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lol i'm really sorry for asking this..16/f..i have a bf and he wants to kiss me..ive never been kissed..
is it like all slobbery and stuff?
just a pop kiss..maybe longer (link)
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The first time can be awkward, unless you're pretty comfortable with the guy. I mean, sometimes the moment just comes and it falls completely into place.
And it can be slobbery if he wants to try to conquer your mouth with his tongue.
Fortunately, only a few guys do that, and I have no idea why ('cause I didn't like it all too much) =P
Of course though, kissing isn't gross. It's a huge sign of affection! =D
Best of luck!
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I really need help because I want to create a new screenname, I prefer something funny and I don't want my name in it because I don't want my name in it anyways or the sports I play, etc. I was thinking of making the screename skinnygirl, (because im skinny) but I have a couple of very overweight acuaintences (would that offend them?) I prefer something funny, thanks (link)
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Instead of saying "skinny" maybe go for something that indicates that you are.
Possible "Bikinibabe" or something?
As for your friends, they may not show it, but it'll probably make them think negatively about themselves when they see the name, depending on how much they care about their self-image.
So, again, I'd go for something cutesy and subtle.
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Ok I have this friend Terry (26). He is a very good friend and we always have fun hanging out. And yes I do have a crush on him. We flirt all the time but it is always ALL talk. We can about literally anything. I can talk about guys and he won’t bad mouth them and it is the same when he talks about girls. Sure of course there is a twinge of jealousy when someone tries to get in the picture, but I don’t do anything about it. That is just not right. I want him to be happy. I know I have to give it time if it is meant for me and him. Sometimes I feel that it is right there in front of us but neither one of us is blind to it. Well I thought I would make a little effort on new yrs eve. My friends and I were out bowling having a lot of fun. I thought it would be cute and bought this cheesy mistletoe. Last day out of the year to get away with something like that. My friends got a kick out of it. (FYI I am sober throughout this whole thing) I also ran into Terry at the alley too and said he was going to have some people over at his house and that me and my friends were invited to come along. Well I wanted to get there before midnight but my friends just took a little longer then I wanted them too. We got there just a matter of minutes afterwards when everyone is rushing outside to light off the firecrackers. I wanted to wish Terry a happy new yr, just was a little too hard with so many people around. I finally was able to stop him in the kitchen and I had the mistletoe. I thought it was a clever little trick to be able to kiss him. And it did work; also that it was new yrs too. I felt very proud of myself too, that I took a little initiative. And we went on with the evening like nothing had happen.
Well.... turns out, there was a girl that didn't know that was kind of with him. She was almost always around him. At first I figured it was one of these young little girls (teenagers) that do have a tendency to follow him around since he is attractive. Well that was until I saw them sitting on the couch holding hands and cuddling. I felt like such a fool. If I had known they were together that night I respectively would not have tried anything. I know when to not step on toes even when it does happen to me. So I mentally tell myself, “ok I have to back off, and let it be” So the next night I am at our Tuesday karaoke Night which we always go to. Terry is there and the girl wasn’t. But we didn’t do anything out the ordinary. We still continued to banter and flirt back and forth like nothing was different, because it wasn’t. I few of us went up to his house since it was up the street. While most were down stairs, I was alone with Terry upstairs and we were talking and I made the effort to apologize for the night before for kissing him not knowing he was technically there with someone. He told me not to be, since they weren’t actually together and the girl ( her name was Jenny20 yrs old) was very needy, moving too fast and that she lived in Sacramento and had come up to see him for the night. Also said that he thought it was very cute and that he had liked the kiss.
Now what I need to know is what should I do about this? Should I just let things take their course? Should I forget about it? Am I in the right to be feeling like this? This has never happen between us. He is always telling me about these girls that like him but he doesn’t really want to start anything with them, since his last relationship really hurt him, but then he is looking for Mrs. Right and not Miss right now. And he does tell this to the girls and they seem to kind of leave the picture, not even wanting to be a friend, yet I know well enough to keep being his friend. You think he is trying to tell me something and I am not taking it in all the way? I don’t really think he is trying to play me because he does look out for me and has not tried anything. I know this is very silly but it is still something on my mind. Any advice would be great. Thanks for making it through all this.
