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pleasure?
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my friend told me that having sex isn't even that pleasurable! It was her first time though...
I was just wondering; is she right? the first time doesn't even feel good? and when does it start feeling good?
thanks
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well for me, it hurt at first, but it got better. just take it slow.
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Usually you don't know what to expect for your first time. It may not be as wonderful as everyone makes it seem. Since you may feel too tight or you never masturbated. To me, my first time felt good. There's a few possible reasons why it wasn't good for her though.
She could have been nervous and her muscles tightened up, causing discomfort. The guy was a virgin and he didn't know what to do exactly. Usually sex doesn't feel good for your first time.. since you don't know what to do to make it good. That's why you should try reading a book about it because I picked up some amazing techniques. [At one point, I said sex wasn't even that good, since I couldn't get an orgasm] But the only way for sex to become good, is to start talking to the guy. Tell him what you want.. or what you want to try. Also the guy might come up with a technique.. with thrusting, which may hit your "g-spot" or not.
It's good to start with missionary because the penetration isn't so deep. After you become used to it, you should try a different position. You go on top. If you lay down on top of the guy then yes, most likely it would feel good if he's hitting the right spot. Most women get pleasure from that then missionary. But since you have more control on top, you can move up more and a bit back to whatever you like.
It's different for everyone though. Some people's first times are amazing while others are painful. It starts getting good when you try new things or have sex for a few times. It may take awhile to get used to it.
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Theres this condition that happens amongst girls your age .
Its called "Your body isnt anywhere near fully developed, so doing things with it that its not prepared itself to do can have unusual outcomes"
Sex is pleasurable. When both people are physically mature, and both people know what theyre doing, it can be extremely pleasureable.
Thing is, that at your age, other stuff gets in the way. Most guys under 20 are terrible at sex. Most girls under 20 are about the same. Combine that with physical circumstance and its not that sex itself isnt pleasurable, its that the sex your friend is having isnt pleasureable.
If you want to enjoy sex, wait. You will more than likely never find a decent lay in high school.
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It depends on the person and what they enjoy, as the person below has said, the first couple of times aren't that great, but once you know what you like and your guy knows what you like, it's pretty pleasurable.
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First time does hurt,but it also depends on the person my friend had sex for the first time she said it hurt for 2 minutes and then she enjoyed it so people are different.
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Well the first time tends to not be that pleasurable because it does hurt but it starts to feel good usually on the 3rd-5th time. But it really depends because it might not hurt you the first time! But dont worry about it and do it when your ready. Hope i helped
Love Nikki-Marie xxx
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