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totally and completely confused about this
hello peoples.....i am a 13 year old girl. im in year 8 and today i just found out that this boy, who is in year 9 (15 years old) wants to ask me out! i dont relly know what to do about it cuz we have been friends for nearly 2 years now....and i really like him but im not sure about going out with him :) can someone please help me out id really appreciate it ^_^
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Don't worry about the fact that you guys have been friends for so long. If your friendship has lasted this long he doesn't care if your together or not. He just truly cares about you. If you feel the same way then nothing should matter. Your friendship will last if he really cares about you.
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This is what I think
Talk to him on a relationship level but don't go out with him yet. Get to know him on a more personal note. Give it at least a few weeks and if he seems like the type of guy you can see yourself with then go for it! But I'm telling you this now. I'm in high school so I know how high school boys are. Most of them just want to get in your pants but there are some good ones. Just be careful and don't believe everything a boy says to you. Well hope my advice works. Write back and tell me how it goes!
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Well... if he does ask you out, tell him that you like him and you would like to date him. But if you guys do date and it doesnt work out then you dont want things to be ruined or awkward with you two. Tell him that his friendship means more to you that a relationship. He will understand.
Hope i helped (:
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Basically you gotta risk the fact that if you date him it might ruin yalls friendship. That would be the first thing id take note of.
If you really like him though then id say go for it, your still young so just live it up.
Nobody can really decide on this other than you, and chances are youll end up makong your own decision no matter what you are told.
I wish you luck:)
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give him a chance. you never know. letting him in your life might be a good change. be safe and have fun.
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