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I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a crush on my BF and she is trying to impress him. Should I do something about it? It is bothering me a lot. I didn't ask my bf about the girl yet. Should I ask him? How can I ask him? or should I just ignore it?
BTW we don't share our couple picture online or post anything about our relationship online. As me and my BF both are very private person. Our close friends and family members know about our relationship. But we don't showoff online. (link)
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If it's truly bothering you and has been for months, I'd definitely talk about it. It might bring you some peace of mind. You say it seems like they chat sometimes? So could this be a friend? Being that you keep your relationship private in regards to social media & say his close friends and family know of your relationship, could she be apart of that? Doesn't hurt to ask. You speak highly of your bf so surely he should be understanding? Just don't be afraid to set boundaries, don't pretend to be okay with something you're not..hope everything gets cleared up for you. Best of luck 🤞
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So long story short I had this friend and we had a Snapchat streak. Then she goes on her Snapchat story saying “she’s done and shes leaving social media and ending all streaks” so I messaged her and asked what was wrong and she said she doesn’t wanna talk about it and I told her I’m here if she needs anything she said “Ik” so literally 30 mins later she goes back on social media and posts like she didn’t have a mental breakdown. She also killed our streak, but the next day she sent me a snap so I was confused and just opened it then sent her one back and then she stopped sending me them. So it made me to think she sent that by accident and that she’s actually still doing streaks but ended it with me. I also noticed she’s friends again with this guy she had a fight with and part of the reason why they fought was because of something I didn’t even tell him but was involved in what she did. I messaged her asking her what I should do on my bday she said “idk I’ll talk to you later I gtg” she used to never have to leave convos so quickly. I think it’s jusy affecting me because Snapchat is how I stay in touch with her now that she ended the streak it’s like she doesn’t care. (link)
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I think she might be intentionally trying to distance herself from you. Therefore unfortunately, I think you should do the same. I know it can be hard especially since this might of come as a shock to you but if you believe she's sort of over the friendship don't beat yourself up about it too much. If she misses the friendship she'll reach out to you. If not, just move forward. Trust me, genuine friends are much better to have around. Good luck
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sometimes i love the way i look and sometimes i feel disgusting. whats wrong with me? (link)
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Your insecure nothings wrong you , you just think something is wrong . Pay attention to why you love the way you look & why you don't compare & contrast then think ? aren't i the same either way .
Not bipolar , and nothing's wrong with you (:
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So my bestfriend has a boyfriend but she hangs out with my boyfriend all the time and i had this gut feeling that they were messing around and so i had went on a field yesterday and i got news from one of my other friends that they were touching all over each other during lunch and i was mad but wat do that means when that happens (link)
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Dump him! He is not worth itt now you know who your friends are and she is not one of them be happy single then being miserably taken:)
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I am 23 years old and Me and my boyfriend were together about a month when i found out i was pregnant(with my first)I am now 12 weeeks along and things are not looking good. We have been arguing and i catch him in little lies about stupid things. Which makes me wonder if he lies about other bigger things. I dont think i am in love with him but i am afraid to break up cause i don't want my kid to not have a father.. I only say this because he has a daughter already that he never goes and sees of make an effort to be a good father. Is staying with someone for a baby a bad thing or am i stressing about nothing?? (link)
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Find someone that will care about your baby doesnt necesarily have to be him all that baby needs is love if he shows that he will care for that baby give him a chance but if not then let him go you and your baby are worth more.
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i'm 22 f and my bf is 24 we've been together for 4 months but were friends for 2 years before. resently conversations about the future have been coming up. he says that he would love to marry me and be with me always but wants to be together for longer before he makes that comitment. however when the subject of kids came up he was more excited. i want to have kids with him but i feel that this is more important to him then marriage. which doesn't fly in my books. i'm a little old fashioned that way. is this just me being crazy or should i really worry about it. (link)
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lol your not crazy i feel the same way,you shouldnt worry about it just let him know when the subject comes up:)
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Okay I hang out with this guy at school and were really close. Well I think he likes me and then he goes and asks out my best friend what kinda guy does that!!!! (link)
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Ha damn thats exactly what happened to me but the girl wasnt my friend,honestly forget him in the relationship way i didnt and i went through so much pain if you dont really like him be his friend or if you think you'll be okay be his friend but as soon as you start feeling like you cant get over him try hard!to forget him it will save you some pain:)
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hi i know your probly 28 or older now but im 12 and my bf asnd i have been to gether for a while now and well we really love each other and he proposedd to me and well i dont know if i shoudl telll my parents cus i told him yes cus he\'s all i want abd everything and is it to young and well ive only told this to you and another person and i dnt know wat to do were engaged and all but how would i tell my parents and his parents were both engaged and i love him so much my heart skips a beat plz help me and im a female
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Aww thats sweet but 12,? lol yall cant tell whats gonna happen in the future yall can only hope for a good one together so ya can wait,your too young and wooo when i was younger i hated hearing that lol but its true people change i hope yall stay together and if yall do then in the future yall can get married:)but being engaged now? too young
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i was talking to my boyfriend and we started talking about sex (we were sending dirty messages etc. no pix). a little while later we started talking about our future and he said that he wanted to have sex for real and asked how i felt about it. i told him i wanted to stay a virgin and he told me that hurt his feelings and he got mad. then i got mad at him for thinking i would actually just hop in bed with him and we got into a fight. he said he was sorry but im still mad. what do i do? (link)
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Well first he had no right to get mad because that is your decision and his feelings shouldn't of got hurt not saying your boys not a good guy but him getting mad doesn't really make sense if you wanna stay a virgin he needs to respect that don't ever let him pressure you into it,and if he tells you that will show love don't listen because him waiting until you are ready will really show love.:) make your own decision
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Im De im 17 i have a 3 yr old son.i got pregnant at 13 and had him when i was 14.me the guy was together for 9 months and when i be pergnant are parents made us break up and everything. he wasnt in my sons life for the longest now he is tryin to be daddy and everything is good and im still in love with him dnt say im to young to be in love cuz i kno what what love is but my question is why am i still in love with him after he treated me so wrong and everything? (link)
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i think you still love him because maybe when you fell in love he was sweet and he changed or maybe because you have a baby that's his and yours and thats very special to you,if he is trying to change and be a daddy let him for your baby and maybe things between yall will get better,
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What are the dangers of giving a blow job? I am from Jamaica. (link)
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theyy could have herpes or something and you could get it on your mouth,.
