flirty with me, extra-close, but nothing outright; however, all of our friends, and even people who don't know our dynamic tell me he likes me. I really like him, but I recently heard from his ex's friend that he's a womanizing cheater who flirts with anything that moves and hooks up with plenty of random girls. What should I do? I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I was starting to think we might have had something going on. Help?
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I'd say if you really have a thing for him and your gut feeling says that he might have a thing back, then you should go for it. You have to be subtle at first by snooping around and seeing what you/your friends can find. I'm sort of in the same situation as you currently. Since he has a past of being a womanizing cheater, you need to watch out for that and you can't let him take control of you. You have to be the woman that he needs, not the woman that needs him. This is where a new found confidence comes into play.
In terms of his girlfriend of five months, after a certain point of figuring out if he's into you for sure, you have to talk to him about it. You, for sure, do not want to be "that" girl that breaks up relationships such as this. The fact that she lives in a separate state might be more of an incentive for him to go for you, but DO NOT accept any sort of intimate relationship with him unless he is single. You (I hope) have more respect for yourself, for him, and for his girlfriend than that.
With ruining your friendship, you need to ask yourself if this boy is worth risking a friendship and you need to figure out how much this friendship is worth to you. In developing a relationship, I think becoming friends is a vital part, but after that certain point, you need to figure out within yourself if a relationship with this boy is enough to risk a friendship. On the other hand, you don't even need to risk this friendship. You should hangout one on one and just talk to him about it calmly. Tell him what you want and ask him what he is, bluntly. Sometimes beating around the bush can definitely be avoided.
I hope I helped!
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Edited so that random people don't just get it, sorry for the inconvenience.
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Q: On the surface, I have the perfect life- and in some aspects I believe that. I am a 20 year old female. I have grown up in the most loving family. I am close with my parents and we have never really fought. There wasn't anything for us to really fight about- they were reasonable and I would listen to them. I never felt the need to rebel (although my brother did). I was a very stereotypical girl (very girly, love to shop and go to the beach). Financially my family is very secure and money is thankfully something that we don't need to worry about. I am in the best sorority at my school and I have lots of friends. However, I often feel alone. Boys don't seem to like me, and as a result I am often upset, but i don't vocalize that I'm upset- ever. In fact, I am known as the most happy-go-lucky girl ever. People literally talk about how I am never upset and I put positive spins on everything. However I am just like that on the surface. I am not saying that I want people to know that I am upset- I don't. I only want this feeling to go away. I don't want to be obsessed with getting guy's attention- but I am. However I am not forward at all so that never happens. I just don't really know what to do anymore.
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It's all in the way you present yourself. There's this quote that I love living by:
"Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be."
Maybe part of the reason is because you're allowing the fact that you feel upset to envelope you and tell you that you're upset. Being upset is a mental issue, most of the time. The extent that you let yourself get upset is ultimately up to you.
For the boys section, it's also a state of the mind. I recently got out of a serious relationship in which I told myself most of the time that I needed this guy to live and to be happy. Obviously that wasn't the truth. It was also a lingering thought in my head because all my closest friends were taken and the one friend that was not always complained about how she wanted to be in a relationship so badly. I began to think to myself that men were not beings of necessity in my life. Men didn't define my happiness and only I did, all men did were add to my happiness, but they would never amount to the happiness that I already had within me.
As for getting boys' attention, in being well-off, I believe guys like to see a stable girl. In my past, being friendly always got me the attention of boys because they're more drawn to girls who are able to hold conversations and are approachable. Some guys like the whole chase that comes with getting a girl to like them. You've got to learn how to play the game and be intriguing. Someone once told me that it's more about what people don't see than what they do.
I hope I helped. Good luck!
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Q: so i just met this boy and i am really infatuated with him.
we hav been texting nonstop for a couple of days and today he didnt text me ONCE
im so upset.
clearly if he liked me he would of texted me or something
y am i not on his mind??
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He's probably playing tricks with you to keep you hooked. Some guys use this exact method, texting you nonstop for a couple days and then not texting you at all for a whole day so you're left sitting wondering why he hasn't texted/won't reply to your texts. You just have to learn how to play the game, as well. It can be fun once you get a hang of it.
Good luck!
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Q: My hair is really damaged to the point where I try to dye my hair and it will go in but only in certain areas and it washes out in to days but so imma turn 21 I couple of days I was wondering if it would work for me I don't care if o
It only lasts a day my other ??? Is will it damage my hair more
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If your hair is already damaged, it'll become even more damaged as you dye/straighten/curl your hair. Basically, anything you do to your hair that involves heat or chemicals will ultimately be damaging to your hair.
