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My names Megan and I'm 18 years old. I'm in love with a boy who's the same age. We've been friends for two years, and we just started dating three months ago. I love the boy to death. Just.. lately I feel so distance. I don't know if its because it seems like he doesn't try as hard as I do or not. Almost every night I send him something sweet.. or something meaningful. The other night I sent him a paragraph of how much I wanted to be with him and admire him. He didn't respond. He claimed he didn't have the time to respond, which is understandable because he had a lot of plans that day. But, its happened numerous times. I asked him already if I do it too much, and he claims I don't and that he loves it. I threw him a suprise birthday party, bought him a kitten, wrote poetry for him, ect. I do anything for him, but not overly. I just.. I don't feel appreciated. All that I'd want is him to give me something small.. even if it were plastic. Hell, he wouldn't even need to buy it.. I just want proof he's trying. I can't explain it enough how trapped I feel. I feel like if I bring it up he'll take it offensively. So someone, can you please give me direction? (link)
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First things first you have to be honest with yourself. Only both of you guys know whats going on in the relationship. Your going all out for him sending him messages throwing party when as a guy he should be doing that for you espically if you treat him good. He has to realize that your not just going to keep doing things for him and he does nothing back. Maybe you are over doing it and guys feel when they have it they dont have to work for it. Here is my advice talk to him and let him know i feel unappricated i am your girlfriend and your my boyfriend i have needs just as well as you do and if you cant handle that i think we need to test the waters. If a guy is not doing anything for you or showing you how special you are to him than you need to stop being so nice. I know it's hard but you dont want to be use. A guy should always love you more than you love him remember that
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please read and help me!
ok so there is this boy that i like and i have been liking him since last year around this time. last year was the first time i had ever seen him but i didnt actually talk to him. i would just see him around every once in a while. we just knew of eachother like we had alot of friends in common so i added him on myspace and that was the only way i would ever talk to him. so then last week i was at my sisters school and i seen him there and i noticed he was following me around and then he finally came up and talked to me the first time ever in person. he was all like hey i know you and stuff and it was like he went out of his way to chase me and talk to me and he was kind of flirting and then i had to leave. i didnt know when i would see him again and then the next day i was walking down the street with my friend and i happend to run into him he said hey come over here and so i did. and he was really hitting on me and i was hanging with him in front of his house for a while. and then he said he had to go inside and so he gave me a hug and asked me to come over the next day and so i did. and then after that he wanted me to come again. so this was all going on like last week. and on friday i was over there and then i left because he said his mom was going to come home and he didnt want her to freak out because she dont know me so his friend walked me home and on the way his friend was telling me that this boy likes me and that he said he wants me to come over on monday. and so i did and i was only there for like 15 min and then him and his friend left to his friends house and said for me to come over on wensday so i was kind of dissapointed that day. and then the boy i like sends me a message saying for me not to come over tomarrow. so i wonder why he doesnt want me to come all the sudden. what did i do? and i have heard that he has a gf and that he cheats on girls and that he is mean i dont know what to think. but i did realize that he would talk about all these other girls sometimes with his friend like right in front of me and i thought he liked me and its making me think all boys are the same because i keep getting hurt. its like he came into my life and then wants to walk right out of it i dont know. what is his problem and what should i do? i dont think i deserve to be treated like this. please help (link)
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It's seems to me that you are young girl. I might be wrong. This sounds like to me he did not chase you so soon because he had a girlfriend. Him taking about other girls infront of you showes that he has no respect for you. People will always come in your life a few will stay and others will come and go. You dont deserve it and as a female you need to hold your grounds and never show your weakness to no guy. Dont be no ones fool especially if he has never done anything for you. He has a girlfriend leave him alone. Keep moving foward easier said than done but with everyday that passes work on yourself.
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