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Hi I'm 10 years old and I really want my mom to move to Strasburg, Pa so I can see my friend all the time, but even though I gave her good reasons why to move she still won't move how can I convince her.
BTW these are the reasons I gave her, about school I can transfer to the school in Strasburg.I won't be bugging her about when I can see my friend again, I can get a job and help her earn the money for the house. She can get a new job as a guidence counsler at the school, and she won't have to pay too much for the school.Last of all my house here is boring because there's nothing to do but if we move to Stasburg there will be tons of things I can do, and my mom still isn't convinced thats why I need help ): (link)
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I hate to say it, love, but you're not going to win his one. There's a lot more to where you live than where your friends are. It costs a lot of money to move, and takes a very long time to work things out. If you own a house, it would have to be sold before you could move. If you rent an apartment, you'd have to wait for your lease to be up! Jobs aren't easy to get, and right now if you've got one it's best to keep it. It's also not legal for you to get a job until you're at least 14 in most states.
If your house is really that boring, try making some other friends that you can have fun with! Or try talking to your mom about it, maybe you can come up with something fun to do together or with friends. See if maybe every once in a while you can go to your friend's house for a night or maybe a weekend, or your friend can come to yours. Maybe one month you go to their house, the next month they go to yours. That's what happened when I was your age and my best friend and I didn't live close to each other.
I hope things work out for you, but don't expect to get too far with trying to convince your mom you need to move. Don't forget to think of her in the situation. She has needs too, and you can't be selfish and want everything to happen just for you.
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i have a lot of problems when it comes to shaving by pubic area. my skin is very sensistive and my hair is too dark, so even when i do shave you can still sort of see it under the skin. i want a really smooth bikini area that is flawless. any tips? i have tried everything that has to do with shaving. ive soaked in a bath before shaving, exfoliated, used new razor and shaving cream, and shaved in the direction of my hair. no matter what i do i always get an ingrown hair, or red bumps, or the apperance of hair under the skin. i just want to have a very flawless bikini area. so ladies, what products or techniques do you use to get a nice bikini area?
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I have the same product as you do, love. Sensitive skin, dark hair, and the hair it self grows out of the skin at a very shallow angle - making it so that even when I've just shaved you can still see the hair under the skin. I can't afford to get it waxed, and never liked the concept either. The things that I've found work the best for me, is to pull the skin back while shaving it, so that the hair is forced out of the skin a little further while you do it, and using a 4 blade razor rather than a 3. (I use disposable ones, so that may or may not be something you do already.)
What I do, which sounds crazy to most people, and takes a long long time, is pluck. Every once and a while I get completely fed up with the hairs that don't shave properly (which is just the top, not the "fiddly bits"), and take out my tweezers and have at it. I'll pluck all the dark hairs that show up really well, then shave the rest. I've found that it takes a week or two for them to start growing back. And as insane as it sounds, after the first few plucks it really doesn't hurt!
But if that's not for you, then it's not for you.
Either way, good luck!
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does anybody know where I can find some of those sweatpants that come in black, and have pockets on the side of the legs by the knee?
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It's kind of hard to tell what you're talking about; but I had a thought. They're not quite sweat pants but they look it, and UFO pants definitely come in black and have pockets there!
Here's a link to both a picture of them and one of the cheaper places to buy them: Amazon.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002KA2KAG/ref=pd_lpo_k2_dp_sr_2?pf_rd_p=486539851&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=B000OC478K&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=19N36SYWX8VF2WBQR0ZT
If that's not what you're looking for, then I'm not sure what to tell you! Sweat pants are sweat pants, and you can find them all over the place.
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My boyfriend and i are fed up of just making out so we want to get touchy feely with each other.
I sed i would give a hj which i thought he would say yes to, but he sed he wont let me touch him anywhere unless i let him finger me and im not sure what to do coz he wants to do it while we are in the cinema and i dont know if i should say yes.
BTW i am 14 and he is almost 15 (link)
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Your ages aside, doing much of anything touchy-feely at a cinema is a bad idea. Doing things like that in public places can get you in some serious trouble if you get caught, and there's a likely chance you would. There are people there whose entire job is to make sure that these things don't happen in the theaters!
Also, I wouldn't trust a guy who wont let you touch him unless he gets to touch you first. Personally I think that sounds really suspicious.
I remember being 14, not all that many years ago, and forgive the mother in me that says you should hold off a little while before getting too sexual! You're young and you've got to give yourself time to be young without the sexual drama that comes with taking that step. Some people are ready for it at your age, some aren't. I won't tell you you can't, because it won't do any good to tell you what to do. Just remember, don't let him do anything you're not comfortable with - any decent boy will respect your boundaries and limits, and only push forward when you let him know you're ready.
