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Are the signs there?
22/F
Okay, so the guy I like is 27/M. He is a teacher at the school I work at. I've known him for a year +. I know more about him than he probably knows about me (because he and the teacher I work with are like best friends, so I get a inside scoop here and there). Anyhow, I don't know if the man likes me. He knows I like him because a co-worker told him. She said that you could tell by his expression that he was "thinking". He did this because she asked him if he liked the two other teachers that liked him and he flat out said no, but when she asked him about me, he said "I have to holler at her..." (I don't know what that means).
So anyhow, at work we'd to make eachothers presence known. Like one day he came into my class and shut off the lights when I wasn't paying attention, and once he wrote me note calling me a stranger and asking me where I am when he comes by to visit my classroom. He's even poked me on facebook if that makes any difference.
I've wrote him a note tellin him how much the students love him because the sups are on his case and he's too the point of quitting so I figured it would be a nice gesture. He later thanked me for the note and whatnot.
But anyhow, I can honestly say that we probably to shy people. He hasn't been in a relationship for years (maybe 5-6 years) and I've basically been single for 4 years. So this dating this is probably new to the both of us... I just want to know if he is even worth pursuing... what if he isn't interested in me at all?
I mean I accept him for who he is flaws and all. (Cause the students are QUICK to point out his flaws, but those flaws attact me to him more.)
Something about him different. I'm not chasing after him or anything. Lol I'm not tryin to look desparate or anything.
So the question is... are the signs there? What could possibly be going on in his head?
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From what you say he seems to be quite the flirtatious one with you. Most definitely take the opportunity that is being given to you, dear.
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The only way to know is to talk to the man...
Stop by someday after school and see if he would like to join you at a museum or seasonal fair = have something specific in mind. (because those kinds of events allow lots if time for talking)
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hello there,
it sounds like he is thinking about. ( holler) i think means talk to . He probably wants to talk to you about it. but doesn't know how to approach you because he is shy. Why don't you write him a letter explaining how you feel. Tell him to write back. Or talk to him in class sometime. Have music in the background so it doesn't seem awkward. That way you will know where you stand.
hope this helps
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