|
what to do now?
thank you so much for the advice but how do u control your heart??? i cant help but to put my heart and soul into everything and i mean theres nothing wrong with being single but its just not for me i have a fear of being alone and im also scared that if i stop trying to find love then ill miss the chance to meet my soulmate i know my poor heart needs sometime to heal but i think that if im alone it will only hurt even more are there any other ways for a heart to heal??? how do i stop myself from falling in love so fast???
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
It takes "You" and lots of will power. Trust me, it sounds like you have a huge heart, and you give people all your love, and they never return the favor. You need to mentally put a wall around your heart. And don't sit there looking for love, let it come to you. Now i'm not saying sit there and wait. Just get out, have fun, be yourself and let someone see the real you. If that happens, don't let yourself fall, to stop this think back to your other relationships and think how bad it hurt, and just take things real slow. Guys will say they will never hurt you, they could never do that to you. Now think about it.. How many guys have said that, and ended up doing it anyway? Trust me, I never learned my lesson, i've been hurt soo muchh! I have turned bitter and ugghh.. You don't want that happening. To be honest, you need to be single for awhile and let your heart heal, yes everyone loves to have someone, but you need to learn that you can be happy with yourself and your life. You need to learn to love yourself, for anyone to love you back. Its hard, I have put myself through 3 horrible relationships, and it took me a year to get over it. but in the end i realized.. why waste my time crying over someone, who isn't crying over me? and I realized how much time i wasting on that person. Don't end up like that. Hint, Hint. The BEST Revenge is showing that person, you can be happy with out them. And never, never cry in front of a guy, or give in to them. That shows your weakness and they know they have you on a rope and can make you feel bad and get what they want. You are a women, your strong and invincible. Always remember that.
]
More Questions: |