I am a Sixteen year old girl who enjoys helping others and sharing my experience and knowledge. I'm here to help anyone and everyone and anyone is welcome to add me on msn or email me. I have been through relationship problems, Family problems (I have recently moved out of home.) I have had many friendship problems and have helped a lot of people through self harm and suicidal thoughts. My career goal is to be either a graphic designer, Visual Art teacher or councellor.
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Member Since: November 9, 2007
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Hey, im 14.f and a freshmen.
alright so finals are coming up, and obviously its my first year taking them.
im very very nervous, considering it counts for a lot of my grade and im really nervous i wont remember anything at all.
But my real question is, What are some good ways to study that seem to work?
because i think, since im in highschool now, i need a stronger technique that will help me remember more information, because seriously, i dont think what i'm doing is helping me much anymore.
i mean i study for tests, i know the information, but then its like i dont remember what i reallly need to know.
I get B's or C's on tests i should ace.
so will anyone pleaseeee spare some good studying techniques or habits?
thank you sooo much. (link)
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Okay, Sometimes you have to try not to worry so much because at times this can cause you to loose important things from your memory.
Here is my study technique: I go over notes, highlight the important factors then write them into a study book, for me this is how my memory absorbs the information but you may be different. I also use red, blue and black pens when writing these. I usually use Black for headings (making it easy to find when you are further revising) blue (generally) and red for important things i really need to remember.
I also find it beneficial to go over things allowed, i find that it makes some things easier to understand such as science particles etc.
Also if you can get your teacher to give you an extended response question you can sometimes study things relevant to that and add in additional things you have learnt this helps study a lot of one subject such as history and geography at once.
Don't worry too much, wait to you get to years 10,11 and 12 :P
Good Luck
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what do guys consider a good kisser? and what do they consider a bad one? and im talking about french kissing.. with tongue...
guys and girls can answer if they have any information. thank you!! (link)
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To be completely honest each and every guy and girl likes something different. Some like it slow others like it fast and sometimes others like it varied.
I can give you a tip: I've heard that writing the alphabet with your tongue in the other persons mouth is pretty sensational.
Just do what comes naturally.
Good Luck xx
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what can i do to a guy to give him pleasue without us getting undressed? (link)
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Theres a lot of things you can do to give him pleasure without getting undressed this include passionate kissing (Pashing, french kissing) Touching him, especially the neck. Rubbing his penis (stroking)
Hope I've helped...
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Okay so here it goes. I have a guy friend that I really like(I’m 20 and he’s 27), and I am pretty sure he likes me too. I catch him staring at me all the time and he is always playfully hitting me and joking around. He and I will go places together and he frequently pays for whatever we are doing. We live right next to each other so he is usually either at my house or I am at his. I house sat last week and he called me every night that I was gone and we would talk on the phone for hours. He told me that he didn’t want me to be lonely or bored. I also have texts from him saying that He is really shy around me and that I make him blush. I have had quite a few people tell me that they are positive he likes me because they see the way he acts and looks at me. He will sometimes make comments that leave me confused. Like the other day he asked me how far apart my parents were and I told him they are 8 years apart. Then he turned to me and he was like “that would be like if we were dating.” Or another time we were playfully hitting each other and he was like “Damn, if you and I were dating we would be black and blue” So does he like me?
Now here’s for the hard part. He’s engaged. And he has been with her for 9 years. I know what you’re thinking. I’m not a home wrecker. I wouldn’t do anything with him. I want to, but I never would if he was still with her. But anyways he proposed to her last Christmas and they still haven’t set a date. They don’t live together (which I think is strange. If I was going to be married to somebody I’d like to know if I could stand living with them first), and they only see each other once or twice a week. Other than that, they will talk on the phone a couple times a day. Before he proposed to her all she would talk about was how big she wanted her diamond to be and how much she thought it should cost. And she would go on and on and on. My parents (who know him too) think he proposed to her just to shut her up. She is also going to be leaving here for another four years of college in another city, and he’s not going with her. Is that weird? Would you propose to someone when you knew they would be leaving for four years?
