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love and teen mother!
Im De im 17 i have a 3 yr old son.i got pregnant at 13 and had him when i was 14.me the guy was together for 9 months and when i be pergnant are parents made us break up and everything. he wasnt in my sons life for the longest now he is tryin to be daddy and everything is good and im still in love with him dnt say im to young to be in love cuz i kno what what love is but my question is why am i still in love with him after he treated me so wrong and everything?
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i think you still love him because maybe when you fell in love he was sweet and he changed or maybe because you have a baby that's his and yours and thats very special to you,if he is trying to change and be a daddy let him for your baby and maybe things between yall will get better,
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your in love with him because he is your son's father. I think you love the fact he wants to be in his sons life. You love that he wants to be there but you have to remember its not fair to you that you have to grow up so quickly and he didn't want to. I had a baby at 15 and its tough i feel for you my son is almost 4 now. I moved toa different state (my sons father didnt want to be in his life) now he wants in his life i let him and he hasnt called in 2 months. what im trying to say is he the kind of guy thats going to be in and out of your childs life? if it is it isnt worth it that will hurtyour child emotionally.
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Because you make perennially bad decisions.
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Well.. no one can really tell you why you still love him, because love is incredibly weird. Just because someone is awful to you, doesn't mean you will stop loving them. For example, I remember hearing about some woman (the woman with the first ever face transplant or something like that). Her husband shot her in the face, and she said she still loved him. So it's not strange that you still love him. I mean if you have a child with him you will probably always have a connection with him, whether you like it or not.
I mean it's understandable (but not excusable) why he would be missing for a while in your sons life, I mean I'm guessing he is also around the same age as you. See for a guy it's different because guys are not as muter as girls. So he may have not wanted anything to do with your son, but then he got older and realized that he had responsibilities and sort of grew up about the whole thing. So don't judge him on how he acted in the past when he was probably scared, and i get you where scared too, but he just took a bit longer to grow up then you did.
Hope this helps you out! And good luck with everything, I hope it all works out for you! :)
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