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Since he's confiding in you, it's obvious that he thinks very highly of you and you're probably his best friend. Woo!
It's good that he's looking for something meaningful, and by the looks of it, he's more than likely found that in you. A huge hint that he'd be willing to take things further with you is that he accepted and admitted to enjoying the kiss you shared. Plus that, and it's so daring of you that it leaves an awesome impression! That and you went about it in such a cute manner!
And even if he doesn't take this friendship as a relationship right now, it's bound to fall into place.
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i should be perfectly happy. i have a good family and great friends. i cant stand my mom sometimes because she thinks she knows everything but i guess thats the really only family problem i have.i hate school and i dont know why. i mean i really really hate it. my parents just opened up a buisness..a lazer tag arena. the employees are really nice and the business is doing well. i love to hang out with a few of the guy employees (im a girl) there older than me but we get along really well. i try to go there as much as i can to hang out with them. but of course i dont tell my parents that they keep telling me that i need my sleep and that there trying to be good paretns. i tell them that maybe being good parents to me is something different than the stereotype definition of good paretns. but they dont care. i am trying to lose weight now that the holidays are over adn im determined to do it. i am just really really unhappy. i dont know what to do! im so confused. i feel like im all alone. i dont get it i want to be happy but it just doesnt seem to be working for me what do i do to be more happier in school and in just general life?? im sorry this is so long.
thanks for all who help or try to help! (link)
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I used to feel the same way, and then I was angry at myself for feeling it...but what I did (and you should do) is resolve to be more outgoing and social. Really, you'll make new friends and that alone is a great thing.
Don't be afraid to act really friendly and even flirty, and parents always get on the nerves, they can't help it!
Also, confide in people. If something is bothering you, talk about it. In the conversation you might find the real source of your unhappiness, and can then fix it all up.
Best of luck.
Oh, and Happy New Year!
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My boyfriend has acne, just like me. I'm not sure how to help him though since mine has cleared up more since I'm on BC [only thing that worked besides proactive]. I don't know what type of acne he has anyway. He's rather pale and his face is a bit pink/red :] So his acne is.. just many bumps with no white heads or anything. Sometimes he does get a normal zit with a white head. [Which is all I get, so I'm not sure how to help with the bumpy texture] It's all over on the bottom of his cheeks and chin, so any tips/advice? I think his most concern is his skin color. How do you get rid of the redness?
Any advice/tips? Please don't say proactive [not everyone can afford it]. Preferably something you used & gave great results with bumpy skin.
All I can give him is Clearasil Ultra products. Do you think that would work for the "acne" ? I have the on spot treatment, deep pore cleansing pads and daily face wash?
He's talked to me about his skin like 5 times so far so I guess it's his way of wanting my help. :]
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I used to have acne and so since I obviously didn't like it...I experimented.
I wash my face three times a day (and alternate face washes, don't know why but it seems to work) and use Clean & Clear astringent afterwards to sap out the oils. Then, apply moisturizer to ensure my face doesn't get all dried out.
It's really worked for me, so hope it helps!
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My face is horribly broken out, and I really don't know why. I'm impatient, but yes, I seem to have tried everything. I hate medicines that make things "worse before they get better." I have been BEGGING my mom to get me Proactive, but she is refusing. She says she will take me to the derm. but I don't want to go there because I know she will give me something that will dry my face out and make it peal and really discusting. Any advice? I really want Proactive, is it worth the money? Should I just get it myself when I get money for Christmas? (link)
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I've never used Proactive, but my face used to be broken out a lot, too. I kinda experimented about 2 years ago and found that if I alternate face washes, my face looked clearer. No idea why.
I also wash my face three times a day, and after each time use face astringent (I use Clean & Clear for sensitive skin) and apply Olay face moisturizer so my skin doesn't dry out.
Hope I helped!
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So.. I failed my drivers test twice.
The first time, was because I failed the parking, so they wouldn't even let me take the test.
Second time, I failed, because the guy was crazy, .. we found out later he has a huge reputation for failing people for no reason, and that his past two jobs he's been fired..
I really want my liscense but I'm scared now, because I just dont want to fail again. I get so anxious when I think about it. I think so negativley about it now since I've failed "twice", and now whenever I think about driving I think about failure, how do I fix this?