I've never heard of a case where someone's hair was so damaged that the dye doesn't stay in. Perhaps you're not leaving the dye in for the required amount of time or you're not evenly distributing the dye?
Hope I helped!
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Q: I am a 17 year old girl and i am interested in a younger boy, he is 14. Believe me, i know it sounds bad but if you knew how he treated me, you might understand. The thing is i will be 18 in the month of may, and he will only be 15 in October. Also, it's weird to think, my brother is 12 and the boy i'm interested in is 14. He acts very mature for his age, even with his friends!... and looks like he is 17 or 18. One person that I've talked to about it said he might be infatuated by a pretty older girl that has come his way. Honestly, if that were true, he might have just made a move on me already and he hasn't. My mother mentioned that it's illegal when i turn 18 and if i pissed off anyone in the family, they could turn it into a legal manner, and i could go to jail. I know its different, when the age range is 16-19 but does the age difference really matter in this case, or should I leave it be, since i'm finally happy? PLEASE HELP.
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I know of a couple where the situation is flip flopped and the girl is 14 and the boy is 17. The age range is still the same and they seem to be managing just fine. She (just like the boy you're speaking of) looks like she's 17 or 18 and acts extremely mature for her age. They can talk to each other for hours on end and they have so much in common, despite the age difference.
You only live once and you're definitely not expecting to marry this boy. High school should be about having fun and experimenting and if this boy is as great as you describe him to be, he shouldn't be ordering lawsuits against you if things get bad.
Good luck!
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Q: whenever my "lovely" boyfriend and i make plans a few days before it never happens... and its frustrating and he says it me all the time... but when he comes home im always dressed waiting then he tells me how nice i look and asks me if we can go tomorrow... in my world tomorrow never comes and it never will... do you think he is just embrassed to be with me in public? we dont do nothing together never.... somedays i dont even see us with a future... should i even wait to see if things change
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My boyfriend did this to me all the time. He would also hate to spend time with me if it were the two of us. One day, he promised me that we'd do something together, but then he told me he had a "headache" and that we should just both go home. I did the dirty girl deed of the cold shoulder and I showed him how upset I was. We talked about it face to face and now he's lightened up and we spend a lot of time together. What I think you need to do is just talk it out with him. Tell him how much it bothers you that he tells you empty promises and if he continues with it, I would say wait it off, but don't wait too long. You can't be around a lost soul forever. :/ Good luck!
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Q: 17/f my best friend is anorexic, she has been since last summer it's really bad. She looks like a Skelton and it's really gross. She probably weighs 80 pounds. She is lifeless and boring and always in bad moods. Before this crazy diet she did she was the funnest craziest girl I ever met. I'm considering telling my guidance counselor because I'm really afraid she is going to die. What do you think I should do? I know I can't control her, but I'm not going to watch her die either. People have given me multiple anorexic warning sheets to give her. It's just really bad and I don't know what to do
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Tell someone with authority who can physically help her! You're helping her, just be caring and finding someone to help her cope with her anorexia. Give her those anorexic warning sheets. Try bringing up the topic of conversation with her to see what's going on in her mind. If she's in denial, tell someone! Tell her parents, tell your counselor, tell anyone who can do something. The worst thing you could do is sit while she starves herself to death. Good luck and I hope she gets better.
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Q: I just got the Hot Tools 1.5" Curling Iron and I'm excited to use it! I heard that in order to get waves, you shouldn't use the clamp. My question is how do you wrap your hair around the curling iron without using the clamp? It's not working for me.
Thanks :)
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In order to curl your hair without using the clamp, you just leave the clamp closed and don't put your hair into it. When I use it without the clamp, I put the iron as close to my roots as possible without it burning me and I wrap the hair around the barrel and hold it onto the barrel. I put a glove on sometimes so it doesn't get too hot on my fingers. If you want loose beach curls, leave the last two inches of your hair uncurled or else it'll give too much of a tamed look and make your curls look too perfect to be loose curls. Also, barrels that are smaller in diameter might result in more of Taylor Swift curls (http://wjules.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/taylor-swift.jpg) than loose waves.
You might want to refer to this in order to get the gist of curling without the clamp:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwNgOGOKByQ
Good luck!
