Hi!! I'm Olivia and I'm a senior at my high school where I'm also a cheerleader. In fact I'm this years cheer captain which is really an honor. I have one sister Ashley she's my best friend we tell each other everything. I have one niece my sister's daughter Bridget she's the most amazing little girl in the world.
I LOVE giving advice!! I've been a monitor on many peer pressure groups. I know about teen pregnancy and being a teen mom,my sister as one. I enjoy school,boys,and cheerleading. I LOVE beauty and fashion it is part of my life I think it is an amazing way to express yourself.
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Age: 18
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I am an almost 13 year old female. Please read!
There's a guy I really like @ school.
Will I sound 2 desperate if I tell him that I like him? What if I asked him what he would do if ppl thought we were a couple? (ppl do think we are a couple BTW). What are the good things & the bad things about doing this?
Thanks 2 everyone who answers in advance! (link)
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It doesn't sound desperate if you ask him if he likes you. Although I would hold off on the couple think until you ask.
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Hello, I'm really confused. I'm not sure if I'm 'inlove' my family tells me I'm too young, but I'm 15. It's not like I'm the age of 10, like a lot of these girls.. this was my first 'love' I believe. but everyone just has the same opinion that I have talked with. I would like someone elses.
If theres any advice anyone could give me that would be great.. (link)
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Yes your young. But I know people who have been together since your age. Because this is your first love and you are 15 I think your family doesn't want you to be so caught up in one guy you're young what's the rush? But no one can tell you that you are in love or not that's one thing you have to tell yourself.
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Okay this may be kinda long im sorry just bear with me please. so here is the story... my parents have been together for 15 years. It will be 16 this march. I guess my mom was talking to an ex boyfriend on facebook, then they started e-mailing and i guess they met for lunch a couple of times. This ex of hers is also married and has a wife and children. Well my dad told my mom he had a bad feeling and he knew that she had been talking to him. Yet he said word for word what was in their e-mails. I know that he went through my moms email there is no way he could have known word for word what was in the e-mail. Which i dont think is right at all but it wasnt right for my mom to be talking to this guy either. she told me that my dad had found out that she was talking to this ex a while ago and asked her to stop. Yet she continued behind his back. My mom is 36 and my dad 40. Im 17 years old and i have a younger sister who is 10 and a younger brother who is 6. I guess i just dont understand why my mom would do something like this. She is always the one who says "if your happily married you shouldnt need or want anyone else and when you do it is time to end the relationship." But i know for a fact that she is madly in love with my dad. Apparently this ex meant something to her or she wouldnt have done this. but she came crying to me yesterday saying that my dad wants a divorce. me and my mom have a very close relationship and she apologised for not telling me about this sooner. my dad wont even talk to her. I dont know what to do or say. He handed her two grand in cash yesterday and told her that it would get her on her feet and she needed to leave and she told him she wasnt going to leave us. I guess all im asking is what do i do here. Me and my mom have always been closer than me and my dad but i feel sorry for my dad, yet i feel sorry for my mom. im stuck in the middle here and im confused! i just need to know how to act and what to say. If my mom leaves im going with her but i dont want my dad to be mad at me for leaving him. See my dilema? any advice would be greatly appreciated. thanks in advance! (link)
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I understand!! First off if it was just lunch why hide it? But it does say a lot that your mom apologized to you. Like you and your mom me and my mom are very close. I know that even at 17 it can be scary in the fact of where am I going? Am I staying here? I know both of your parents love you and your siblings and even still each other but your dad is upset he can't believe that his wife of so many years would do this. I have to say not many men would give their wives money like that to get on their feet that says something. If you go with your mom I'm sure your dad will understand just because you move out doesn't mean your leaving your dad in the dust. You can still go stay with him,talk to him,go out to eat with him. The only difference is that your parents and you are not living together. Who knows your mom may move out and they might work this out or they might not whatever happens is meant to happen. If you need to talk feel free to message me my parents got divorced when I was 9 so I understand what your going through!!
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I'm a freshman this year. I am very social. But I will admit more so outside of school. I don't like to talk a lot at school I guess. Well I was wondering how people make friends with upperclassmen..? I am very comfortable within my grade I will talk to anyone in my own grade just not in others. I guess you could say I get kind of intimidated. How do girls make friends with guys that are like seniors? How is it done... Lol. How can I talk to them without them thinking 'stupid freshman'. (link)
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I think everyone has been in this place. I will be a freshman again in college next year and even though I will have junior friends and older from high school it still makes me nervous I want to make more friends too.
The best few ways are to make connections I'm sure anyone of your friends might know someone older and of course they know the older people in their classes.
Join clubs my first year in middle school I started cheerleading I did it from my first year in middle school to my senior year in high school plus I will be doing it in college. In fact cheering is how I met some older people.
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I really want to get pregnant. Its not that I want to have a baby as much as just have that feeling of being pregnant. All pregnancy women are so pretty with that pregnancy glow about them and everybody is always rubbing their bellies and so excited about them having a brand new baby. I talked to my bf and said i really wanted him to get me pregnant and he was like kind of unsure but said he would think about it. I was thinking of going on and throwing away the box of condoms i have here so he'd like HAVE to do it with me without them? But then I'm just kind of unsure. I mean a baby is pretty time consuming and I don't want people to think I'm evil if I give it up for adoption. Being pregnant really is so cute though. Advice? (link)
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I'm really glad I came across this. My sister got pregnant at a young age.
You're only 15 that is WAY TOO YOUNG not only to do it on accident but also because you want to. You do know that if you get pregnant and you decide to keep the baby you have this life to take care of for 18 years. You can't pawn it off on someone because you think about being a teen again it doesn't work that way you're a mom now you have to be one. If you decide to give it away what happens if it wants to find you in 15 years? What would you say? "Oh,I'm sorry honey. But when I was your age I wanted to be pregnant but not really keep you I just wanted to feel pregnant." A lot of people are not mature enough to bring a new life into this world and I'm sorry but you would be one of them. You need to understand that just because you want to be pregnant for the feeling comes along with other things and most of them are not as nice as you're thinking. You're an unwed 15 year old so right there people at your school and in your town will not think the best,you'll have to miss school,you'll be up and down with the baby(if you would keep it). I mean it isn't all as glamours as you're thinking it will be. Most of the things you have described are from woman who are married and want a baby not to be pregnant but to bring a life into this world to take care of it and raise it. Not to mention to hurts like hell. Have you tried passing a bowling ball? You shouldn't do it it is a selfish act you not matter what you decide to do with it if you get pregnant you're child will have a hard time with it almost like you didn't want him/her. PLEASE rethink this. If you need someone to talk to I can always put you in contact with my sister!!
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