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How to tell him..
18/female. A few weeks ago, my ex and I hung out. We were with a group of people at first, so it wasn't just us two alone. But at one point, he asked me to go for a walk with him, so we could talk about stuff. I was completly fine with this because we hadn't talk about stuff in a while, and we stayed pretty close friends. So we started talking and I started to get a bit upset, the stuff we were talking about is a little personal and hes the only one I could talk to about it. But anyways, he said he was going to give me a hug cause he didn't want me being sad. So after he hugged me, he kinda just stared into my eyes for a few minutes. And I just started to giggle and said "what!?" and he replied with "I've just really missed you." Then he started to inch closer, and he kissed me.. we ended up making out.. but anyways, the problem is were both dating someone, and I feel really bad.. not only for my boyfriend, but also for his girlfriend. I really want to tell my boyfriend, but it will break his heart, even...
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You may think NOT telling him is the best thing to do because you'll hurt him, but keeping it from him is gonna hurt him even more.
Imagine if he'll find out like maybe a year later that you cheated hows he gonna feel then? HURT. either way hes gonna get hurt. So telling him now is whats best.
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Don't base what you do on how your ex feels. That makes it sound to me like you just don't want to be alone, which is never a good attitude. Think about what will make YOU feel more at peace. If you don't think you have strong feelings for your bf then its not fair to keep him in a relationship that's not really going anywhere. Doesn't he deserve a girl that is totally devoted to him? As far as kissing your ex, he doesn't need to know that. It would only hurt him more. So share your feelings with him about how your relationship is going. Don't bring anyone else into it. It won't help. What's done is done. You can't change the past but you can decide what today is going to be like.
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it sounds like you need to talk to your ex and figure stuff out you both have a girl friend or boy friend and you really like him. even if ur ex doesnt lke you back you need to break up with your current boyfriend becasue it isnt fair that your doing this to him if you like someone else its better if you end it with him. if your going to cheat you should be honost about it and do the right thing by letting him go because its just not fair. seems like your ex likes you back so maybe talking to him about it isnt such a bad idea.
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