I've been practicing, I just feel so afraid.
And I KNOW i can drive. (link)
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If you know you can drive, then go out and do it! It doesn't sound like there's any reason you failed for the second time (if the guy's got a rep for failing people and getting fired for it...he's got a few problems.
I'm sure you can do it...swallow down that bad feeling and kick some driving test arse. =)
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heyy! i was just wondering if anyone has ever used nair and if it works? because i shave my legs but it usually leaves red bumps...and i definitely dont want to wax!!! too painful!! but anyways if anyone could fill me in taht would be great!! thanks!! (link)
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I had tried Nair when I went on vacation because I didn't want to keep shaving (vacationing at the beach) and it worked well. Unfortunately, I used it three days afterwards and it left my skin VERY irritated and the salt water (oceeaaan) actually made me bleed.
I think it's good if you don't use it too often. Oh, and it didn't get off all the hair, I had to shave what it didn't take care of.
Hope I helped. =)
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is it okay that i only have like one or two close friends? i have like one best friend and then like two good friends and people i just talk too. i feel like everyone always has more close friends than me though. i mean i talk to people but not like to the point where we'd hang out together a lot. i don't know sometimes i feel like somethings missing or wrong with it? i don't know any advice would be mucho appreciated
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Nothing wrong with it at all!
I only have one friend I truly count as close. She's my best friend and we trust each other completely. I do have a good amount of friends, though, I just don't consider them "close" because I wouldn't feel comfortable telling them any secrets or fully trusting them.
I'm incredibly happy to have one best friend whom I can rely on than pretend to have many close friends who I can't really trust for sure!
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This is for either girls or guys.
What are your standards for someone you would date?
Sometimes I think my standards are a little too high, so I was just wondering about other people's. Looks; type of personality; color hair; height; style; family; beliefs etc. Not really your ideal person, but rather (Put bluntly) what MUST they have or be?
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Creative and interesting! Of course I prize a sense of humor, and I like 'em shy, but not unsure or insecure.
Then, all the qualities I feel a relationship needs to have: honesty, respect, and loyalty.
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ok so one of my best friends that ive known for like 3 years, yeah his grandmother has cancer. and shes basically dying :/
he visits her in the hospital and he did today actually and he said she was really "weak" and he was really quiet and didnt really talk much. hes like that a lot lately and im pretty sure its because of his grandmother.
he lost his grandfather like 2 years ago and that pretty much devastated him, he just slept around all day for weeks and i know that thats what he'll do if his grandmother (who hes extremely close to) dies.
now, hes a guy so of course he never ever talks about his feelings.
so..what am i supposed to say? i want to get his mind off of it but its like impossible. and i want to be there for him but if he never tells me his feelings i really cant do anything for him.
so, i need some tips on what i can say or do for him. (link)
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Tell him that it's okay if he doesn't want to talk about it, but let him know that you're always there for him when he wants to talk.
And give 'im hugs if he needs them!
Best of luck.
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Ok, please hear me out, and give your honest opinion.
I am a male in high school and am a straight guy. But there is this one kid that I can't get off my mind.
He is a very good looking guy and he's not mean or anything, I just feel like I want to talk to him all the time and be with him. But every time that we talk I feel like I'm the one that keeps starting conversations and he never starts them..
I don't think I 'like' him, I'm not sure.
Like for example, he's a trouble maker but not a bad one, and every time he does something stupid, I'm always the one to look at his gorgeous eyes and smile and his smile is so awesome I can't even describe it. And the way he smiles at me I feel like there's something more.. but I'm not sure. :(
So as I said, I'm not gay, but I just want to bring up this relationship as friends and see where that goes.
How can I get him to talk to me more?
We talk on AIM, Facebook, MySpace, but we end up just running out of things to talk about..
ALSO! How can I get him to talk about his life? Like what can I say to him that will get him talking about himself personally.
Thanks!
-AJ
PS: I'm 15 and he's 14, we're both in the same grade. (link)
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I think if you start off with simple subjects like a homework assignment and such, that can lead to things like, "I wish I didn't have to do this project tonight, I'd much rather do----" and BAM! You know a hobby of his!
