I have a boyfriend & he's bi , He likes guys more then girls but he likes me a lot , maybe even love but anyways , I'm worried that I can't turn him on because I heard it's harder to turn Bi guys on , What can I do to turn him on ?
mearek answered Saturday August 14 2010, 11:27 am: People in general that are bisexual are with the guy or girl they're with because they want to be with them. There is less drama about "who likes who" and all that because if they don't want to be with someone, they just aren't with that person! A lot of them are very sexual people, and trust me when I say they are NOT harder to turn on! (Speaking from personal knowledge here, love.)
An easy thing to do that can get his mind going? Talk about guys. He'll like that you're comfortable with his sexuality and can openly talk about these things with him. I don't necessarily mean going and saying "hey that guy across the street is pretty cute, isn't he," (unless you're both comfortable with the fact that you'll both be attracted to other people in life). Watch a movie with him and talk about the sexy male lead, or the cute guy in the background. Get his opinion on some of them! One thing can lead to another, quite easily.
If you're bi as well, talk about girls too!
For the most part though, bi guys are just like straight guys when it comes to turning them on. They like attention; little innocent touches, devious glances, innuendos, and all that good stuff. Ask him what he likes! He'll love that you want to know, and it's the easiest way to find out. [ mearek's advice column | Ask mearek A Question ]
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