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HELLPPPP!! bf probs.


Question Posted Saturday November 10 2007, 12:32 am

so me and my bf have been going out since the begining of summer and i dont like him anymore how do i tell him that??

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SoxGh3to answered Saturday November 10 2007, 4:20 pm:
Well by telling him you don't like him you'd be breaking up with him first of all don't do it over the phone or through texting because seriously , that's not the way to break up with someone. Try doing it the next time you see him and don't come off being rude just simply say "hey we need to talk ...." and say what you have to say next then end it with ...."I think we're better off seeing other people" I'm sure he'll understand. Anyways I hope I helped !

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Babii-Blonde16 answered Saturday November 10 2007, 3:13 pm:
Just be honest with him! You cant pretend to like him as it is not fair on him. So tell him the truth but break it to him easy as it will be a hard thing to hear. Good luck

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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LOL_x0x answered Saturday November 10 2007, 2:44 pm:
The best advice:
Just be honest with him.


Relationships come and go, that's just how they work. It's much better to be honest with him now, rather than giving him time to get even more attatched to you, and hurting him even more in the long run.


-Laura. (15-f)

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hollisterhottiexoxoxoxoxo answered Saturday November 10 2007, 10:44 am:
just break up with him. ur in school not getting married or anything duh

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ammo answered Saturday November 10 2007, 5:07 am:
I guess it depends on what it is you want to do. Are you looking to end things completely with him because you just plain don't like him anymore or are you looking to try and fix things between you and him? If you are looking to try and fix things then you should sit down with him and explain that something is missing between you both (the spark maybe) and that you both need to talk about it. Try and figure out what it is that's wrong because I can't advise you on how to fix something (nor can you yourself fix something) if you don't know what it is that's broken.

On the other hand if you are looking to just plain end the relationship then I would suggest probably doing so in person (unless he's prone to get violent) and just explaining to him (pretty much what I said above) that the spark has faded and you're ot sure you feel the same anymore about him. Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. When it comes to something like this it's all about speaking from the heart and explaining how you feel.

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Elle2619 answered Saturday November 10 2007, 5:00 am:
The best advice I can give you is to be honest with him, because if he finds out you've been lying about liking him etc it may make things worse. If you can't tell him to his face, maybe a phone call is the way to go about it. Your going to have to expect him to be angry and upset but he'll get over it. You have to do whats best for you. Be open and honest and express reasons why you don't like him anymore.

Best Of Luck xx

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