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How do people make friends...?
I'm a freshman this year. I am very social. But I will admit more so outside of school. I don't like to talk a lot at school I guess. Well I was wondering how people make friends with upperclassmen..? I am very comfortable within my grade I will talk to anyone in my own grade just not in others. I guess you could say I get kind of intimidated. How do girls make friends with guys that are like seniors? How is it done... Lol. How can I talk to them without them thinking 'stupid freshman'.
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One word. Flirt.
Its not hard, a guy will respond to any flirting. You dont have to have sex with the guy, but flirting opens up a lot of doors that you wouldnt have previously had access to. Just be nice to people and talk to them. i know it may seem hard but i promise after you start doing it for a bit it gets much easier. It also helps when you turn 21 and you can go to bars and meet people there.
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I think everyone has been in this place. I will be a freshman again in college next year and even though I will have junior friends and older from high school it still makes me nervous I want to make more friends too.
The best few ways are to make connections I'm sure anyone of your friends might know someone older and of course they know the older people in their classes.
Join clubs my first year in middle school I started cheerleading I did it from my first year in middle school to my senior year in high school plus I will be doing it in college. In fact cheering is how I met some older people.
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first off not all seniors judge you by your grade, in fact some seniors love freshmans :) and 2nd, just be yourself talk to them like you do to your freshman friends, we seniors are just like you :P i mean we're only like 3 years older. Acting like someone else will only make us think stupid freshman xP
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