Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


why did he do this


Question Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 3:42 am

please read and help me!

ok so there is this boy that i like and i have been liking him since last year around this time. last year was the first time i had ever seen him but i didnt actually talk to him. i would just see him around every once in a while. we just knew of eachother like we had alot of friends in common so i added him on myspace and that was the only way i would ever talk to him. so then last week i was at my sisters school and i seen him there and i noticed he was following me around and then he finally came up and talked to me the first time ever in person. he was all like hey i know you and stuff and it was like he went out of his way to chase me and talk to me and he was kind of flirting and then i had to leave. i didnt know when i would see him again and then the next day i was walking down the street with my friend and i happend to run into him he said hey come over here and so i did. and he was really hitting on me and i was hanging with him in front of his house for a while. and then he said he had to go inside and so he gave me a hug and asked me to come over the next day and so i did. and then after that he wanted me to come again. so this was all going on like last week. and on friday i was over there and then i left because he said his mom was going to come home and he didnt want her to freak out because she dont know me so his friend walked me home and on the way his friend was telling me that this boy likes me and that he said he wants me to come over on monday. and so i did and i was only there for like 15 min and then him and his friend left to his friends house and said for me to come over on wensday so i was kind of dissapointed that day. and then the boy i like sends me a message saying for me not to come over tomarrow. so i wonder why he doesnt want me to come all the sudden. what did i do? and i have heard that he has a gf and that he cheats on girls and that he is mean i dont know what to think. but i did realize that he would talk about all these other girls sometimes with his friend like right in front of me and i thought he liked me and its making me think all boys are the same because i keep getting hurt. its like he came into my life and then wants to walk right out of it i dont know. what is his problem and what should i do? i dont think i deserve to be treated like this. please help


[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


JayySayy answered Wednesday October 6 2010, 9:48 pm:
I can relate,me and this boy started texting and he said he liked me,i started catching feelings and then weeks past and he texted me and said o btw im not single anymore i felt so ugh unexplainable feeling;i did cry then wondered why would he lead me on but maybe you should look hard for someone else or just hang out with your friends to forget the situation;i handled it bad really bad i was just so hurt but i got better(: and no you dnt deserve to be treated that way just talk to frends'do activities,and you'll soon forget all about the situation or atleast about the pain.

[ JayySayy's advice column | Ask JayySayy A Question
]




CityGirl answered Wednesday October 6 2010, 7:55 pm:
It's seems to me that you are young girl. I might be wrong. This sounds like to me he did not chase you so soon because he had a girlfriend. Him taking about other girls infront of you showes that he has no respect for you. People will always come in your life a few will stay and others will come and go. You dont deserve it and as a female you need to hold your grounds and never show your weakness to no guy. Dont be no ones fool especially if he has never done anything for you. He has a girlfriend leave him alone. Keep moving foward easier said than done but with everyday that passes work on yourself.

[ CityGirl's advice column | Ask CityGirl A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: 40 cigarettes a day
Next Question >>> grants !!!!!!

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker