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Embarassed!
I have sex quite often with the same person,we've done it mannnnny times.
Tonight i was on my period and he knew that but still wanted to do it.
So i didnt mind,so we started to do it and he pulled out with blood all over his dick
He ofcourse got extremly grossed out and ran in the shower and obviously wanted me to leave.
I'm scared that ,just that will change things forever.
Do you think that things will go back to normal? or Do you think he's that grossed out that he'll never wanna do it again?
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The same thing happend to me.
but if your close to him there should be no problem.
i mean i pull my tampon out in front of my boyfriend.
but maybe he just wasnt used to it.
if hes being an ass then breakup with him.
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If he does he's not worth it so relax and talk to him about it , plus he knew it was gonna happen so , he shouldn't have been such a dick about it !
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Relax a bit and reminder yourself that you did nothing, not a single thing, to be worried about.
Laugh it off gently and take it as a learning experience. HIS learning experience. He learned that having sex with a woman on her period is not his cup of tea. A lot of guys are cool with it, he isn't.
The part that worries me is "obviously wanted me to leave". What the hell? So you, like nearly every woman on the planet does at some time, are menstruating and it's obvious that he wants to be as far away from you as possible? No darling, that part of this is not okay part.
Look, you don't mention the big 'boyfriend' word so I imagine this is just casual, which is fine, but even in casual relationships there MUST be respect and compassion for another person. Having sex with someone, even casually, makes us emotionally (and physically) vulnerable to them. So you need to know that your partner has a head on his shoulder and a basic level of respect for people. His treatment of you was pretty shabby and disrespectful.
As WittyUserNameHere brilliantly said: He is gonna get horny again. However, if for his own immature and moronic reason, he chooses to no longer have sex with you PLEASE don’t mourn the loss. Go find yourself a casual partner with an actual brain in his head.
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Hi Darl,
The point is he knew you were on your period and he was the one who wanted to do it not you. So it's his fault. I'm sure he will want to have sex with you again when he thinks of the last fabulous sex you had. Don't worry he'll get over it when it's sex.
Mandy
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I think that hes an idiot if he got grossed out after deciding to get his red wings.
Sex on a period is messy. Thats the way it is. Talk to him about it.
Though, just to reassure you, its not like hes not going to be horny again soon.
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I just have to double what Elle2619 said. He knew exactly what he was getting himself into so I don't see how this can be your fault at all. It seems he let his sex drive get the better of him and he's now paying for it. Certainly not your fault at all. And to be completely honest I've been in the same place as him and I knew exactly what I was also getting myself into yet it didn't phase me It all depends on the person and he may just not be so good being around blood as most people aren't. Let him chill out and calm down and things will be just fine - don't worry. For things to change simply becuase of this experience would seem very, very strange because I personally don't think it's all that big a deal. At least not enough that it would put him off sex completely or for it to cause any problems with your relationship - especially since he was the one who wanted to do it knowing you were on your period.
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Well from what you've written, he knew you had your period and still wanted it therefore its not your fault, you did the right thing by telling him. From past experiences he'll come around especially if he really likes you, its only natural for him to be a little freaked out that he had someone elses blood on him. I'm sure things will go back to normal just give him some time to get over it, its just a learning curve and he's probably learnt alot from it.
By the way its only natural for you to be embarrassed, I was too.
Hope I've Helped xx
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