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thank you so much for the advice but how do u control your heart??? i cant help but to put my heart and soul into everything and i mean theres nothing wrong with being single but its just not for me i have a fear of being alone and im also scared that if i stop trying to find love then ill miss the chance to meet my soulmate i know my poor heart needs sometime to heal but i think that if im alone it will only hurt even more are there any other ways for a heart to heal??? how do i stop myself from falling in love so fast??? (link)
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It takes "You" and lots of will power. Trust me, it sounds like you have a huge heart, and you give people all your love, and they never return the favor. You need to mentally put a wall around your heart. And don't sit there looking for love, let it come to you. Now i'm not saying sit there and wait. Just get out, have fun, be yourself and let someone see the real you. If that happens, don't let yourself fall, to stop this think back to your other relationships and think how bad it hurt, and just take things real slow. Guys will say they will never hurt you, they could never do that to you. Now think about it.. How many guys have said that, and ended up doing it anyway? Trust me, I never learned my lesson, i've been hurt soo muchh! I have turned bitter and ugghh.. You don't want that happening. To be honest, you need to be single for awhile and let your heart heal, yes everyone loves to have someone, but you need to learn that you can be happy with yourself and your life. You need to learn to love yourself, for anyone to love you back. Its hard, I have put myself through 3 horrible relationships, and it took me a year to get over it. but in the end i realized.. why waste my time crying over someone, who isn't crying over me? and I realized how much time i wasting on that person. Don't end up like that. Hint, Hint. The BEST Revenge is showing that person, you can be happy with out them. And never, never cry in front of a guy, or give in to them. That shows your weakness and they know they have you on a rope and can make you feel bad and get what they want. You are a women, your strong and invincible. Always remember that.
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i am a sucker for love and i keep falling in love with the wrong people and i constantly keep getting hurt but i cant help it i love them so much like right now im totally in love with someone but people keep telling me that theyre no good, that i should stay away from them, these"spirits" keep telling me that theyre nothing but trouble, but i love them so much and i dont want to lose them like the others i built my world around certain people and now theyre either being taken away from me, leaving me, or i have to let them go without them my world falls apart Why must i feel so much pain??? why cant i find someone who i can love and trust as much as they love me??? why do i atract the wrong people??? i cant do this any more im ready to give up on this seeming to be a never ending search for love please if you have any advice for me i would really appriciate it cause my heart cant take much more of this
im a girl and my age doesnt matter (link)
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This is weird, i was actually just been thinking the same thing. I'm a male. but i know what you mean. I love people with all my heart, but they end up not feeling the same, so they leave or get taken from me. everyone tells me their no good. But what i've learned within the years is that. Our hearts are too big, we love people so much and we give it our all, and that's how we end up hurt. Love hurts cause you put like your everything into a relationship and then its all taken away. What you need to do is start being careful and not putting your all into it. You wanna be a part of someones life not all of it. I'm taking it your young, you have your whole life to find someone! Learn to be happy being single and don't keep going from relationship to relationship, give your heart sometime to heal. If you have any questions about what i've said or whatever, let me know:):)
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I've literally been going a bit crazy the past few days because I keep hearing one line of one song over and over in my head. It's driving me INSANE because it won't leave me alone and I'm starting to obssess over it. Please, this might sound weird because I only know one line, but I really REALLY need you guys to try.
Here's what I know about the song:
It was on a tv promo for a series, I'm thinking it might have been ER but it could be any show, especially medical ones
It was a few months ago, maybe as far back as November?
It's sung by a guy in a very soft sorta sad voice
The only part that stuck in my head goes like this "You're not alo-oo-oone" with the all the o's actually pronounced like that. Alo O O O one. And the o's take steps down the scale...
I know that's not a lot to go by, but it's worth a shot and I NEED HELP BEFORE THIS STARTS TO MAKE ME LOSE SLEEP!
Thanks so much! Xx (link)
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Did you look at: Your not alone by Michael Jackson. that might be it. I do believe thats it.
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I was in a very, very close relationship with a guy last summer. We were in a committed relationship for five months. I was 18, now I'm 19. He was 20, now he's 21. It was our both first real relationship. It seemed perfect.
Anyways, he broke up with me in August. It seemed out of the blue. I cried a lot and was very depressed. In September, we got together because I hoped that we could start a relationship again. He ended up using me for sex and then ignored me. This happened again in late October because I still missed him. So he used me twice, basically.
Then in late December, he contacted me again. This time, I told him that I wanted friendship or a relationship and nothing in between. Of course, he stopped talking to me. Then I moved on.
Last week (June 13), he texted me. He said he beats himself up every day for messing up our relationship. He said he misses me. I told him that I'm still not interested in hooking up. He said he doesn't want that: he wants another chance. So we met up in person. I told him that I don't trust him at all, and that if I do give him another chance, there won't be any sex for a looong time. He said that that is fine, because he just wants to be in a relationship with me again. He said he wants to take it slow and not jump into a relationship, but ease back into it. He said he wishes he could do anything to get my trust back.
What do I do? Please help me. I want to give him another chance because I really had feelings for him, but I can't get hurt by him again, and I'm not sure if I've moved on completely. (link)
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Okay, I can't really tell you what to do. But I had this experience with my boyfriend. I'd say give him a chance but don't go far at all! Like til he can show you that he wants you as a person and not just sex. I know if you have feelings for him it's going to be hard not to do anything, but sex isn't important in a relationship. You need to know he loves you for you. But if that's all he wants than you don't need to get hurt, you don't deserve that at all. There are many other good people out there who would like you. But keep your head high and good luck:]
I hoped I helped:]
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I always hate it when my friends meet my other friends because i'm scared they'll start liking them more than me and then they'll start hanging out with each other, leaving me alne and having even less friends.
Is there any way to fix this? This always happens.
If you don't have advice but this happens to you, please say that and share your feelings and opinions on this (link)
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yeah it usually happens to me sometimes like i feel ill be alone and no one will wanna hang out with me anymore..now theres a reason it happened to me before. but lately i hang with anyone or anyone like it don't matter what you are so some of my friends don't like my other friends blah blah.yada yada.... so ya..
Joshua
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I was wondering if there's anyone else who hates sports. I feel like I'm the only one. I haaaate going to any sports events but all of my friends love it. Gah! I mean I know it's to socialize, but I can do that elsewhere..
Well anyway, if you hate sports too, why? :) (link)
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haha trust me your not alone. I mean people think its weird im a GUY and i HATE HATE sports, im not so good at them and i hate watching them GOD there so boring i'd rather do something else then sittting there watching people being stupid.
Joshua.
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In the last year or so Ive been having extremley realistic dreams. I can even feel pain. I remember I had a nightmare of a murderer chasing me and then shoving the "butt" of a rifle into me and it stinging and burning so bad I had to wake myself up. As soon as I woke up the pain was gone. Even last night I had a dream I got into a pickup truck with my friend and the smell of Axe body spray was overwhelming. I felt like I couldnt breathe until I opened a window in the car. Also in my dream I was fixing my hair and it felt sticky, as if I had glue in it or something, so I actually washed it out in my dream and It was gone. My dreams are so realistic I wonder if these things actually happened. Does anyone have any advice on them or any idea why I have such realistic dreams.
BTW: Im 15 & female, if it helps. (link)
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Ok umm. i have dreams like that every since i was little and they always come true or its about past things. well i can feel, see, touch..etc... but its so weird and i get really weird like something will happeing in my dream and it really affects me in life. well someone told me that i have idk what a "sixth sense" because for some reason i can always tell when something is going to happen before it does. But i just found this out when everytime i hear the phone ring no one hears it i tell them to answer it but they give me a weird look...haha so ya idk you just might too. dreams are a powerful thing, but i tried finding out what was wrong but everyone laughs at me.
Joshua.
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So my best friends hate one of my friends. They said that he follows us around like a lost puppy or something, and I really like Chad. They think he's annoying and going to try and steal our band but I know Chad wouldn't do anything like that. But I'm sorta afraid that Mike and Danny will get mad if I keep hanging out with Chad, and they're like, my two best friends in the world, I don't know what to do. Like I mean Chad, I really really like him, he's practically my twin brother, but Mike and Dan are also really important. And I really don't know what to do. I can understand why Chad is all lost puppy like, his dad's over in Iraq and he doesn't really know what's going to happen in his life from one day to the next and I really like being there for him and making him laugh and smile. But Mike and Danny, I don't think they can really understand what he's going through right now and I've tried to explain it to them but they don't seem to understand. I feel so awful right now. HELP! (link)
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Ok i know exactly how that feels, ok well you like you other two friends and this chad. well why should you decide if your friends are really your friends who cares who you hang out with. if they have a problem with chad they need to tell him not you, you like him so you shouldn't ruin that friendship thats real nice you are there for him.:)
Joshua.
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During the winter i always get really depressed for some reason. So i try to keep myself really busy so im not thinking to much, but that only works for a little while. I was wondering if that happens to anyone else, like you feel depressed during the winter? I think its really weird, and also besides just keeping myself busy what else could i do, whithout having to talk to someone or take anything? Bc already its hitting me and winter is a longggg season. Well any advice would be helpful, thanks :) (link)
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Well i get the same way every winter, i mean i love winter and christmas. But thinking about it i think i know why. i mean were stuck in some kinda of building all the time never going anywhere and we just die of bordem. we cant go outside, and if we do we have to wear layers of clothing and its still not good enough and no one wants to really do anything. Well idk what i can say to get rid of the depressed feeling but try having frineds over or go there play games idk do stuff i mean it might get rid of it. try it and i hope i helped.
Joshua.
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Okay basically:
I'm gay. I'm into this guy who is "confused". He has a girlfreind, but has liked a guy before. He always acts like he's flirting with me, and it confuses me so much. His girlfreind knows all about it, we talked it over, and she told me to talk to him about his feelings. I already tried talking to him about it, but I didn't get a straight (or gay, hee hee) answer out of him. I want to get this answer out of him, but I don't know how. I don't really want to flat out ask him, but that would be the best way because I'd get the result I want, but awkwardness after that. AND I have no clue how I'm going to get over this guy. I have so much hope about going out with him, but deep down I want to keep myself grounded... but many people say we'd do good together and that he's actually interested in me. I have no clue what I'm going to do. Oh, and he knows I'm gay and that I like him... (link)
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Dude, I've been though like the exact same thing, it hurts i know. except im the guy in your story..lol. But what i've learned think about it is it going to be what you pictured. I mean what if you date him, then later he likes some girl, wheres that leave you. I've kinda been though it. so ya i know how it is. But im just going to tell you to follow what your heart tells you. Tell him you like him tell him all your feelings you have. if you like someone alot, don't let it go, you'll regret it forever, if you like him you have to let him know how you feel and you need to know what he feels and talk it out. it kinda worked out for me. but i don't know.
I hope i helped.. Let me know how things go.
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ok so for my parents annerversiry im making a dvd with like pictures and music in the backgroundd does anyone no any good songs i could use? (link)
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Valentine by Martina Mcbride *Really Good song*
Lips of an angel - by Hinder or Jack Ingram
Don't want to miss a thing - Aerosmith
I Hope you Dance - Leanne Womack
The Dance - Garth Brooks
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whats a good song that can be dedicated to someone who died , like my grandpa when i was 4 or 5 (link)
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I don't really know, but These two songs i can think of right now are really good
Reba Mcentire - If I Had Only Known ( This one is kinda really sad)
Leanne Rimes - Please Remember Me
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I just got really angrey and my body took over me and i cut my arm all up with my nails.
Now i feel soo terrible. idk what to do (link)
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I know how you feel, I been very angry lately with like three of my very best friends dying, and my family acting like they hate me. It's very stressful, but when you feel like cutting yourself, before you do it think of what it is doing for you, is it helping you at all, is it making your problems go away, there still going to be there, what you need to do is relax, go to a spa, or go to the dollar tree get some relaxing cds put them in at night and just let all your anger go. and sit there and think of every problem you have and some solve it. But don't cut yourself, that can be very dangerous, it's not good for you.
