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relatoinship, friendship, or nothing???
17/F
my friend and i have been friends sence we were in the third or 4th grade, maybe even younger. wll about a month ago he broke up with his gf and 3 weeks ago i broke up with my bf. we grew up in the same church but lately i haven't been going on sundays. so sunday before last he called me and fussed at me for not being there in a month. we stayed on the phone all day long catching up on the things we've missed. (FYI: i've like had a crush on him fo like forever) well he told me about this football party his family has every time alabama (roll tide) plays and invited me and when this past saturday came i went. some how we kind of like wondered away from every1 else and we started talking, next thing i know we were having sex. well this past sunday we both felt weird at church, HE EVEN TOLD ME IT WAS WEIRD SITTING NEXT TO ME, but i felt the same way to. see after we had sex i guess we were going together, because he said so. (which i'm ok with :) ) problem is we talk daily but i don't feel like we're in a relationship, and i don't wanna tell him that because it may ruin our relationship and our friendship (which i realy like). is it me? is it him? i don't know whats wrong with me? i've liked him for like 4ever and i still do but i feel so weird on the inside when i see him. what do i do????
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You should confront hum! Lack of communication will cause this to end in disaster. just ask him what's in his mind and what you are to him, if he wants to be in a relationship right now and why the whole sex thing happened. get on the same level. if he has not asked you to be his girlfriend, you are not dating,
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I think you've answered your own question. If you are "afraid" to bring something up to him, you're not in a relationship. A real relationship makes your life easier, not harder.
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I am sure its because you have been friends for so long. You feel that your still just friends. hang out a little more go on a few dates things may change you two both have to be comfortable in a relationship setting. go slow on the sex. thats something special.
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