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I have a boyfriend & he's bi , He likes guys more then girls but he likes me a lot , maybe even love but anyways , I'm worried that I can't turn him on because I heard it's harder to turn Bi guys on , What can I do to turn him on ? (link)
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People in general that are bisexual are with the guy or girl they're with because they want to be with them. There is less drama about "who likes who" and all that because if they don't want to be with someone, they just aren't with that person! A lot of them are very sexual people, and trust me when I say they are NOT harder to turn on! (Speaking from personal knowledge here, love.)
An easy thing to do that can get his mind going? Talk about guys. He'll like that you're comfortable with his sexuality and can openly talk about these things with him. I don't necessarily mean going and saying "hey that guy across the street is pretty cute, isn't he," (unless you're both comfortable with the fact that you'll both be attracted to other people in life). Watch a movie with him and talk about the sexy male lead, or the cute guy in the background. Get his opinion on some of them! One thing can lead to another, quite easily.
If you're bi as well, talk about girls too!
For the most part though, bi guys are just like straight guys when it comes to turning them on. They like attention; little innocent touches, devious glances, innuendos, and all that good stuff. Ask him what he likes! He'll love that you want to know, and it's the easiest way to find out.
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To start off, I'm sixteen and my boyfriend is seventeen. We've been dating for eight months. Whenever I go over to his house he's ALWAYS playing call of duty hahaha. And sometimes he'll tell me to come over and I do thinking we're gonna hang out but he already has a friend over and they just play and I sit there for a litte bit till he kicks him out... Like okay?? Haha he'll just be like "oh hey, come here" he wont even look at me just keep on playing and pat his leg to get me to come sit on his lap. I've kind of discovered a little trick. If I sit on his lap and *oops* I put a hand on his dick he'll kick his friend out in a heart beat hahaha. I mean, he'll eventually do it anyway, after abotu twenty minutes but it's just annoying!! I don't wanna be a naggy girlfriend that shows up and commands he stops playing video games and gives me attention. I also don't wanna come off as a physco bitch to his friend, like I wanna be a "cool girlfriend" and it's not a big deal really... but still! Haha should I just keep the same strategy?? I feel kinda guilty seducing him to do what I want but I want my time with him!! (link)
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Oh Call of Duty, the things you can do to relationships!
I'm going to tell you from experience that COD gets old fast for a girlfriend. Wanting to spend time with him outside of his system doesn't make you naggy or a psycho! If he is inviting you over, then he should make an effort to entertain you - that's just proper rules for having house guests, let alone boyfriend/girlfriend situations. He's got all the time he doesn't see you to play his games. Talk with him casually and tell him that you aren't hugely interested in sitting there watching him play his game all the time, and that you don't want to have to seduce him just to get his attention!
I suppose if you were interested, you could try your hand at the game yourself with him as well. That could show him that you're making an effort to do things with him that he likes and maybe he'd do the same sort of thing for you. Be the bold one and call him to go somewhere with you, out of his house where he can't bring the game. Trust me, you don't want to end up having a love triangle between you, him and COD. It's no fun having a man that won't pay attention to you because he's busy shooting pixels online (or offline, for that matter).
I'd say your best bet is to just talk to him about it and see what happens. You've been together long enough that he'll probably listen to you when you say that it's something you don't like dealing with - and it's perfectly understandable too. I hope this helps!
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so i had this boyfriend. we dated for a few months and then broke up. we have been friends with benefits i guess you can say since the beginning of summer. i like hooking up with him, but he definetly cares about me more than i do him. don't get me wrong hes a sweet guy but i don't have romantic feelings. my relationship before him was 2 years and i feel like i need to "experiment" with other guys and stuff. you know figure out what i really want in a boyfriend and eventually a husband. he gets upset when i hook up with other guys though. but i told him i didn't want commitment andi don't want a relationship right now. i've been hookig up with other guys but i feel guilty cause i'm keeping it from him even though i told him clearly that hooking up with other people is not cheating since we are not in a relationship. can anyone help me with this messy situation? thankss (link)
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I've been in this sort of situation before, and believe me when I say your best solution is to back out. Being friends with benefits with someone is a great way to figure things out about what you like and don't like when it comes to the down and dirty, but it's just going to hurt him more and more if you keep doing things with him. Depending on the guy, it may even encourage him to think you might want more with him again soon. I really suggest that you break that off with him so that he can move on completely. Then you probably won't have him quite as upset by it; and then even if he is that upset, he can't say a word about it because there's nothing between you that he can bring up to argue about. Let ex's be ex's.
