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actually shit that happened about why i wanna run away
ohk i was suppose to stay the night at my friends caitlyns but i ditched and went to some guys house there i had sex smoked weed and my best friend got beat the fuck up by some drunk bitch .the next morning cops r looking all over for us they find us my friend goes to juvi and her mom goes to jail those guys that we had sex with told us they were 16 but they were really 19 and 20 .i had to take a pee test came up positive now i have more shit added to my record .my life is a living hell hole and i might get sent to juvi again .wtf do i doo? should i run away?
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You've made some very adult decisions when it comes to what you do. Not good decisions, but you have the right to choose to make mistakes.
However, that right comes with a great deal of responsibility when it comes to the consequences. You've made your proverbial bed... now comes the fun part.
You're seeing what happens when you make bad choices. What you do with these consequences is up to you. Do you want to continue to live your life like this? Chances are that on this path, you'll end up on harder drugs, end up a teen pregnancy, get one or more STIs, get raped or worse. In and out of juvie... is that how you want to live? You only have until age 18 to sort yourself out, and changes can't be made overnight.
Running away won't solve anything. You'll be the same you, just somewhere else. If you're under 16, you'll be sought after by police and returned home. If you're over 16, you'll still worry your family sick, and they'll likely still send police out looking.
Where will you live? To rent an apartment you have to be at least 18. Even if you find a place, usually they require a deposit and references. How will you support yourself? Honest work is out, because of your criminal record, unless you can find someone to pay you under the table without a SSN. Are you going to be a panhandler, living on the streets? An illegal underage sex worker? Those are traps that, statistically, you'll never get out of. There's no future.
Things can still change. You're young. There's a whole future ahead of you if you make the right decisions for yourself. This may mean doing things you don't quite want to.
Stay and deal with the legal stuff for now. If they offer you an out in any way, you jump on it like a fat kid on cake. Addictions treatment? Heck yes. Just make sure that you actually go through with it (even though pot is non-addictive... LOL). If it means never smoking weed again, so be it. Remember, this is your whole future we're talking about here. Is it worth giving up a few puffs here and there? I'd say so.
Here's where I mention that I'm actually pro-marijuana. I don't have an agenda that I'm trying to push on you. I believe it should be legalized, and I think it's far less harmful than alcohol. Then again, there's a big difference between being a social drinker and an alcoholic. If you're smoking weed all the time, there's a problem. It's a sometimes thing ;) However, for you, it might need to become a never thing because you will be under constant surveillance from here on in because of your history with it. Unfortunate, but true. That's why I'm advocating giving it up.
Try making some constructive changes. Volunteer for a day. Start exercising regularly. Eat right. Just little things that will help make your life a little bit better. Find a hobby that won't land you in prison. Build a life around something other than drugs, police and sex. You'd be surprised at how much fun you can have, even when you're dead sober.
Use this as a now-or-never chance to get your life on track. Think of where you want to be in a year, 5 years, 20 years, and think of how you can make that happen. Put your best face forward, and things will start to get better. It will take time, but you've got that in spades.
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Well, I got one question?
What the fuuuck happenedd to the guys?
But wow, Kinda been through similar shit.
Do NOT Runaway It only makes things worse.
If your really that upset about things, Then stay in your room, sleep all day, Don't talk to anybody til things are done and over with! Or maybe tell them ya know i'm tired of all this bullshit i made a mistake oh well. Just ask them to get the fuck off your case!
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face upto what you have done dont runaway you are pregnant so you need to do what is best for the child and get you life back on track.
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The problem is since your pregnant if you run away,first you might not have no where too stay and that's not good for the baby,and you also wont have money to support yourself or the baby,if you have a friend that is willing to help you go stay with her and if you do get sent to juvi ask a friend or someone to help you out and get you out and then repay them with money or doing stuff for them and dont do what you did that night its not worth it and there could be worse consequences,.
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