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Wait, do i have to choose?
So my best friends hate one of my friends. They said that he follows us around like a lost puppy or something, and I really like Chad. They think he's annoying and going to try and steal our band but I know Chad wouldn't do anything like that. But I'm sorta afraid that Mike and Danny will get mad if I keep hanging out with Chad, and they're like, my two best friends in the world, I don't know what to do. Like I mean Chad, I really really like him, he's practically my twin brother, but Mike and Dan are also really important. And I really don't know what to do. I can understand why Chad is all lost puppy like, his dad's over in Iraq and he doesn't really know what's going to happen in his life from one day to the next and I really like being there for him and making him laugh and smile. But Mike and Danny, I don't think they can really understand what he's going through right now and I've tried to explain it to them but they don't seem to understand. I feel so awful right now. HELP!
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Ok i know exactly how that feels, ok well you like you other two friends and this chad. well why should you decide if your friends are really your friends who cares who you hang out with. if they have a problem with chad they need to tell him not you, you like him so you shouldn't ruin that friendship thats real nice you are there for him.:)
Joshua.
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Try to explain to Mike and Dan that you think Chad really needs support now. They should understand, just keep letting them know that they're not going to be replaced or anything.
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you don't have to choose unless you want to and if your friends can't except Chad as a friend then i don't think there your friends. But just tell Chad that your a good friend but my best friends just don't want to get to know you and i don't want to lose my best friends that i have had for years so go and find some other people that you would like as friends. Hope all goes well!
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if your two best friends were truly your best friends, they would understand the situation, and support your decision. you shouldnt have to chose.
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