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Q: I am about around 5'3 and I'm 13 and I'm about 107lbs. I am kinda worried about my weight increasing because I used to be really fat when I was younger and I don't want to be like that ever again but now I'm average skinny. I skateboard for an hour or more a day and I go to the gym almost everyday , and I play basketball for an hour a day. But I am noticing a wieght increase and fat starting to build on my stomach and thyes. When this started happening I started doing 100 situps every night. This isn't seeming to help very much. I need tips or stratagies on how to helpmy eating habbits or w/e you can do to help me loose 5 or 7 lbs
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I don't think what you see building up is fat. The exercises you do seem like major body building workouts.
It is a fact that muscle weighs much more than fat does and with how active you are, I doubt that you are gaining fat, but building muscle. You shouldn't worry at all.
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Q: For all my life i've pretty much been a naturally slender girl,for one exception- my chubby cheeks! It makes me look 12, were as i'll be turning 16 soon. Everyone tells me it'll be good for when i'm older,i know this,but its doing no good for me now =P. to me, its my only insecurity. I would so love to have some nice,high cheek bones like everyone else in my family!(so its not genetic,luckily). I was looking it up on google, and i heard of some excersizes that can help thin out the face and get rid of "face fat". Do you think this would possibly work? They have some work outs online,but theres one package you can buy-its called "perfectcheekbones". If you've heard of it-do you think its a scam? What could i do to get rid of this chubby face of mine? (it doesn't help that i have a tiny chin!) I'm also wondering what haircuts would look best to make my face look slimmer(and a chin look..bigger? haha),and colors that make someone looks older or bring out cheek bones as well =]. really, if you've got anything on this,it'd help me very much,thanks !
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I have VERY big cheeks, but my cheekbones are high and you can see them.
Honestly, I don't think you should get rid of your cheeks. They're like your trademark, kind of. Everyone knows me because I have bigger cheeks and everyone loves my cheeks. I think your cheeks are fine and they WILL help you when you get older. While everyone is whithering away because of old age, we'll be sitting here with the nice young face.
(:
Lol, accept your cheeks, don't push them away.
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Q: I don't have that the BRAVO channel. So, where can I watch the episodes online? Thanks in advance.
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Youtube is a great resource.
Use it.
(:
I was watching America's Next Top Model on Youtube, since I can never catch it when it actually airs and on the right side where it says 'Related Videos' or whatever I saw 'Make Me A Supermodel', so I'm pretty sure they have it.
(:
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Q: Hi!
I was wondering if it costs money to download limewire? If limewire was legal, and if it does cost money, is it worth it? Thanks a ton!
~Sky
13/f
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Limewire always gave me a BUNCH of viruses.
I don't know about others, but it crashed my computer multiple times.
You can use www.jamglue.com and it works just as well.
You need to make an account for jamglue, but it works really well, usually has all the music you want, and is completely free.
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Q: I'm 16/f and I want to lose 20lbs but I have no self-control/motivation/support.
I'm a vegetarian and I usually eat pretty well: I only occasionally slip for fried/oily/junk foods less than once a month. However, my problem is refraining from eating too much too frequently as well as trying to exercise when I have time.
I've told my mom many times to shrink my meal portions, but she always slacks after a week and then expects me to eat everything she gives me. I have a busy school life (no joke) so that I rarely get a chance to have a life. Then there's the problem with me ALWAYS being hungry!
Can anyone help me find a way to REALLY ask my mom to give me so much food/bad food? How can I get myself more motivated or self-controlled with exercising/eating right?
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Set goal dates for the wanted weight you want, that way, you'll tell yourself you've got a limited time and motivate yourself more. It really works for me. (: The average amount of weight loss is 2/3lbs a week, so don't try losing too much a week or it'll be WAYYY unhealthy.
Also! if you end up gaining weight instead of losing, don't think it's weight from fat! Muscle weighs more than fat does, so you could just be building muscle, all the while, losing fat.
To make yourself feel full faster, you need to eat SLLLOWWWWERRR. It's said that it takes your stomach approximately 30 minutes before it can actually tell your mind it's full, so if you eat slower, it'll give your belly time to shout to your mind.
I really hope I helped, good luck.
=D
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Q: for the last two weeks my boobs have been hurting but only when i tuch them! like a little sore. Than i have also dont seem to be in the mood to have sex in the last 2weeks i havent had sex till yesterday! and i wasnt really in the mood. it was just that i felt sorry for my boyfriend. could i be prego?
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If you haven't had your period that month yet, I'd make a good bet that it's just your period.
Before I get mine, my boobs hurt for a good 1-2 weeks and it only hurts when I bump them or something along those lines.