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My white bra always shows through when I wear a white tee is this ok? I've tried multiple white tees and they all showthrough. Is this ok? A cami underneath is not
possible with most of my outfits. So is this ok? (link)
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It's ok if you feel comfortable with it. I'll do it on occasion, mostly because it's the bra that shows through the least (out of my collection anyway). If you aren't comfortable with it, that's fine too! If that's the case, definitely go out and get yourself a nude color bra. They're a little obnoxious because "you should find one that matches your skin tone," but if you search around you'll find one that's close enough to work.
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Hey guys, I'm a 19 year old female and my boyfriend is 21. We have been together for four year in September.. Everyone around us is getting engaged and we have been together longer than anyone of them. I dont know if im jealous or worried. I have said to him I want to be engaged, he said no. It makes me feel like he doesnt love me that much to marry me. He says he wants to marry me but wants to wait. I want a big wedding, huge dress ect.. I understand to wait for the wedding, but why cant we be engaged? He says he wants to be able to buy me a huge ring and make sure its beautiful, but I dont want/need that right now, just a small right so show hes mine.. Because of this I have decided to go away to school in the fall. Maybe to test to see if he is my "one" or just to clear my head and enjoy being 19.. Im not sure. What are your intakes of this? Am i right to feel "not loved" or do you all agree with him? (link)
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Trust me, 19 is not the right age to be engaged - I've been there myself (and all too recently, as I am 19 still!). It's always fun to dream about your perfect wedding, it's great to have something that says "yes, I am in fact taken, and this guy really loves me!", but there's nothing that says it has to be such a commitment as an engagement. So what if your friends are getting married? Do you have to schlep along like another little sheep and do the same thing because its what everyone else is up to? Getting engaged puts a lot more strain on a relationship for young people because you come to expect certain things of each other. You do things because you're engaged and not because you're with the man you want to spend your life with - the two are startlingly easy to confuse. "Oh well he did this so I must do this now." "She did that so now I have to do this." "This is what I should do because it's what all my friends expect of me." Don't worry about it! Other people should not be involved in your relationship or what you're doing with it. I got engaged at a (far too) young age, and because of that the relationship completely fell apart but we stayed together for a long time because "we were supposed to." "We're high-school sweethearts, we're supposed to get married and have 2.5 kids and get old together."
Everything in its own time dear. Don't push him into it, because pushing him will push him away from you. If he wants to be with you forever, then he will come to that decision on his own, in his own time.
Going away for school in the fall is a great idea in my opinion; not only will it give you two time apart to develop your own lives and persons, but it will make life far better for you both in the end if you do eventually get married! Go for it and enjoy being young! We only get so long before we have to take on all the responsibilities we can handle and then some.
Not wanting to get engaged doesn't mean that he doesn't want to be with you, and that's something that you should really try to think about right now. Take the materialistic aspects out of your relationship in your mind and see what it means to you then. He shouldn't have to buy you a ring of ANY size to make you happy. It isn't the only way to show you're his and he's yours! Heck, I wear a necklace that my mother! bought me because the stone in it (amber) makes me think of him. The necklace has nothing to do with him OR my relationship directly, but it makes me so happy to wear as just a little reminder of him, and everyone assumes its something he bought me because I wear it almost every day.
So, don't pay attention to what your friends are doing in their relationships. Don't worry about him "not loving" you - because he sounds like he does and you just want him to 'prove it.' Go have fun and get to school in the fall. See where life takes you, don't force the issue!
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i'm 19. i've been on tri-sprintec since feb/march. i've taken it at the same time every day until last week when i was at the beach on vacation and got the hours all screwed up. i still took it every day but at diff times later than i was supposed to. today i had sex w/o a condom, and had already taken my pill at the correct time. are my chances of pregnancy much greater since i didn't take my pill right on time last week? (link)
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As long as you keep taking your pills every day, and took your pill each day for this cycle-month, you should be fine. Keyword: should, because nothing's 100%. I'd still use condoms for the remainder of the month probably, but as long as you didnt completely miss a pill. I don't know about what you're on, but what I'm on (Loestrin24Fe) says that if you miss a pill, just take it when you remember and you'll be fine. If you miss 2 pills, then you have a problem and should stop taking them until your next cycle-month begins. The reason for taking it at the same time every day is because it keeps the level of hormones in your system the same; if you're off by an hour or three, it's going to be lower, but not completely gone!
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Ok here's. The question does size matter do women like a man to be well endowed or average and is it thickness or width iv herd that if a mans penis is small without an erection then when he has one its quite big verses a man with a big penis with no erection doesn't get that big .the question is what do women prefer ? That satisfy a womens pleasure . (link)
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A woman prefers what SHE prefers, not what all women prefer - just something to keep in mind when asking that question. For the most part, my lady friends and I prefer men of average size. But some women definitely prefer a man on the smaller size of average! Both a friend and I have issues with our skin not being very stretchy anywhere - and down there is not an exception - so we much prefer men with an average length and girth because if it's too big its just too big! The skin will tear, it'll hurt and sometimes bleed and all around its an unpleasant mess. But that's definitely NOT true of all women! Because of how things work with me, I much prefer length over width. Every woman is different.
