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i dont understand
i should be perfectly happy. i have a good family and great friends. i cant stand my mom sometimes because she thinks she knows everything but i guess thats the really only family problem i have.i hate school and i dont know why. i mean i really really hate it. my parents just opened up a buisness..a lazer tag arena. the employees are really nice and the business is doing well. i love to hang out with a few of the guy employees (im a girl) there older than me but we get along really well. i try to go there as much as i can to hang out with them. but of course i dont tell my parents that they keep telling me that i need my sleep and that there trying to be good paretns. i tell them that maybe being good parents to me is something different than the stereotype definition of good paretns. but they dont care. i am trying to lose weight now that the holidays are over adn im determined to do it. i am just really really unhappy. i dont know what to do! im so confused. i feel like im all alone. i dont get it i want to be happy but it just doesnt seem to be working for me what do i do to be more happier in school and in just general life?? im sorry this is so long.
thanks for all who help or try to help!
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I used to feel the same way, and then I was angry at myself for feeling it...but what I did (and you should do) is resolve to be more outgoing and social. Really, you'll make new friends and that alone is a great thing.
Don't be afraid to act really friendly and even flirty, and parents always get on the nerves, they can't help it!
Also, confide in people. If something is bothering you, talk about it. In the conversation you might find the real source of your unhappiness, and can then fix it all up.
Best of luck.
Oh, and Happy New Year!
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You're probably going through a rough patch where nothing seems to be fun anymore for you, where no matter what you do, you're just not happy. Don't worry, when I'm feeling down I like to keep myself busy. Find a hobby that interests you. Personally I love to draw, play guitar or even just listen to music and think. Also I find hanging out with my close friends or relatives always makes me feel better. Tell your parents that you're growing up and that you're no longer a little kid anymore. You're gonna want to start hanging around with guys more often and that's perfectly okay. Hope I could help and have a happy New Years.
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I'm guessing you feel like you're in a "transition" stage...that things won't get better until you look a certain way or you have a certain object. From time to time, I fall back into those beliefs, yet all you need to adjust is your attitude. Rejoice over EVERYTHING. No matter how simple. You'll begin to notice how much good you've got in your life.
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