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teen sex/pregnancy
ok well me and my boyfriend are both 14 and we had sex (wich is really bad) but now im pregnant and havent told my parents how do i tell them
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Have you told him yet?
It's best if YOU tell your parents. Which parent are you closer to?
I was 13 and prego, I had a misscarige, but I didn't want to tell my parents that I was prego. Soo I ranaway from home. I stayed with my friend and my mom came looking for me and my friends mom sat down and talked to her and told her I was prego. My mom told my friends mom to tell me to call her. So I called, She was pretty chill about it. She wanted me home and she said that she was going to try to understandd, she wanted to help me. My dad on the other hand, said he didn't want to talk to me and called me a tramp. But when I got home he put his arms out for a hug and he started crying telling me he loves me.
They bothh were trying to help me! they were supportive.
If your closer to one parent then you should sit down and talk to that parent. Tell them you had sex for the first time and now your pregnant. You don't have to tell them about your sexual history because hey it only takes one time to get pregnant. I didn't want to tell my parents because I didn't want to talk about my sexual history, but then I realized I don't have to.
It all worked out good.(:
Sit down and talk, the sooner the better.(:
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Well if i were you i would tell who you are most comfortable talking with. If your more comfortable talking to your mom tell her first. See what all she has to say! It will be harder if you wait because your mom needs to set up doctor's appt. if you decide to keep your baby. But my friends mom was the same bu she got preagnent at the age 16, she decided to keep her but it was hard because she didnt get to go and have fun like she wanted to. So you should talk to your parents and see what all they have to say and let them give you advise. But they need to know soon. Your boyfriend needs to tell his parents as well so they can help out! Good luck with telling them hope it works out!
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Talk to them. The sooner the better. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to tell them, and if you're considering abortion - the harder it will be to do that. You can either talk to both of your parents at once, or one at a time. If I were in the situation, I would want my boyfriend there for support. It's something you really want to get over with. I got pregnant at 15 and didn't tell my parents until it was far too late for abortion to be an option - I got 'lucky' and had a miscarriage, which is a thought I have to carry with me for the rest of my life. I never told them and now I have to keep it to myself because of that. Your parents love you, and even if they get angry for it they still love you and want whats best for you - that's why they could get angry. Seriously, just talk to them. Don't wait. If you want to talk to one of them at a time, decide which of them will be the most understanding. Then ask for their help telling the other. I hope all goes well for you, and I hope you don't have to go through what I had to. Being pregnant puts a lot of strain on both the body and the mind - once you tell them, do what's right for you and you alone. No one else can tell you what you need to do. If you decide you want to have and keep the baby, don't forget that that's at LEAST a 20 year investment that will take a lot out of your social life, financial abilities, schooling; everything. There are many options available to you, and don't forget to consider them all. Most parents are much more willing to listen or consider their child's thoughts on a situation when they have looked into their options.
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Agreed - just tell them. And don't wait! If you're considering abortion, the earlier the better. And even if you're not, you might as well get it over with. You'll be able to plan better what your next move is if you're not so worried about that. Good luck!
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It will probably be easier if you tell you mother first. I told my mother and it didn't go near as bad as I had imagined it would. Then she can help you tell your dad. You just have to get it over with. It will be a big relief!
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Just sit them down either you alone or with your boyfriend and tell them that you are pregnant which wasnt intentional. Also talk to his parents too and tell them.
I know this will seem extremely scary but there options. Hopefully your parents will be supportive and help you through this.
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