I don’t know what to do. I want to tell him that I like him, but I don’t know how or even if I really should. I wouldn’t even know how to go about telling him. And I don’t want to ruin our relationship either. I’m really confused. I find myself thinking about him constantly and I feel horrible because I know I shouldn’t feel that way for someone who’s taken, but you can’t help who you like right? Sorry for making this so long. Thank You to everyone who takes the time to read this. I appreciate it. (link)
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I'm sorry but I have to disagree with that last answer. Firstly the age gap is nothing so don't be wary of that. Okay yes you have let yourself go somewhere you shouldn't but just remember you can't control who your heart falls for. It is a really tough situation. From what you've typed here I do believe there is more in this relationship than friendship on both sides. The comments he's made to me tell me he wants your opinion and could be trying to figure out whether your into him and what your feelings are about you 2 being in a relationship. I feel it is strange that they don't live together or see each other often. And i agree I wouldn't propose to someone I knew was going away for 4 years without me. I seriously do not think you should keep your mouth shut, this situation is eating at you from deep inside and its going to cause you a lot more problems and pain if you don't state your true feelings, you would be lying to him and yourself. Its only natural to be worried about what may happen to your relationship you already have but being that your both in your 20's you should be able to be mature and act appropriately on the situation. One thing I have to ask is what would you do if you 2 got together when he left for college?
Perhaps you could start throwing some comments back at him to give him the picture your into him.
Best of Luck xx
You only live once, take chances.
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Hey People! Can you help me? Well before you start reading this you have to have a experience in dating or have a boyfriend or girlfriend.
What age did you start dating or get your first boyfriend/girlfriend? I really want to know cause it will help me with my prob so please reply and i always leave a good rate and a comment!! (link)
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Personally I don't believe that there is a right and wrong age. I started dating when I was 13 but it was nothing serious. I then got into a six month relationship a month after my 14th Birthday, I then got into the relationship I am in when I was almost 15. I first had sex when i was 15 but when i look back in a way I wish I had of waited. Evryone has there own opinions and morals for example I have a morla that I would not have sex with anyone unless I'd been in a relationship with them that has lasted longer than 6 months.
Hope this has helped...
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I showed my mom this website:
http://eredicane.com/
& she just skimmed it & said I couldnt get it because it will "ruin my liver"
is that true? i realllllly want it, is there any safe alternatives? (link)
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okay I have to be honest... I see this medication as a waste of time due to blushing can be a cause of any thing no one really knows the fact that this medication probably controls your facial blood vessels to me tells me that it could cause anything, I'm not completely sure it could cause liver damage but anything is possible. The safest option would be to talk to your local Gp (Doctor) to see if there is anything you can do about blushing and to ask about this particular medication ad the side effects.
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SO.... I've been seeing this guy for a lil while now and yes we have had sex. The thing is He wants me to be on top sometimes and im just not comfortable with it. I fell like when i'm up there i just don't know what to do~! I don't know if i'm just afraid that im going to suck at being on top or what~ any advice ne1 could give me plz? (link)
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It is natural to be afraid of doing it wrong but what you need to understand is that there is no right or wrong when having sex. Everyone s different, every position is different. I personally enjoy being on top as I find it easier to get the G-spot but everyone has there own favourite ways. Basically when your on top at times yes you are in control, but there is nothng saying he can't help you (he can thrust etc) and you can just move your self up and down his body.
Hope I've helped.
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18/f - For years, i've had restless nights. to the point where i would be tossing and turning in bed for hours. some nights, i fall asleep like a baby, but then get up in the middle of the night and can't fall asleep for hours. i dont drink caffine, my room is normal condition, no lights, no noises, no messes. ive never been able to talk to a doctor about it, but it happens alot when im stressing out or dealing with alot of stuff, like after my dad died, i slept and slept. but even when i get 7-9 hours, IM STILL TIRED. its getting annoying because nothing is helping me. i have, yes only once, had a friend give me a sleeping pills because i went days without sleep, and it made me fall asleep and i wasn't tired after 7-9 hours of sleep. (thats was over a year ago btw) do you think i should go to a doctor and talk to them? any ideas how to fall asleep cause im having that problem now.. thanks. (link)
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I know you've said that you feel you can't talk to a doctor about it but I have to be honest and I do believe you need to talk to a doctor. A doctor is probably the best option you have in the sense of help. You could take other avenues like councelling but a doctor is probably the best bet and he may even refer you to a councellor. Its only natural that you found it hard to sleep after your dad passed away.But the fact you can sleep for 7-9 hours and still be tired tells me you are in need of medical assistance. You would benefit a lot from seeking a professionals opinion.
Good Luck xx
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okay i hope this doesnt sound really stupid, but... a girl in my town just died and everyone is posting bulletins saying "please pray for her." and i feel really stupid because im not sure what were praying for? i mean, if she was sick or injured id be praying for her to get better. and i can see praying for her family and friends that they will be able to get through this. but when they say pray for her, do they mean pray that she'll go to heaven, or what? im sorry, i just want to understand what they mean. (link)
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Praying can basically be for anything or anyone. What came to my mind first of all was that by the posters saying "pray for her" I think they mean pray that she will have a second life, pray that she is okay wherever it is that she has gone. But also they would probably like you to pray for her family and friends that they will get better from the sadness of her death etc.
