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I feel a bit lost. I want to do better in my next relationship.


Question Posted Thursday March 10 2011, 11:02 am

Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up last year, and like most break ups it was a horrible time for me. I missed him so much etc. I feel worse because I initiated the break up but by the time I realised (the day later) what i'd lost, he wasn't interested.

From then onwards i've felt so down. I've tried meeting new guys but it's just not working out for me. I meet so many guys and I get to know them but I feel like they aren't "for me" It's not that i'm holding onto my ex, because i'm not. But after the great relationship I had with him, I want to better that in my next. Is it normal to feel this way? It's getting me really down.


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cheryl_diamond answered Thursday March 10 2011, 7:55 pm:
Your ex showed you what its like to have a really good relationship. Even though things ended you wouldnt want to date someone you feel would be , how do I put this... "lower" then your ex. So its only natural you are looking for someone to make you just, and more, happy in the relationship. The only problems that will occur will be the ones you've already discovered. There are few guys in the world that are absolutely AMAZING, so it takes a while to find them. Keep looking. Don't settle.

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