Maybe you can pick out statements regarding your hobbies, too. Bring up a video game, talk about a football game you saw, anything that you might be able to relate with to him.
Good luck =D
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I love to sing, i reallty do!!! But i sound terrible in front of crowds, and really good by myself!
Tips? (link)
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I've noticed when singing in front of people I keep it under my breath and look down. Personally, I find my singing to be good when I'm sitting up straight and looking foward, rather than down.
Don't forget to project your voice! Sometimes when you're in front of people your voice might get low and you might sound insecure of your talents. Flaunt your skill!
Hope I helped =D
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So.
I sit next to Adam in reading, forced to but if we had the choice I probably still would. Well for the past week of sitting together, we've flirted. I wasn't sure at first, but the nudges.. pinches.. Footsies!.. and just what were talking about. Becky even called it flirting. Then PJ Stamas, the most rudest ignorant JERK ever asked "Are you going out with Katie???" Looking directly at Adam, because im not the best thing to look at.. and Adam didn't say anything so then Pj looked at me and asked if we were and I said No were not because were not. So Pj said oo and looked away. And me and Adam went back to flirting.. =D Wellthat was Thursday. Friday at lunch because I sit next to Adam because we are friends.. some random girl I couldnt tell you her name to save my life asked HOW LONG we've been going out..! Then today DJ didffrent annoying kid asked if we were.. Well I dont see why Adams not going "Gross kid! No I am not going out with this Hella Fat cow!" But all 3 times he hasnt said anything.. i've had to correct them. The Steven goes around telling Adam that he's all I ever talk about which soo isn't true!
Adam said something to me I forget, about "us."kinda and I was like ahh not now Adam later.. just joking around and he was like yayyy now i have something to look forward to and It was funny and I laughed and stuff and I guess I have a laugh AND a giggle. Ive heard this from my Best Budd in the whole world Becky. Well I dont control it. because I dont know I even had a **gigle...
Well, Beckys made a huge deal out've reading and me and Adam flirting. I say its not.. even tho it kinda is.. I mean Im not the number one girl Adam could have! He's funny, Smells delish!!! no joke, and i donno everything about hims awsome. He has more options besides ME. I stayed back, im the Godzilla of the grade.. because im fat and im just al around not pretty. But people tell me other wise.. but ughh tuff subject.
Then today Adam at lunch was playing footsies.. and i was laughing and stuff when JJ tried making fun of him and started with my other foot COMPLETELY AKWARD btw when Adam stepped on his foot with FULL FORCE like as hard as possible!! Well all I can say is JJ wont do that again =) But the weird things is afterwards, Adam didn't stop. He continued holding me knee.. and playing with my foot. And in reading, he rubs knee\leg and we talked about how waffles are better then pancakes, lipgloss is better then lipstick (haha funny funny!) and if i looked better with or without glasses and he said eitherway..=) And I dont know what it's called but he keeps stepping on my hel when im walking and it kills SOOO much lol and Friday he hurt me and he was like Oh my god im sooo sorry and hasnt done it since.
Well, I didnt want to admit i liked him because he couldve been flirting with me on a bet or date, Ive seen those movie! or to just fuck with me. And I dont wanna make a big deal outa this if he doesnt. I dont wanna look like an idiot.
Well I kinda wrote this is my profile.
So Maybe I Do Talk To Much.
Expecially
About Him.
I might as well go to the tallest mountain..
And Scream It To The World.
"I Can't Lie."
After me and becky Had a talk about how I suck at lieing...
What do I do??
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I'd take a chance! I mean, it really sounds like he likes you, a lot! And I'm sure you look lovely =)
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okay the guy i like asked me out today and we were taking he said this"can i flirt with other girls?" and i also asked him"can i?" and he said yeah so i said yes to him is this okay?
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Nope, not a good idea. If he wanted to flirt with other girls he shouldn't have asked to do so AFTER he asked you out.
