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Hello, im bree. Id like to think im good at giving advice because ive pretty much gone through everything. So if you need any kinda help, i wont judge you. Send your questions my way. :)

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Hey guess, I'm 19 female.. and I want to dress "cuter/girly." I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and we never really got dressed up and he now is starting to dress cute bc hes going out with his friends more and he wants me to go along. I don't dress girly. I'm not fat, I have a good body. Skinny and big boobs. I'm only 5'3-5'4 but I feel too tall for heels. Hes about 6'0. I;m taller than a lot of the other girls.
I don't really like showing off my boobs, I don't like them hanging out. I usually always wear a tank top under everything. And I'm pretty white lol I can't go to the tanning bed due to my medicine im on for my acne.
So what do you suggest? if you can give links that show outfits would be great

Rue 21 is a really cheap store with a lot of cute girly clothes. :)
I myself, don't dress all that girls for most of the time.

But try wearing dresses. Guys adore girls in dresses.
(I also agree on the heels thing, so what I do is get some flats, very comfortable and yet look girly.)

Wear a bunch of necklaces and earrings too. Jewelery brightens up any girls look.
&& if you like wearing tank tops. just layer tank tops and throw on some shorts and a pair of converse.
it looks girly enough if you have a skinny body and throw some jewelery and a headband?

:) I hope I helped.

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I need more music to download, and the genre I like is rock/hard rock/alternative. Bands I listen to are Breaking Benjamin, Trapt, Rise Against, Bullet For My Valentine, etc - like that. What other bands are similar to those? Thanks!

Three days grace. (personally my fave)
seether.
Creed.
Staind.
All that remains.
ACDC
AFI
avenged sevenfold
muse
orgy
a perfect circle.
Hope that helped:)

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I have a best friend. We are both fifteen and in tenth grade. I am female, he is male. Let me tell you a little bit about us. We met in third grade and have been friends since. Every time I'm sad and I'm talking to him on the phone or something and I tell him I'm upset or he guesses, he plays his guitar for me because he knows I like that. I pack my lunch in school and every day I pack a six pack of cracker, peanut butter and I give them to him because that's his favorite kind. The other day, I was at a benefit concert and there was this cute boy there. Turns out, he's friends with my friend. So I texted my friend and told him he was cute and he texted back "yea, you told me.." and we got to talking about him and after the second time I said that I thought he was cute he said "I don't know what to say to that.." so then we stopped talking and then my friends were like "he's jealous! he so loves you!" and I was just like "nah, he's my buddy." The other day, he did the same thing, he was telling me about this girl that he liked and I didn't know what to say either but I was saying more than he did and I was helping him out and telling him that she's a good person, but she's taken, so I was telling him he kinda needed to forget about her. Last night, my mom and I went to watch Promenade at my school and we were walking out and she said "So, you're going with (my best friend) right?" and I was like "eh, we'll probably both have significant others by then" and she looked at me and said "yes. each other. I see how you smile when he texts you first. I see how you always remember to pack his crackers. I see the way his crappy attitude changes when he's talking to you. I just secretly think, deep down inside of both of you, you two adore each other, but you don't want to ruin your friendship. I also see how whenever his brother makes him think he isn't good enough, you always talk him out of thinking that and make him feel twenty times better. Third grade! Friendships usually don't last that long but look at you guys! Seven years!" The weird thing about all of this is EVERYONE I know thinks we love each other, too. Someone actually said to me "everyone can see you two love each other.. except you two." However, every time someone says something to us about it, we say no, no that's not true. We're both just good friends. No big deal. So! In conclusion, do you think we do "love" each other? and if so, why do we avoid it and push it away every time it is brought up? I know these are questions we should be able to answer ourselves but we're just at a loss. Thanks for any help you give me! ♥

I think you both love each other more than anything, but only you would know what kinda love. Whether you love him as a friend or more is up to you. I think the story between yall is very cute though, and if yall end up together then congrats. That would be love that not many people find.

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this might sound weird. but is it okay to make out with your best guy friend? because i read a lot of stories on yahoo answers about people that make out with their best friends but they arent going out. I want to do that with my best guy friend. so maybe if we do that. we might become bf/gf. unless it is wrong to do. but if its okay how would i start it?
please help. than you in advance.

Personally, i wouldnt do that if its your bestfriend. Chances are in the end yall are going to ruin your friendship or just have things totally weirded out. But i mean if you think its worth taking that chance then go ahead. Who knows, yall might end up married one day. Im just saying its a chance itll ruin the friendship.

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i am a sucker for love and i keep falling in love with the wrong people and i constantly keep getting hurt but i cant help it i love them so much like right now im totally in love with someone but people keep telling me that theyre no good, that i should stay away from them, these"spirits" keep telling me that theyre nothing but trouble, but i love them so much and i dont want to lose them like the others i built my world around certain people and now theyre either being taken away from me, leaving me, or i have to let them go without them my world falls apart Why must i feel so much pain??? why cant i find someone who i can love and trust as much as they love me??? why do i atract the wrong people??? i cant do this any more im ready to give up on this seeming to be a never ending search for love please if you have any advice for me i would really appriciate it cause my heart cant take much more of this
im a girl and my age doesnt matter

If love worked with everyone then we wouldnt have just that one special somebody, you just havent found them yet.
People are going to stomp on your heart, its how life/love works.
"in life, everyone is going to hurt you.. Only you can decide who is worth the pain".
As far as the you always find the wrong guy part, thats how us girls usually are. We are attracted to the jerks. Not sure why that is, but thats just how it is.
All i can say is just try and chill out and live your life. Love will come to you but in the meantime just make the best out of everything in your life.
Sometimes all you really need is your friends.

