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living or dieing
idk wats worth living anymore. me an my gf jus fight all the time over nothing, an its manly cus i talk about feelings, an she jus gets pissy. im loosing ever so slowly the only thing i love in this life. id die for this girl an for only her jus to get anoyed by me, thats fucked. im loosing everything. all i do is fuck up,, so wats the quickest way to end ur life painless. im tired of feeling pain, i want to jus be in a better place to where i can live an be happy, cus obviously im doing a good job here...........
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Hunny, let me tell you this story. I got pregnant when I was 16 years old. I had my daughter, Yona, 2 months before i turned 17. The father was my first real boyfriend, my first kiss, my first love, first sexual partner etc... We ended up getting married when I was 3 months along. I loved this boy with all of my heart and I was so happy to have our perfect little family. But as time went on, I guess he felt some sense of obligation to stay with me instead of actually wanting to be with me. After Yona was born, things went downhill very rapidly.
He started having a short temper with me, and became snappy. When ever I tried to talk to him he would just get frustrated and not want to talk.
I was down at my lowest at this point, and it started to get to a point where we didn't fight anymore because there was nothing else to be said; we had said it all. He eventually asked for a divorce, and a guy I had dated for 3 years and been married to for almost 2 didn't love me anymore.
I prayed at night that I would just die, hoping that I would die in my sleep.
I was seriously considering suicide, but then I realized that the best thing for me was to move on with my life. I have a daughter to think about, I have my future, and I'm certain that one day I will find the person that is truly right for me. Just because you love somebody, doesn't mean you're meant to be together forever. Relationships are learning experiences and after one ends, you pick your self up, dust your self off, and apply what you've learned to the next relationship you get in. I'm not saying it's easy to get over someone you love, it's rough, but just remember one day you will wake up and everything will be a bit brighter.
Suicide is not the answer you're looking for. Living your life to the fullest is your answer. Tell her straight up "Listen, I love you and want to be with you. But I have to know if you truly want to be with me aswell".
If you have any more question, don't hesitate to ask.
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She is sooo not worth it! You sound like the ideal BF and she is the one that is fucked up.It would be hard but you have to let her go coz what you have with her is not healthy. i know someone who was in a similar situation once and he used his frustration to build his business. He became an influential young millionaire in the Philippines and in Asia.The girl who dumped him is just another nobody. Make something out of yourself, prove to her and to everyone else that you are not just a fucked up that you are better than what she gives you credit for!
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Who's to say that when we die we go to a better place? That it's not just the end? Whether or not there is some sort of afterlife, it's not going to be a carbon copy of the way we perceive life now. Dieing isn't finding a better life. Suicide is a selfish way to get out of a difficult situation - and you have to realize that there's no going back from it. Giving up on everything over a girl that doesn't appreciate you is not the way to go. Talk to her. Tell her that you need someone who you can talk about your life and emotions; if that's not her, well, then that's not her. It may be time to move on and find someone new.
I've been there before. I had a 3 year long relationship with a guy that started great and went down hill. We were engaged, living together, ready to spend our lives with each other, and all we could do was fight and fight and fight and maybe apologize every once and a while. In the end I couldn't take it anymore. It was ruining my health, my GPA, and my social life. I know it feels like there's just her in the world and no one else you want, but you'll move on from it. It won't be instant, and it will still hurt for a while to come, but it's the best thing you can do for yourself if you and your girlfriend can't move forward and form a better relationship.
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i have close to the same problem, but it's with my best friend, i stupidly and like many stories predict, fell in love with him. i would do anything to see him happy but when i see him with another girl itcauses me physical pain, and in a weird way that most of my friends dont get, its a pain that i enjoy, just cuz its pain. i want to die cuz i want to be the one to make him happy, but he wants the girl that told him togo to hell, not the one that would willingly and without second thought die for him. so your not alone, i just hope your problem gets solved in a better way than death.
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Hey, Its not worth it loosing you life over a girl, if every thing you do makes her get all pissy.
That means is not a healty relationship you should understand that, actaully people think death is a happy place atually its like sleep would you want to be sleep all your life and not be able to wake up.
Dump her shes not worth your pain if you cant do this while dating her talk to other peopole TALK! Not date TALK, see if they are better girls out their ( which thier will be ) and if you like someone else that doesnt give you pain Dumb this one no one is worth anybody's pain
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Hey! Knock off the suicide stuff. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying there's NEVER a reason for someone to end their life, but this sure as hell ain't it. So you and your girl argue. Big deal! If you can't be happy together, then dump her ass and get on with your life. Concentrate on school and/or job training. A new, busy, good-paying job will do wonders for your self-esteem, and you'll be able to find a girl who respects you. Do it!
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Ending your life is one of the most selfish acts you could ever perform. Your family and friends, and your girlfriend, would be devestated. I think you should see a councelor. If your girlfriend just gets pissy with you, maybe its time to find a new one who cares. Ending your life over a love interest never works out, look at Romeo and Juliet, they both killed themselves and couldn't be together anyway. If you're going to kill yourself, you may as well break up with your pissy girlfriend and go find a sweet one. You would die for this girl, but you don't have to, and you shouldn't. That's no reason at all to be suicidal. If you want to be happy, change your life and the elements in it. P.S.- THERE IS NO PAINLESS SUICIDE. I think it's time you move on with your LIFE, and find a hobby and a friend that makes you happy. When you have the thinking notion that "Everything I do is wrong", everything that you do will be wrong, you need to think positively and say okay, this is just a bad day, tomorrow is going to be better. And while you're at it, why don't you ask your girlfriend why she's being such a bitch? She obviously doesn't appreciate you the way someone else would, so dump her.
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