It'll create problems and can end up hurting you...and that's no fun. =(
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I'm a bit sad and confused right now. I feel like I'm starting to seem like the type of girl who looks like 'one of the guys' to guys. I don't know. Just recently, I was with a group of guys and I played football with them and I was the only girl. It's not like I am a tomboy though. The idea you have in your head is probably the opposite of what I actually look like and how I actually am. I am extremely feminine in the way I look and dress. However, I love playing sports and I have more guy friends then girls. But I do have friends that are girls, I just prefer guys. Normally, when I talk to guys, they feel comfortable telling me certain things guys should talk about with other guys. I'm not sure if this is good or bad. But sometimes I just hate it, because I feel like I'll always be like this in a guys eyes. I've had boyfriends. I sort of unexperienced though. The only thing I've done was kiss, not make out. I'm 15. I feel like if I keep doing what I am doing, whatever I am doing, things arent going to change. But I don't know how to act, or what to do, or what to say. I just feel sort of depressed. So, what should I do? Please and thank you. Sorry that it's long. (link)
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I'm very alike in that all of my friends are guys but one. I'm also alike in that I'm very feminine but I LOVE football! But don't worry, guys dig that they can hang out with you. I mean, I always hear in relationships that "She's my girlfriend, not my best friend," but if you start out being the best friend, you can end up being both!
Plus that and guys generally want to hang out with the people they can relate to and actually have fun with. And, that's you!
And about the "don't know how to act" part, act yourself. Yeah, it might sound cheesy but it's true. Why risk losing your friends by acting different?
And one last thing: A lot of times "just friends" turns into more with time. Keep hanging out with them, and don't be afraid to flirt a little. =)
Hope I helped and good luck =D
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My boyfriends birthday is November 28th. We haven't even been dating for a month, but obviously i must do something for his birthday. I'm 15 and he will be turning 17, but he already has a car and like gas money and such. He is pretty big in sports, but not really one sport in particular. I want to do something cute, but not over the top due to the fact we haven't been dating for a while. Any ideas, sites, previous presents, or anything would be helpful. I just need somewhere to start! Please and thanks! (If it matters, we live in Michigan). (link)
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Maybe buy him new sports gear to replace some olds ones. Like a new football or cleats. You could get him a gift card for a sport-related store, but that might not be as personal as you'd like. Take notice to some of his gear and see what could be thrown out and replaced with something new.
As for the cute? Bake him cupcakes!
Good luck!
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How do i change the txt on myspace like the font and color. if you put in a code the where do you put it and do you have to highlight the words???
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I don't know the text, but to change the color type in to change the color. Same goes for size:
Hope I heeelped =D
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So I was at a school, and during my last year there, a new guy came and we became really good friends.
He has always been really nice to me and flirts a lot.
Tonight I went to the cinema with him and on our way there(on the bus) we were sitting close together and talking a lot.
During the movie we were still very close together and like I had my head on his shoulder.
After the movie we went to the bus stop and it turned out that we had to wait 40 minutes until the next bus. So we went around walking and then we randomly hugged and we didn't let go of each other for ages.
Then we were just walking around and he'd randomly hug me every now and then.
Near the bus station there were stairs leading up to some building and we were up there and he was hugging me there aswell. He was complimenting me a lot, and on the bus back he put his arms around me and was cuddling me.
When it was my stop he looked really disappointed and hugged me tight before I got off and few minutes later texted me saying ''Tis no fun without you here''
I've really started to like him but I'm not sure whether he likes me in that way.
Usually on msn we can talk for hours without awkward pauses.
So yeah, does he like me or not? (link)
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He's making it blatantly clear that he likes you! Just keep an eye out if he acts like that towards other girls.
But yeah, he's basically shouting it. =)
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alright so me and my friend reaaaaaaally want to go to disney world - we're 15. there's one problem my mom or her parents won't want to take us. so we wanted to just go by ourselves....but the answer is mainly no. we really want to go - how can we convince them to let us?
we're saving up for everything on our own so that really isn't a problem for them.
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Have you and your friend sit down with both your mom and her parents. Explain how you're both being mature, and seeing as you are saving up for it on your own, the trip will be very important to you and it'll be a wonderful experience.
Try to compromise. Politely ask them why they feel so strongly about you not going. I mean, it's Disney World, it's supposed to be all magical and stuff! Hehe, it's not like it's a bad place to go.
Hope you get to go and hope you have fun!
Oh, hope I helped, too! Haha, good luck =D
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