Hope this has helped xx
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Noone helped me with my question so I will ask again. My face gets super red whenever I see the guy I like. Is there a way to prevent this from happening? (link)
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Perhaps no-one answered your question because believe it or not its a hard question to answer (just being honest) No-one has been able to pin point what it is exactly that makes a person go red when they see someone they like or when they get embarrassed. I believe its a natural reaction and I'm not sure that there actually is a way to prevent it. It could be that your shy, I'm not sure. Maybe you need to work on your self confidence around guys once again I'm not sure. I do believe you deserve an answer so i'm hoping this explains a few things... Maybe you shuld do some searching on google or something.
Sorry and Good Luck
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okay the guy i like asked me out today and we were taking he said this"can i flirt with other girls?" and i also asked him"can i?" and he said yeah so i said yes to him is this okay?
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Okay.. Personally I don't believe it is okay. You are meant to be a relationship together, a relationship is meant to be built around trust, intimacy, honesty etc. When your in a relationship your meant to be devoted to that person ONLY. Well of cause this is how i personally see it. I believe that by letting your boyfriend flirt with other girls this could lead to problems such as you feeling jealous, other girls coming between you too, him deciding he's found someone better, him showing other girls more love and affection (attention) than you. Can you see the list of problems you may have caused for your self? I thnk you should probably discuss this with your boyfriend, bring up questions like why he feels he wants to flirt with other girls etc. BEing that you 2 are in a relationship you should be able to be open and honest with each other. Personally I would feel as though I wasn't good enough if my boyfriend wanted to be with me yet still flirt with other girls.
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so theres this girl who thinks shes pretty much the S***. its so weird though, considering shes in 8th grade and im a freshman. shes one of those girls that EVERYONE is in love with, you know. and i dont know why it bothers me so much, but it just does. nomatter what she always comes out on TOP, and the BEST, and shes good at EVERYTHING,,, and shes like perfect. and shes friends with people MY age that I cant even make friends with because theyre "those types of girls." you know? I dont know.. its just like it seems like everything always works out for her and that everybody loves her and wants to be her best friend. and i just need somone to tell me if its all just in my head that shes like, perfect...idk what im even saying haha. i'm getting tired of seeing her be good at everything and nothing bad ever happening to her while i wish i could be that perfect and flawless. is it all in my head? and am i just having lack of self confidence? helppp. thanks :) (link)
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Firstly Jealousy is only natural... always remember that, theres a time n everyone's life where they are jealous of someone else for various reasons. I do see this as a lack of self confidence, I have to be honest. In ever school theres always that one girl who seems like shes better than everyone else, it probably happens in the workplace as well, I guess its just a fact of life. I think you need to take a step back and think of all the positive things in your life, Whats great about your looks, What your attributes (talents) are and your knowledge eduction excellences. Focus on the POSITIVE things. Write a list. Look back on the times where you felt you were a shinning star. Just to state a fact or perhaps to point something out to you, things probably don't always go right for this girl, she probably has problems that no-one know about and being positive and in the spot light may help her to deal with them. Just remember you are a unique individual and no-one else in this word is like you.
Stay happy and Positive...
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So this boy Eric has a crush on my boyfriend. He gets calls from Eric in the middle of our dates sometimes and it's completely random. Recently, we heard that Eric told his friend he was gay. The way he was acting and the things he has said, he surely does has the hots for my boyfriend. Besides calling him hottie, sexy, blah. My boyfriend is straight. He really wants Eric to leave him alone [not in a homophobic way, in a flirting way], but the thing is "he doesn't know Eric's gay yet". Eric wanted to speak with him alone for a bit and I'm assuming it was supposed to be about that . Some other chick is trying to hook Eric up with my boyfriend. So he's trying to avoid the guy But he's doing it all wrong. It's making it worse since someone pointed it out that it may look as though, he's playing hard to get. Where & what should my boyfriend tell him? When is the right time? Should my boyfriend just go for it before Eric says he is gay? The guy is beginning to become a bit stalker ish.
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Okay I have to admit this is a bit out of the ordinary. Firstly, I think you should tell your boyfriend you've heard Eric is gay. Your boyfriend should just be honest with Eric and tell him that he's got a boyfriend and that he's not interested in him. Your boyfriend could perhaps that he is feeling a litte uneasy about the fact he feels Eric is flirting with him and the fact that he feels that Eric is being a tad stalker ish. I don't believe your boyfriend is gay 1) because he's with you and 2) he wants Eric to leave him alone but just remember I don't know your boyfriend. As for the girl who is invloved maybe you need to tell her to back off or get your boyfriend to explain he's not interested in Eric. I can understand all this would be a little hard to deal with and I guess in a way you've got playing in your head "he's not gay is he." It may make it easier for you to deal with this situation if you talk to your boyfriend about YOUR feelings about what's going on. Be open and honest!
