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advice

whats the best type of liquid foundation?
something that lasts up to 6 hours, doesnt look caked on, blends with my skin tone, doesnt cause acne or skin irritation, and isnt oil based. Also whatever brand it is, about how much it would cost.
Thanks a bunch:)

The best foundation i have ever used is Maybelline Dream Matte Mousse because it leaves a very smooth finish and it has 8 different shades and can be found to mathch any skin tone. I have got very sensitive skin and i have never had any problems with it. it costs me £5.99 and lasts me all day, i also use bronzer with it (any type really as long as it is not to dark for you skin tone). Hope i helped Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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What types of shoes are good to wear to walk around in for a whole day that aren't sneakers?

Well obviously you need to stay away from heels if you are walking round all day but flat shoes are always comfy to walk around in or the very popular UGG boots are very comfy too. Hope i helped Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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ok so my one friend is the kind of person who is always happy,totally random, is ALWAYS smiling, can make ANYONE laugh...just happy in general. well one day someone told me that they saw her walking down the hall ccrying. i was shocked cause i didnt think that i would ever see her cry. so when i saw her 2 periods later i asked if she was ok. she said she was and not to worry.well i couldnt help but worry cause she is the happiest person i know. so after that class was over...i went to wildcat.i was sitting therre trying to convince myself that everything was ok. i couldnt. i just got htis feeling that something was seriously wrong. then one of my other friends walked in and said that she was in the bathroom crying. im worried that first of all something is horribly wrong. and second of all that our friendship isnt as good as i thought it was. i am really worried about her. i dont want to ask her about it cause she obviously doesnt want me to know.

WHAT CAN I DO FOR HER/OUR FRIENDSHIP?

Well i dont think your friendship is in danger as you seem like a really caring person and people dont drop friends like you just for being concerned. I dont think she is not telling you because she doesnt want you to know, she might just be going through something and trying to handle it on her own, i am like that i find it hard to open up to even my closest friends, just tell her you are really concerned and that you are there when she needs you to give her support. I am sure she will let you be there for her in her own time. Hope i helped Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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is it damaging to blow dry hair with cold air?

Well overdrying your hair can damage it as it causes the strands to dry out and break. i recomend that you let your hair dry naturally(rubbing your hair with a towel also damages hair) i suggest puting it up in a towel then blowdry the rest half way so you use the dryer as little as possible. Hope i helped Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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Ok well, I recently had sex and I got my period the next day. But ever since I got my period, my vagina has been hurting REALLY bad (inside of it). And it burns when I pee. I'm REALLY scared! Anyone have an idea of what it might be?

You could possibly have a infection and you should really see a doctor, That is a scary thing to hear but if it is a infection you really need to get treatment. Condoms dont always work you need to be really careful. Hope i helped Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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well i thought i was over my ex but i went on his myspace after i told myself i wouldnt look at it and he likes this girl but now shes his number one. i knew they were friends and that she probably liked him too but its kind of annoying me now.we havent spoken in weeks and im in the process of getting over the relationship. well i dont think i like him still but theres just all these memories because he was my first boyfriends ever. most of all im mad at myself for looking at his myspace because i know it only hurts me to go on it and i shouldnt have. does anyone know how i should deal with this?
thanks

Well your first love is always the hardest to get over. There is nothing i can tell you that will make it easy for you except just try have fun with your friends and i am sure they all love and support you, they might take your mind off of him and make it a little easier. Also try to delete him off of your myspace this will stop the temptations of looking at it. Hope i helped Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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so me and my bf have been going out since the begining of summer and i dont like him anymore how do i tell him that??

Just be honest with him! You cant pretend to like him as it is not fair on him. So tell him the truth but break it to him easy as it will be a hard thing to hear. Good luck

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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f/sophomore

Hi.
So theres this guy in my health adn gym classes and he's new this year. He's really cute and i have a crush on him, but I've never even talked to him. I'm kind of shy. I'm not the type of person to talk first, but I want to be. How can I start a conversation with him? Thank you!

Well it is all about confidence! If you really cant think of anything to say just ask him something like Can i borrow a pen and then just start talkin about something like what kind of music he is into or what sort of films he likes and who knows a relationship could form. good luck! Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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15\f

my friend told me that having sex isn't even that pleasurable! It was her first time though...
I was just wondering; is she right? the first time doesn't even feel good? and when does it start feeling good?

thanks

Well the first time tends to not be that pleasurable because it does hurt but it starts to feel good usually on the 3rd-5th time. But it really depends because it might not hurt you the first time! But dont worry about it and do it when your ready. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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I'm really unsatisfied with my hair color. I have about two inches of roots, and no matter how many times I try, my hair will never be one color. The roots are golden brownish blonde and the rest of my hair is reddish brown. Should I just bleach my hair and start afresh? If so, should I try going dark (like dark brown instead of medium reddish brown) or maybe a golden brownish blonde. By the way, I'm pale with blueish greenish eyes if that helps any.

Well if you want to go natural go to your local salon and have the colours in your hair stripped so then you will be left with your natural colour.

Then if you decide you want a different colour have it dyed in your local salon. Then after a couple of weeks when your roots come through just go to the salon and have your roots touched up this should make your hair stay one colour!