If you still think pregnancy could be the issues, I would highly recommend getting a pregnancy test.
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Q: i've been going tanning for my prom..and my body is really dark..but my face isnt..it's like..a light orange kinda. i use a tanning maximizer when i go tanning..and i dont wanna be orange at prom. it's THIS saturday..and today is thursday..
so..incase my orange face dosent dye down by then..should i get a foundation that matches the rest of my body? or maybe a shade lighter than my body color??
i dont want to tan my face anymore..incase it get's even more orange..so i'm gunna cover up my face when i go tanning.
what should i do?
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If I were you, I would see if it died down by Saturday morning, if not, I'd go out and buy the liquid foundation that's more of a tan color or to match your body. You could also get the powdery stuff, too. I use the powder one sometimes to hide veins on my cheeks or to look a little tanner during the winter and it works wonders. good luck!
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Q: okay so i am considering going to a casting call this saturday for season 13 of ANTM. I found out that its the first season for girls 5'7 and under only!! My twin sister and I have always wanted to try out but never considered it until now because we are only 5'4ish. What do you think our chances are ? We both have very long blonde hair, huge blue eyes, big lips, about 125 lbs and everyone says that we are different from a lot of girls because we're really funny & have a lot of personality. Is it worth a shot or a waste of time? because i know that some of the people they pick for that are very diverse and different. Or any suggestions as to how we could stand out as different at the casting call? Do you think they would cast twins since they already have on the show? Thanks =)
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I think if you're up for the challenge, you should totally try out for ANTM.
I think the upcoming season is really going to be interesting since it's for people 5'7" and under, so it'd be pretty cool for you and your twin to try out.
You guys both have as much as a shot as everyone else that will be trying out. It's worth a shot and even if you don't make it, at least you tried right? Instead of not trying and thinking back the rest of your life saying, "Oh man, I wish we would've tried out." Ya know?
Anyway, hope you try out. Good luck to you both. (:
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Q: i am 17 years old and 5'1 i weigh 119 and have a small frame. but i totally want to lose weight as fast as i can. i just dont know how to start and what to start with to lose weight. my bad areas are my stomach. definetly need to loose my pooch and tone up and want great abs. how do i do that? i also want to tone my arms uppers back and shoulders so i can wear strapless shirts and tank tope and look great. also my thighs and hips are in need of some work. im just so clueless on what to do.
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Cardio is a great way to lose weight. For example, running, jump roping, jogging, swimming. Things like that.
While losing weight, you might also want to do crunches and lift weights and stuff, but cardio will help you lose overall weight.
And if you start gaining weight instead of losing, remember that muscle weighs more than fat.
Hope I helped.
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Q: soooooo i dated a guy for about 2 years. we broke up but he still talks to me. he basically has been playing games with my head for about 5 months saying all these things, telling me he loves me, then not talking to me for a week, then telling me he doesnt love me, making me want him, what not. i really feel like this is not fair to me at all! idk how he does it, but he just makes me want him sumhow. all i want was to make things the same as they used to be because we had a reallllly good relationship. but for the last few weeks, ive started to get sick of it, i feel like i dont even want him anymore becase ive realized what an asshole he is and whats hes doing to me. so i decided i want to cut it off. so i stopped connection with him and he would call still like once a week, but i wouldnt call or text him, and when we would talk id always be like i dont feel like talking and what not. but then i think he realized that i wasnt on his nuts anymore! and he started calling/texting me more, telling me he wants to see me and hes sorry for what hes done, and ive just kinda brushed it off. i think its MY turn to play the games with him. even if this sounds evil or mean i dont really care. any advice tips to make him hurt & want me?! i want to play games that he played with me.=] yes, it sounds bitchy, but ive been really hurt & its his turn.
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i know most people are going to say, "omg, two wrongs don't make a right, blah blah blah" but,
i love this question(:.
some things i did when my ex did that was
- flirt with guys in front of his face.
- whenever he calls or texts you, answer at first and then cut him off when he gets into the conversation and say you have to go.
OR you can do exactly what he did to you.
One day, compliment him, tell him he's amazing or cute or hot. and then the next be like, why are you talking to me? or stuff like that.
or, when you talk to him, only give one word answers that don't help get the conversation going.
hope i helped! (:
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Hey! I don't go by a name. ;) I try giving the best advice I can possibly give and I never try to sell a person short of a great answer. I'm good at answering questions about relationships, beauty, friendships, but I know a little about other things here and there, so give it a shot and ask me.
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