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how to fix friendship?
Ok so me and my friend had been best friends since the first grade and were best friends for 12years. But about 5 months ago one of her friends moved into her parents house with her. Once that happened she started to bail on me last minute for us to hang out and didn't have time for me anymore and started to change. she claimed it was because she didn't think id want to hang out since she was always with her other friend since they now live together. I understand that part after we talked about it and we kept on talking and were find again. But then about two and a half months ago i found out she was talking bad about our friendship and saying i was the one throwing it away because i stop trying to hang out with her because i got tired of always being bailed on. I confronted her on how she was talking shit on me and our friendship and we got into a fight. We haven't talked since and its been 2months. I miss her so much, it feels wrong throwing everything away after 12years of being best friends.I don't think she even cares about it or me anymore but i want things back to how things were. How do i make things better between us?
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I can relate to this. Me and my best friend have been together for over 15 years. We once had a fight like this and it was terrible! I know how you're feeling and I can totally relate. So here is my advice:
Ask your friend if she can come to let's say a café or the mall or something like that. (Not the movies because you want to be able to talk.) Once she arrives, right away, give her a hug. That show's that you mean no harm and it's friendly. It also show's that you don't want to fight you want to work thingsout. Then you should tell her exactly how you feel. Don't be afraid to be honest. Even though you did nothing you should say sorry and that you feel bad about what happened between you two.
Hopefully she will tell you how she's feeling and you guys can work it out from there.
When me and my best friend had a fight like this I brought something from our childhood or a memory. It kind of lightened the moment.
So I believe the whole point would be talk to her about how you are feeling and how she's feeling but at the same time I want you guys to be comfortable doing it.
I really hope I helped. If you ever need help please text me at 289-687-9114 or email me at j.m.landon@hotmail.com.
-Jelisse Landon
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