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ohk i was suppose to stay the night at my friends caitlyns but i ditched and went to some guys house there i had sex smoked weed and my best friend got beat the fuck up by some drunk bitch .the next morning cops r looking all over for us they find us my friend goes to juvi and her mom goes to jail those guys that we had sex with told us they were 16 but they were really 19 and 20 .i had to take a pee test came up positive now i have more shit added to my record .my life is a living hell hole and i might get sent to juvi again .wtf do i doo? should i run away? (link)
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The problem is since your pregnant if you run away,first you might not have no where too stay and that's not good for the baby,and you also wont have money to support yourself or the baby,if you have a friend that is willing to help you go stay with her and if you do get sent to juvi ask a friend or someone to help you out and get you out and then repay them with money or doing stuff for them and dont do what you did that night its not worth it and there could be worse consequences,.
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My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin? (link)
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I think you should let him know about that then maybe he could be the one to say if your a virgin or not,just let him know thats the past and you like him only now {if you do) so your relationship wont be ruined.:)
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Ok so I was in a relationship with my ex for 2 and a half years..and he broke up with me in april, I'm really glad he did break up with me and all...and i currently have a new boyfriend who's very sweet :) and is the best thing that happen to me, but sometimes i still think bout my ex, I don't love my ex anymore, yet he pops up in my mind. so are there tips that could help me forget bout him? (link)
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I had the same problem i have a boyfriend now but i would randomly just remember my ex'maybe if you think about you and ur boyfrends future you'll start forgetting about your ex,and also if you think about the good times with you and your current boyfriend you'll slowly but surely forget about your ex.:)
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I sit across from my crush in class and we look at eachother all the time and its cute but also awkward. we dont really talk that much but just stare. last year we sat closer and were friends and pretty normal around eachother. i dont know what to do because i feel very tense and uncomfortable everyday during class and it looks like he feels the same. we're both 16 so you think we'd be past this whole staring game. i dont want to confess but this is getting kind of ridiculous. what should i do? (link)
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When yall get out of class try to talk to him,say'do you like me?' but say it comfortably i know your nervous i use to be so so nervous around crushes but if you dont ask or try some form of figuring out you'll never know,(:
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please read and help me!
ok so there is this boy that i like and i have been liking him since last year around this time. last year was the first time i had ever seen him but i didnt actually talk to him. i would just see him around every once in a while. we just knew of eachother like we had alot of friends in common so i added him on myspace and that was the only way i would ever talk to him. so then last week i was at my sisters school and i seen him there and i noticed he was following me around and then he finally came up and talked to me the first time ever in person. he was all like hey i know you and stuff and it was like he went out of his way to chase me and talk to me and he was kind of flirting and then i had to leave. i didnt know when i would see him again and then the next day i was walking down the street with my friend and i happend to run into him he said hey come over here and so i did. and he was really hitting on me and i was hanging with him in front of his house for a while. and then he said he had to go inside and so he gave me a hug and asked me to come over the next day and so i did. and then after that he wanted me to come again. so this was all going on like last week. and on friday i was over there and then i left because he said his mom was going to come home and he didnt want her to freak out because she dont know me so his friend walked me home and on the way his friend was telling me that this boy likes me and that he said he wants me to come over on monday. and so i did and i was only there for like 15 min and then him and his friend left to his friends house and said for me to come over on wensday so i was kind of dissapointed that day. and then the boy i like sends me a message saying for me not to come over tomarrow. so i wonder why he doesnt want me to come all the sudden. what did i do? and i have heard that he has a gf and that he cheats on girls and that he is mean i dont know what to think. but i did realize that he would talk about all these other girls sometimes with his friend like right in front of me and i thought he liked me and its making me think all boys are the same because i keep getting hurt. its like he came into my life and then wants to walk right out of it i dont know. what is his problem and what should i do? i dont think i deserve to be treated like this. please help (link)
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I can relate,me and this boy started texting and he said he liked me,i started catching feelings and then weeks past and he texted me and said o btw im not single anymore i felt so ugh unexplainable feeling;i did cry then wondered why would he lead me on but maybe you should look hard for someone else or just hang out with your friends to forget the situation;i handled it bad really bad i was just so hurt but i got better(: and no you dnt deserve to be treated that way just talk to frends'do activities,and you'll soon forget all about the situation or atleast about the pain.
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