Question Posted Saturday November 17 2007, 4:58 pm
Question already asked but put on like the last page anyway, I'm a guy, I always feel these girls like me, but then I find out they have boyfriends and whenever im around them they seem to respond well to me but when there with there boyfriends I kind of ignore them and they seem to ignore me. And when I get to know a girl pretty well and we both want to hook up and stuff she suddenly gets a boyfriend, does that mean she no longer wants to hook up? but ok, the real question is how do I actually know if there attracted to me and I should put the effort of trying to get with them as opposed to just forgetting about it and moving on??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? phatdopelove answered Sunday November 18 2007, 3:58 pm: These girls are just flirting. Some people just like to flirt, and flirting is fun. So whenever a person flirts with you try not to over-analyze over the "signs" that she likes you. Keep in mind if someone who is REALLY into you will be flattered that you like them ,and will take the invite when you invite them to go out. Not go out with another guy. So these girls are just flirting, don't take their flirting too seriously.
My advice, JUST FLIRT. Keep flirting, and there is MORE likely the chance to find someone that likes you. Don't close off , and try not to be settled into liking one person, in-case if all else fails , you have a backup. Or try going out with girls who are just your friends, maybe there is a friend of hers you may end up liking? Life is full of possibilities, flirting MORE increases your chances of finding someone for you. It just takes time. Hope I helped. :) [ phatdopelove's advice column | Ask phatdopelove A Question ]
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