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ok so this is sooo embarrigin = [ so i dont wan to become sexualy active becuzse i have a frckle down there... is that normal i know this is probably so funny but its really embarring and im afraid the guy wont like me or he will be disgusted becuz of it ... = [
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Freckles and birthmarks are nothing to be embarrassed about! They're completely normal, and all it is is a darker bit of skin. Partners love learning each others bodies; all the secrets that no one else knows about. It's part of what makes you different from anyone else. Anyone who wants to be with you for you is going to love that one little mark. And when it gets right down to the heat of the moment, no ones going to be paying attention to that freckle - not him, and not you. I've got a freckle or two and a scar down that way too and it's never been upsetting to anyone. I even have a pretty big birthmark on my left bum cheek! I was embarrassed about it for the longest time and would always try to hide it - but one time my boyfriend asked me why I try to hide it, and he told me he loved it because it was something that only I had, and to prove how much he loved it he went and kissed it a bunch of times! No one's going to mind a freckle. :)
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ok well me and my boyfriend are both 14 and we had sex (wich is really bad) but now im pregnant and havent told my parents how do i tell them (link)
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Talk to them. The sooner the better. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to tell them, and if you're considering abortion - the harder it will be to do that. You can either talk to both of your parents at once, or one at a time. If I were in the situation, I would want my boyfriend there for support. It's something you really want to get over with. I got pregnant at 15 and didn't tell my parents until it was far too late for abortion to be an option - I got 'lucky' and had a miscarriage, which is a thought I have to carry with me for the rest of my life. I never told them and now I have to keep it to myself because of that. Your parents love you, and even if they get angry for it they still love you and want whats best for you - that's why they could get angry. Seriously, just talk to them. Don't wait. If you want to talk to one of them at a time, decide which of them will be the most understanding. Then ask for their help telling the other. I hope all goes well for you, and I hope you don't have to go through what I had to. Being pregnant puts a lot of strain on both the body and the mind - once you tell them, do what's right for you and you alone. No one else can tell you what you need to do. If you decide you want to have and keep the baby, don't forget that that's at LEAST a 20 year investment that will take a lot out of your social life, financial abilities, schooling; everything. There are many options available to you, and don't forget to consider them all. Most parents are much more willing to listen or consider their child's thoughts on a situation when they have looked into their options.
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idk wats worth living anymore. me an my gf jus fight all the time over nothing, an its manly cus i talk about feelings, an she jus gets pissy. im loosing ever so slowly the only thing i love in this life. id die for this girl an for only her jus to get anoyed by me, thats fucked. im loosing everything. all i do is fuck up,, so wats the quickest way to end ur life painless. im tired of feeling pain, i want to jus be in a better place to where i can live an be happy, cus obviously im doing a good job here........... (link)
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Who's to say that when we die we go to a better place? That it's not just the end? Whether or not there is some sort of afterlife, it's not going to be a carbon copy of the way we perceive life now. Dieing isn't finding a better life. Suicide is a selfish way to get out of a difficult situation - and you have to realize that there's no going back from it. Giving up on everything over a girl that doesn't appreciate you is not the way to go. Talk to her. Tell her that you need someone who you can talk about your life and emotions; if that's not her, well, then that's not her. It may be time to move on and find someone new.
I've been there before. I had a 3 year long relationship with a guy that started great and went down hill. We were engaged, living together, ready to spend our lives with each other, and all we could do was fight and fight and fight and maybe apologize every once and a while. In the end I couldn't take it anymore. It was ruining my health, my GPA, and my social life. I know it feels like there's just her in the world and no one else you want, but you'll move on from it. It won't be instant, and it will still hurt for a while to come, but it's the best thing you can do for yourself if you and your girlfriend can't move forward and form a better relationship.
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ok , so im gonna be a freshman and I wanted to be a princess the night of homecoming. But my mom gave me a 75 dollar budget!! i dont know how to find the dress I want for the ridiculously low amount. I really just need to know where to get a dress that will make me loook uh.ma.zing without going over 75 dollars. (link)
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I don't know where you are, but where I went to school homecoming wasn't all that formal of an event - either semi-formal or casual, depending on the year. If it's semi formal, try looking at a Macy's store - they usually have a rack or two of semi-formal/cocktail dresses that are on clearance for very low prices. Try their website too, they're having a sale at the moment.
I also second the idea of craigslist! They have some pretty good stuff that cycles through!
Just look around a lot love; you don't need to spend a million bucks to look like it. :)
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