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Girl On Top
SO.... I've been seeing this guy for a lil while now and yes we have had sex. The thing is He wants me to be on top sometimes and im just not comfortable with it. I fell like when i'm up there i just don't know what to do~! I don't know if i'm just afraid that im going to suck at being on top or what~ any advice ne1 could give me plz?
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i know exactly how you feel. pretty much the girl just moves forward and back at an angle. it helps if the guy is experienced and helps you a little bit.
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It is natural to be afraid of doing it wrong but what you need to understand is that there is no right or wrong when having sex. Everyone s different, every position is different. I personally enjoy being on top as I find it easier to get the G-spot but everyone has there own favourite ways. Basically when your on top at times yes you are in control, but there is nothng saying he can't help you (he can thrust etc) and you can just move your self up and down his body.
Hope I've helped.
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I'll tell you a secret.
Most guys are not going to cum when youre on top.
When he asks you to get on top, its not because he wants you to make something feel good for him. Its because he wants to watch you enjoy yourself. When you are on top of him he can lay there, enjoy sex, and he can see more of you than he can with other positions. Guys like it because they can see their girl's face and the pleasure crossing it.
So when you get on top, do what feels good for you. Play with it, enjoy it, and show him that you enjoy it.
Start there, and then talk to him about what feels good for him, and you can work something out where you both very much enjoy.
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have him sit up like hes sitting in a chair and then move up and down back and forth tell him to help you and he will kind of guide you.
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