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Okay so i've been having trouble lately with having sex. For some reason any time I try to have sex with a guy it's difficult for them to keep their penis inside me. Like it'll be one or two "thrusts" and he's out. It's so frustrating. I haven't had sex that often so I don't think I'm not loose. I'm very confused. Please help! Thanks

You probally get too wet too fast.
Tell the guy to thrust in a much slower motion and tighten your muscles down there.
Wrapping your legs around their waist might help too.
Good luck boning.:)

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Help me! I want to get a pet like a dog. I wanted one since when I was a baby my dad bought me a suffedone but I figured out that it was fake when I was 5 years old. So I need a way to get a dog or a pet. But how?

A dog isnt a pet you can hide. Try a hamster if your trying to keep it from your parents.
Other than thought your going to have to work on convincing your parents. Figure out something they really want from you and make a deal.

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so i hve this friend who i like and were friends and i love when we hang out but theres a problem. she has this friend. lets call her "Pillow" and pillow is really annoying and all of my friends cant stand to be around her. so whenever i make plans with my friend..lets call her "blanket" she always at the lastminute is like "ohh btw pillows comming too" and i cant say no. so then all other people who also find pillow annoying get mad at me and it causes this whoe problem. how to do keep blanket as a friend without having to be with pillow?

Pull blanket aside and tell her how you feel in the nicest way you can. She should understand that not everyone in the world can get along. If she takes it the wrong way then just give it time, shell end up coming to her senses if shes rlly a good friend.

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So, I'm not talking about my first kiss-I've been kissed before, although not much. And I don't know if my boyfriend has been kissed before-but I'm guessing he has. I'm talking about OUR first kiss. We haven't been together very long (btw, we're both 16) but we haven't yet kissed. And I'm wondering, should I leave that up to him? He's shy (we both are to some degree), but he is the guy, and he's not THAT shy. Or should I take matters into my own hands (he's quite the gentleman, maybe he's wondering what I'm ok with, and besides, I tend to be more agressive). Or should I try to talk about it? So-wait for him to make a move, just go ahead and kiss him, or what? How would I go about the correct option?

A kiss isnt something to fret over hun. Dont sweat it, if you wanna kiss him then do it. Theres no special secret to it. Your never going to be in a happy relationship if your so nervous you cant do something you wanna do. So go for it and good luck:)

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19/Female.
My boyfriend is 21.

My boyfriend has recently bought something from the tobacco store, and I am very concerned about it. It's in a pouch, and it looks like marijuana, more or less. On the cover it says it's incense, and it's called lotus flower, or something like that. On the back it says it is not meant for human consuption, but my boyfriend has been smoking it and claims it gives him a 15 or 20 minute high. I know it is wrong, obviously. So that's not what I am asking. What I am asking is what is the short and long term consequences of doing this? He thinks it's better than smoking marijuana, but I really beg to differ.

That would be what they call spice.
Obviously its not good for him because any sort of thing you smoke is not good for you.
However, he is probally doing this in replacement of weed which id say is good because weed is illegal. Spice is perfectly legal to have.
Idk, id be worried yet relieved if i were you.
Just tell him not to do it much, every so often wont kill him.

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so i was fooling around with my boyfriend and he came he touched his penis just to aim lol but not the tip and i gave him tissues to clean up and i told him to wash his hands and he said he didn't get anything on his hands then he fingered me i'm soo paranoid about getting pregnant. should i be worried? obvously next time i'm telling him he needs to wash before touching me.

You cant get pregnant from this, sperm dies as soon as soon as it becomes airborne. So unless he came inside of you, your good. :)

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So, my boyfriend and I haven't been dating for very long and we decided to NOT have sex for a longgg time down the road. Which I think is great! But we're young and live with our parents and stuff. I mean we do things like dry humping and touchy feely and things like that but I get soo paranoid that someone's going to walk in or say something. My opinion is we're not having sex, we are being responsible but we DO have hormones! What do you think? Do you really think our parents would freak out? Do you think what we're doing is okay?

Everyones parents are different, only you would know what your parents would say.
My advice, dont get caught if you think theyd flip.
What is done behind closed doors stays behind closed doors.

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hello peoples.....i am a 13 year old girl. im in year 8 and today i just found out that this boy, who is in year 9 (15 years old) wants to ask me out! i dont relly know what to do about it cuz we have been friends for nearly 2 years now....and i really like him but im not sure about going out with him :) can someone please help me out id really appreciate it ^_^

Basically you gotta risk the fact that if you date him it might ruin yalls friendship. That would be the first thing id take note of.
If you really like him though then id say go for it, your still young so just live it up.
Nobody can really decide on this other than you, and chances are youll end up makong your own decision no matter what you are told.
I wish you luck:)

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okay, i dont want crap about how i should get it done professionally. all of my friends already give me that.
but id like to know some stuff before i actually pierce my nose. what kind of needle should i use? where can i get it? same thing for the stud. how big should that be? whats the easiest and safest way to do this?
i know, it can lead to infection but i dont feel like going to a shop to do this.
thanks

I pierced my nose a few weeks ago myself along with my lip. This is what you do..
Get a decent size sewing needle. Sterilize it in alcohol for like 5 minutes.
Shove it in.. Leave it there for like an hour. Itll be awkward with a giant needle in yer lip but it gives time for hole to stay open.
Pull the needle completely out.. And shove in a nose stud. (i wouldnt suggest using a ring)
afer you get it in.. Go buy whats called h2ocean which is found at hot topic or tattoo shops. Spray that on yer nose everyday for like a week. Itll really help the heAling process. Good luck:)

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