Oh and if you are pail do not have your hair too dark because you will look even pailer. try blonde! Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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Whenever I show cleavage, the top of my neck kinda like has the bones right there sticking through a little cause im skinny, and i always feel embaresed. It's not just my collarbone, its the bones kinda like right under there. Do guys care if they show...? Cause I've always been worried about wearing low shirts cuz of my bones!!!

Everyone has something they are self conscious about and to be honest most girls would love to be that skinny so embrace it and trust me you are not alone. Dont be so worried about wearing low cut tops just go for it and show you are confident even if you are not that sure and then other people will believe it too. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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does anyone know where i can find pics of "SCENE" fashion?? I mean like full outfits. please it is for a report in my fashion studies class.

Well this website might help it has a few pics of full outfit's "SCENE" style just copy and paste this link....

http://www.nashvillescene.com/Stories/Special_Issues/Style/2006/10/05/Magpie_Apparel_Rhiannon_Guillet/index.shtml

you could also look on ask.co.uk or google.co.uk and just go on images and see if there are any pics on there. Good luck! Hope i helped.

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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HELP!!!!
mmy best friend (let's call her Jammie) well Jamie Tells me that my best guy friend (let's call him will) has been totally and madly in love with me since sixth grade. I thought that she was just messin with me, but then Will tells me that what she said is actually true! I don't want to turn him down because we have such a good friendship, and honestly i am not sure that i don't like him. But i do know that i like Will's best friend george!!!!! I am soooooooo confused!!!!!!!!
what should i do?
what should i tell will??!!!!!
what should i do about George??!!!!!!!!
how do i tell Will that i turned him down because i like his BEST friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well if you really are not sure you like him it is not a good idea to go out with Will, because you wont be happy and he'll get hurt and it will ruin your friendship. Just tell him you dont feel that way about him but you love him so much as a friend. If he is your close friend he will understand!

I really would wait till Will is over you to go for his best friend as this will more than likely hurt him more. Good luck! Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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So there's this guy I used to like, alot- and I took him to my homcoming because he goes to a opposite school,& after all that I realized I really didn't like him to much, but I kissed him and the next day he asked me out, so I said yes,& now we've been dating for 3 days& i've already lost intrest in him! /: should I break up with him and if so how should I do it.

Well if you are really not interested in him then you should just break up as it is not fair on him as he is gonna end up geting hurt.

When you tell him you should be totally honest with him and dont be too harsh just tell him how you really feel and hopefully he will respect that and you will remain friends. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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OK. Well I have a bf but am not planning on having sex THAT soon but I still have a question.

I have been hearing and reading [on here] that your first time hurts. And im wondering, does it hurt like REALLY bad, or is it worth it?? Because im kind of scared because I do not want it to hurt.

THANKS! any advice is wanted!
14/f

Well it does usually tend to hurt the first time you have sex and also the girl tends to bleed. But it depends on how big he is or how tight you are. If he is big and you are tight it will really hurt. but also if he is small of average it will still hurt but not as much as if he was big.

But after you have done it a couple of times it starts to feel really good and it is well worth the pain the first time!

But if you are scared to have sex this means you are not ready so dont push yourself and dont be pressured into having sex. Just do it when you are ready and when you know it is with the right person to lose your big V too =]. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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I just finished my period yesterday and today my boyfriend and i had sex, bleeding after is normal right? cause at first i thought... like shit my periods not over.. but bleeding after sex happens all the time right?

Well bleeding after sex all the time is not normal it is possible that the blood you saw was just menstrual blood. But if this is happening to you all the time your bf should stop being so rough or you should see a doctor. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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I like this girl and she knows but all my friends think she is to tall for me cause im 5 ft and shes like 5ft 7 i dnt know what to do she likes me too should i ask her out.

dont listen to them, Who cares what anyone else thinks! Height does not matter at all, it is the person that counts. So if height does not bother her and it does not bother you, then just go for it! Your friends will eventually stop teasing and see that you really like each other. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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I really don't know what to do. I just feel like dying. I let guys touch me and kiss me and they almost have sex with me. I feel horrible. i'm a whore! I don't really know what to do. Every guy is calling me a whore behind my back. I just want them to have respect for me. Which I know I can't get back. All I wanted was a boyfriend. I have a lot of fun when they're touching me and fingering me. I'm such a whore. I just don't know how I can change things. Any advice?

Well you are not a whore you just have a very active sex life and it would be different if it was a boy who was in your position he would be praised!

But if they are calling you a whore it is just because they can and it makes them look better. But you really need to respect yourself more and maybe you will get more respectfrom other people. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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How do you flirt? Like what do you say or do?

Well flirting is very easy if you are confident when talking to boys.

One of the best flirting technique is to tease him a little but dont tease him about anything to personal because he might start to get annoyed. also just try to make jokes with him and have fun, you neva know he might flirt back! hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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I think I am falling for this guy, i realllly like him. But he has a girlfriend. He just started going to my school today, so I get to see him very often now.
I dont know where to start.
He has a girlfriend, but I am falling so hard for him.
He is suppppppppper sweet, he's attractive, i love his personality. He's like perfect.
idk what to do.
help

Well as he has a girlfriend you should just stay friends as it wont be fair on her if you try to get him while they are still together. And remember if he cheats on her and you go along with it he will probably think it is ok to cheat on you too and he may make a habit of it.

When that relationship ends flirt with him to get his attention and maybe a relationship may form between you two. Hope i helped

Love Nikki-Marie xxx

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