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why must love hurt???
i am a sucker for love and i keep falling in love with the wrong people and i constantly keep getting hurt but i cant help it i love them so much like right now im totally in love with someone but people keep telling me that theyre no good, that i should stay away from them, these"spirits" keep telling me that theyre nothing but trouble, but i love them so much and i dont want to lose them like the others i built my world around certain people and now theyre either being taken away from me, leaving me, or i have to let them go without them my world falls apart Why must i feel so much pain??? why cant i find someone who i can love and trust as much as they love me??? why do i atract the wrong people??? i cant do this any more im ready to give up on this seeming to be a never ending search for love please if you have any advice for me i would really appriciate it cause my heart cant take much more of this
im a girl and my age doesnt matter
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If love worked with everyone then we wouldnt have just that one special somebody, you just havent found them yet.
People are going to stomp on your heart, its how life/love works.
"in life, everyone is going to hurt you.. Only you can decide who is worth the pain".
As far as the you always find the wrong guy part, thats how us girls usually are. We are attracted to the jerks. Not sure why that is, but thats just how it is.
All i can say is just try and chill out and live your life. Love will come to you but in the meantime just make the best out of everything in your life.
Sometimes all you really need is your friends.
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Thats life love, if life and love were easy then we would not cherish the good times like we do. There has to be trouble and heartache in order for us to realize that the good times are to be held dear to us. I think the best advice that I can give to you, is to stop looking so hard. Love will find YOU, when you least expect it, so once you stop looking BAM! it'll hit you.
Now I know that right now it seems like you are never going to find someone who loves you and understands you and won't hurt you, but you will. It just takes time, you can't force it, and the harder you attempt to hold on to it, the quicker it will fade away. Don't look at the negative side of it, look at the positives, you are getting lots of life experiences and you are still standing. And once you find that special person you will hold them very dearly because you have been through so much to get there.
Don't give up on love, there is always going to be problems and fights with someone that you love, you have to work hard at love. Keep it positive, things will get better, they just can't be rushed. If you need to talk some more, you can email me at bacardii_caddy@yahoo.com.
Hope I Helped & Good Luck :)
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This is weird, i was actually just been thinking the same thing. I'm a male. but i know what you mean. I love people with all my heart, but they end up not feeling the same, so they leave or get taken from me. everyone tells me their no good. But what i've learned within the years is that. Our hearts are too big, we love people so much and we give it our all, and that's how we end up hurt. Love hurts cause you put like your everything into a relationship and then its all taken away. What you need to do is start being careful and not putting your all into it. You wanna be a part of someones life not all of it. I'm taking it your young, you have your whole life to find someone! Learn to be happy being single and don't keep going from relationship to relationship, give your heart sometime to heal. If you have any questions about what i've said or whatever, let me know:):)
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