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am i a whore
ive been getting drunk and making out with a lot of guys nothing serious or crazy but recently i got very drunk and made out with this boy and gave him head.
i feel so weird about it because i think the guy hates me and its making me feel queezy.
i have no feelngs for hthis boy, in my eyes it was jsut pure fun, but to him i guess it was something bigger i dont know.
we havnt spoken since and i dont even want to just im left with this really awful feeling.
i feel like i was punched in my stomach i dont know what to think.
how do i get rid of this feeling and why is this boy thinking so much?
he was also drunk and had free choice!
i know im being kind of vague but hopefully someone could help me
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No you're not a whore but I do believe you've got some serious emotion problems. I'm not sure if it's home, school, friends or relationship issues but something is causing you to seek the release of getting drunk and having the approval of a boy to make you feel better. There is nothing wrong with partying with your friends or wanting to meet a new boy but if you're there to get drunk, find a guy, fool around, leave him and then do the same thing next weekend, you may need to talk to a counselor. Let me know if there's anything else I can help with and good luck.
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This doesn't make you a whore!
Just like you I get drunk like every weekend, And I make mistakes also, I Have Gone farther, But I don't Consider myself a whore. I read this book and it says that alcohol does affect your sex life, So it doesnt make you a whore. Things just happened, And hey everything happens for a reason. You can go ahead and keep doing what your doing just try to keep your limits.
If you feel like your getting too drunkk then quit drinking.
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You aren't a whore. You are just someone who made a very bad lapse in judgment while intoxicated. You're feeling regret and remorse for doing so and that's normal and should eat at you a bit.
But you need to move on having learned a valuable lesson. You need to be in control at all times especially with alcohol and should have others looking out for your welfare or not drink at parties.
While he may have been drunk and as long as this was with both your consent than nobody is guilty of anything more than bad judgment. You're equally at fault for behavior sexual or otherwise while drunk.
It's unfortunate but he's just a random person with no real concern or connection to you. That's why he doesn't talk to you and probably won't especially if regretful as you are.
You can't determine if the experience was anything more than instant gratification for him. You can't tell if he hates you or not either. At any rate you're feeling queasy because of what happened and not anything he may or may not despise you over.
The only way to get rid of your feelings is to ACCEPT what happened here, forget about him, move on and let this bad experience guide you in future situations with sex or alcohol consumption.
You also need to think long and hard about who you make out with and when and why before getting drunk and not partake in that behavior. That's how you will get a bad reputation really fast even though there's not much harm done.
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