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How to forget?
Ok so I was in a relationship with my ex for 2 and a half years..and he broke up with me in april, I'm really glad he did break up with me and all...and i currently have a new boyfriend who's very sweet :) and is the best thing that happen to me, but sometimes i still think bout my ex, I don't love my ex anymore, yet he pops up in my mind. so are there tips that could help me forget bout him?
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It is natural for him to pop into your mind. Two and a half years is a long time for anything to become a good or a bad habit. It is good to hear that you do realize you have a good thing going now, and you don't love your ex anymore. A lot of times the questions I answer are about helping people not want to run back to their old situation because they are afraid of being alone.
I say never forget. The lessons you learned in that relationship are going to make you a better girl for your new boyfriend. But also remember the reasons you aren't with him anymore... just in case you get too nostalgic.
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I had the same problem i have a boyfriend now but i would randomly just remember my ex'maybe if you think about you and ur boyfrends future you'll start forgetting about your ex,and also if you think about the good times with you and your current boyfriend you'll slowly but surely forget about your ex.:)
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Because you were in a relationship with this person for so long, its normal for thoughts of him to pop up in your daily life. your not in love with him, but you two spent so much time togeather, of course your going to think about him. the only way for this to stop happening is time. So just enjoy your new ralationship, and thoughts of him will fade
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