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Complicated feelings
So let me start by saying I don't have a lot of experience with different girls, my shortest relationship was 2 months and my longest was 3 years and that just ended 4 months ago. I was head over heels for this girl from the beginning and I beleive she felt the same way too at the time. We recently both moved to a bigger town to attend school (not living together though) about 2 months after moving she says she wants to break up with me because she doesn't feel the same way about me as she did before, it hurt but I understood and she suggested we still be friends, well three days after she broke up with me she was "seeing" another guy she became friends with after we moved out here, it made me mad to be around them so I stopped, but then she found out he was a douche and stopped hanging out with him, a few weeks after that happened we started fooling around again, sleeping at eachother's house and whatnot and that has been going on ever since, but she says she doesn't want to get back together even though we act like we are. I'm pretty confused about the whole thing and wonder if she is over me why is she keeping me around and if she isn't we won't she get back together with me.
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Have you ever thought about the way she's feeling? I'm not trying to be mean or anything like that but the first thing that comes to mind is she liked this other guy a lot more then you think she did but she completely crushed her and she's hurt. Maybe she's scared to get hurt again. Then again I could be wrong.
Maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you. Maybe she see's you more of a friend then anything else. I have been in a relationship before where I felt like he was more of a big brother to me rather then someone I could be spending my future with.
Then again, you did say you two were fooling around. Which means she does want you in some way. She could just be just using you for something.
I don't want it to seem like I'm picking sides or saying that anyone is the bad guy. I'm just trying to give it to you from all different angles.
You don't have all the details, I don't think. My advice to you would be to talk to her ad see how she's feeling. Ask her about what went wrong between you two.
Hopefully this helped. If you have anymore questions, please feel free to text me at 289-687-9114 or email me at j.m.landon@hotmail.com
-Jelisse Landon
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