Best of Luck xx
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I have sex quite often with the same person,we've done it mannnnny times.
Tonight i was on my period and he knew that but still wanted to do it.
So i didnt mind,so we started to do it and he pulled out with blood all over his dick
He ofcourse got extremly grossed out and ran in the shower and obviously wanted me to leave.
I'm scared that ,just that will change things forever.
Do you think that things will go back to normal? or Do you think he's that grossed out that he'll never wanna do it again? (link)
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Well from what you've written, he knew you had your period and still wanted it therefore its not your fault, you did the right thing by telling him. From past experiences he'll come around especially if he really likes you, its only natural for him to be a little freaked out that he had someone elses blood on him. I'm sure things will go back to normal just give him some time to get over it, its just a learning curve and he's probably learnt alot from it.
By the way its only natural for you to be embarrassed, I was too.
Hope I've Helped xx
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so me and my bf have been going out since the begining of summer and i dont like him anymore how do i tell him that?? (link)
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The best advice I can give you is to be honest with him, because if he finds out you've been lying about liking him etc it may make things worse. If you can't tell him to his face, maybe a phone call is the way to go about it. Your going to have to expect him to be angry and upset but he'll get over it. You have to do whats best for you. Be open and honest and express reasons why you don't like him anymore.
Best Of Luck xx
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Want to ask a girl out, but what should we do?
Like what activity, e.g. movie.
For those who are really into answering questions like this, could you please tell me a reason for the activity, like why would i want to do that with her! Thanks so much!
Kronix (link)
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The movies is a perfect idea. You can get all cozy and lovey- dovey. Plus you can be romantic and show your interested by buying her ticket etc. You may even like to take her out for dinner before hand. This is if you have enough money to be able to do that. Otherwise you could do something like have a picnic at a beach or park and spend the day together, go swimming adn spend some one on one time together to get to know each other a little more etc. This will be a relaxed environment and is very very romantic.
Good Luck xx
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when ur having sex what if the condom comes off in your vagina or up the anus. it was just a thought i had today =b how easily can a condom com off anyway i mean whats keeping it on anyway! and also if it did happen how would you get it out? (link)
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Well if the condom comes off, you will need to get a morning after pill (available over the counter at most chemists) to keep your self safe from pregnancy. When a male puts a condom on their penis they pinch the end to ensure there is no air between the penis and the condom this is to hopefully ensure the condom will stay on. The condom is very flexible and the base of the condom is almost like a rubber band it is tight so that it will stay on however if the condom comes off n the Vagina its usually pretty easy to put your finger up there and pull it out, the condom should be long becuase it has been stretched to fit a penis same thing goes for if it gets stuck up your anus. You hear more stories of the condom breaking then of the actual condom coming off.
Hope I've helped xx
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Ok first of all can your hymen brake when you get fingered? and is it the hymen braking that causes the pain the first time or the actually sex part? (link)
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First of all by braking the hymen i'm guessing you mean stretching or tearing it. Yes if a guy or yourself fingers your vagina very hardly or tries to put more than one finger up at at a time can cause the hymen to tear which will be painful. This can also happen on your first time having sex, as to it causing the pain or the actual sex part it depends on a lot of things. Sex shouldn't usually hurt sometimes it can be painful if your vagina isn't wel lubricated (wet) this will cause friction which is painful for both sex partners.
Hope this has helped
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wat does it mean when your giving sumbody head
or giving sumbody a blow job
like how do the do it (link)
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"Giving Head" and "Blow Job" are words given to a male receiving oral sex. Oral sex is using your mouths and tongues to pleasure each others vagina or penis. This is not sexual intercourse but is a form of sexual behaviour.
Hope this has helped xx
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I recently started liking someone, and they want a relationship out of our friendship. This would be my first boyfriend probably, and i don't know what to do. I'm not scared, im just really shy and just nervous about it. He has autism, but it sort of/sort of doesn't affect much. I wanna just be friends for a while. But i don't know what to do. Any suggestions? Cause this is like a first time thing for me.
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I can see your confussed and it seems as though you don't want to loose the friendship you have which is a good thing. First times for everything are nerve racking... Be yourself and follow your heart. I can understand that the Autism may be bothering you a bit but thats only natural. I think you should talk to him about how you feel and what your worries are about having a relationship, just be honest and open :D
Good Luck xx
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