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ok, so, this has been a big problem for me lately. i'm 5'2. i'm pretty chubby and i'm about to get the ab lounger or whatever soon... but i want to get taller. i go to the weightroom at school to lift some weights but my friends tell me to stop because i'm already short and so i did stop and i just run on the treadmill instead.
if i do get the ab lounger, would i still be able to get taller? and how can i get taller? (link)
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It's really good that you want to lose weight, and the ab lounger will probably slim you down, but you can't get taller by just exercise, it's mostly all in your genes,not all of it mostly you don't get all your genes from your parents, and it depends on how old you are cause you might not have it your growth spurt yet, but in any matter you should not even care, cause you should just be happy the way you are. well i hope that i help and let me know how it goes.
-J.P
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I met a girl at a party this weekend and ever since, we've talked for hours every day. I know she really likes me, and I'm starting to feel the same about her. She seems like she's the kind of person who dates for fun, though..and doesn't take it seriously. I'm all about having fun, but that's not all dating is, and I'm afraid she might think it is. I'm afraid she'll drop me quickly because she seems like she gets bored easily.
Any advice? Thx.
16/m (link)
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I had that same problem with my last g/f she was really nice but she got bored with you and moved on to someone else, so i'm suggesting you go around asking some of her friends if she's one of does girl, but girls will break your heart, that's the way they are. well good luck.
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This may be an weird question but since I can't sing very well I was wondering if when a person is good at singing is it because they are just born that way and can sing to anything or whether you can only sing to songs your voice is suited to. I wanna be able to sing so badly but I'm not that crash hot so I was just wondering if there is any hope for me?! 16/f
xo (link)
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i had that same problem, i was singing since i was about 4. now i wasen't the best, but when i got older and going through changes my voice changed and i had problems with my singing, but all you have to do is practice and do some voice exercises to get your voice in it's right place. so good luck with your singing, and i bet your a beautiful singer, just believe in your self and you can do it.
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i am going to be redoing my room this summer and i cant seem to find any furniture i like online...
im looking for a few things in particular-
-a dark walnut stain bar stool (round seat, not padded)
-a dark walnut corner desk/desk
-a dark walnut bookshelf
-a dark walnut armoir that is longer than it is tall.
sites and stores are appreciated, thank you!
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The best thing i could tell you is for your dark walnut corner desk you could look at target, and for other things look at pier 1, well good luck and have fun.
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How do you get those little heart tattoos right above your pelvis? They aren't tattoos, but you know how cows get branded? Haha thats what it looks like.. (link)
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At the tanning place they have stickers and you pick which one you want and stick it where you want it and where it when your tanning then when your done take it off
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My husband has planned our summer vacation every year since we have been together. With the exception of last year, we traveled out of state to my nephew's wedding. (He now says that was my turn at planning)
Usually we do things that I am not interested in, but I go along with it because I want the kids to have fun. At the beginning of this year he agreed I should plan the vacation. I planned on a fishing/boating trip. He agreed at the time, but has now changed his mind. He told our 12/yr old son (the older kids aren't going) we will go to World's of Fun and a baseball game. (without consulting me) I don't like the rides, and I don't like baseball. He won't take the boat due to gas prices, and besides we have the Missouri River out our back-door. I tried to work out a compromise, but he won't budge. I told them to go without me and I will find something else to do here.
He says now, thanks to me the vacation is cancelled, because he refuses to go without me.
I don't want to dissapoint my son. So now what?
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I think you should have a family meeting and you should all talk and maybe have everyone write on a piece of paper what they would like to do for vacation and have a vote, and talk to your husband about what he is doing and say that we should all do something that we all like to do.
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Okay, I don't usually get nervous before performing on stage. I get really nervous during auditions, though and because I'm nervous I perform poorly and I don't get a callback. I hate knowing that I could do really well, but blowing it because I'm nervous. Does anyone know how I can overcome my audition nerves? I will rate high. Thanks. (link)
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Ok you need to just relax and think to your self what you need to do and how your going to do it, then when you get there and your still nervous then look on the back wall and don't notice any one else and just do what you need to do.
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