do you think this is okay?

Question Posted Saturday November 17 2007, 2:05 am

okay the guy i like asked me out today and we were taking he said this"can i flirt with other girls?" and i also asked him"can i?" and he said yeah so i said yes to him is this okay?

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Buttacup answered Sunday November 18 2007, 8:30 pm:
Nope, not a good idea. If he wanted to flirt with other girls he shouldn't have asked to do so AFTER he asked you out.

It'll create problems and can end up hurting you...and that's no fun. =(

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thelaura answered Sunday November 18 2007, 9:17 am:
No. The whole point of being in a relationship is being committed to just that one person. Why would he want to flirt with anyone if he has a girlfriend.
It will cause problems in the future, such as jealousy, arguments and possibly even cheating.
Talk to him about it. Ask him why he feels the need to "flirt". Who knows, he may have a different definition to flirt and might just mean if he can still talk to other girls.

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Elle2619 answered Sunday November 18 2007, 4:51 am:
Okay.. Personally I don't believe it is okay. You are meant to be a relationship together, a relationship is meant to be built around trust, intimacy, honesty etc. When your in a relationship your meant to be devoted to that person ONLY. Well of cause this is how i personally see it. I believe that by letting your boyfriend flirt with other girls this could lead to problems such as you feeling jealous, other girls coming between you too, him deciding he's found someone better, him showing other girls more love and affection (attention) than you. Can you see the list of problems you may have caused for your self? I thnk you should probably discuss this with your boyfriend, bring up questions like why he feels he wants to flirt with other girls etc. BEing that you 2 are in a relationship you should be able to be open and honest with each other. Personally I would feel as though I wasn't good enough if my boyfriend wanted to be with me yet still flirt with other girls.

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xmastaassgrabbax answered Sunday November 18 2007, 3:04 am:
no.. this can cause problems in the future trust me it can lead to cheating and lieing.. you better stop it now before its too late

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