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I Want Rough Sex
My boyfriend and I are sexually active and we both like sex a lot haha but I'm kind of into experimenting. He's just happy with whatever I guess, because we talk and are very open about stuff, but he doesn't really have any things he wants to try. Like when I asked him, he said "I love sex already, it couldn't be any better". But the thing is, I kind of want to have rough sex...I'm not sure why but I think that would be a major turn on for me. But I don't really know how to explain to him what I want...like if I said "I want rough sex" he'd probably ask me what exactly I meant by that and I don't really know what to say haha. So basically, how should I explain this to him? And also, if you're a guy, would it be a turn on for you? I know everyone's different but I'd like some other people's opinions :) thanks!
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Find out exactly what it is you whant and start of gentle to get him started and come up with a safty word that he or you can use if it all get to mutch and stik to that word it will be best for you both and you never now you might bring out the animal in him ;)
good luck :)
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The best thing you can do is go check out some porn sites (redtube or xhamster) and research bondage or slaves and see what appeals to you. Then, when you've narrowed down the field, find a favorite video, show it to your BF, see what his reaction is and go from there. If he doesn't seem to interested then you may want to tame it down and ease him into it.
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I think you need to be more explicit and know what you mean by rough sex before you ask a boyfriends for "Rough Sex".
Rough Sex can mean a lot of different things to different people. If you mean not to be gentle in your love making that you want it fast and hard then say that. Because rough sex can also mean you want to experiment with BDSM which involves such things as being tied up and possibly beaten. Are you asking your boyfriend for different positions like doggy style where he can smack your ass while making love.
Do you see my point; rough sex means different things to different people so be specific in what your asking for and do not be afraid to spell out exactly what you want. That way you both know what is expected.
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Just tell him beforehand (or even during sex). I really don't think he's going to say no.
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You don't have to explain it to him, When your having sex it doesn't have to be just slow or rough, it can start slow and then get harder and rougher.
While your making love, just keep moaning so he knows your enjoying it, and through the moans just whisper to him "harder, faster..." and pull him close until it feels right.
Then after, while you are still cuddled up in bed, tell him your really liked him new technique and you'd like to try that again.
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