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Old love?
Here's the deal, I've been friends with this guy for about two years now...Since the day we met we clicked! Things were great we spoke as friends and as time went on I developed feelings for him. I had a major crush on him and a while later one of our guys friends asked me if I'd ever go out with him I said sure why not. He has such an amazing personality and hes cute and very smart and he makes me feel happy, with that said our friend told me that "he" liked me too. A great deal! I was shocked because it didn't seem like he had much interest other than being friends. So when word got back to him that I knew, he started being all shy around me, he was shy before, but not to the ex stream that he is now. We went out last year for a bout a month...didn't last much because he was waaaaay too shy! I was being patient and trying to compromise but, there's only so much one can put up with. It was like, he didn't even want to seem me. :( We'd make plans and he'd cancel. Later on I found out he was ditching me to hang with some other girl, not really cheating, but still he ditched me to hang with another girl. I felt bad, especially because I'm not that self confident and I'm not ugly but I'm not hot...and this girl was like a barbie girl. So I asked him if he wanted to break up he was like "Do YOU want to?" I didn't want to, but I did. Since we never spent time together anymore. It was hard for me to stay friends with him so, I stopped talking to him for a while and tried moving on. Very difficult, but then I met this other guy who was wooeing me a bit. But wasn't really into him I actually was hoping he'd help me get over the other guy but I didn't want to use him and then have him get hurt. So I just quit on that before it got complicated. Well summer is here and the old guy and I started talking again, hanging out with our old friends making plans just like old times but the thing is I still have feelings for him. Always have and probably always will...He recently asked me if I was happy. I said things could be better. He's made it quiet obvious he still has feelings for me, but he's so damn shy. I don't get it, when we had become friends he was shy but not so much, and now he's over the top...he's the type of shy that, when we go to McDonalds I have to order his food for him, because he's to shy to...I know there's no changing someone but should I give it another shot? The thing is I don't want to be the only one to try again...so should I just forget and try to move on...or what do I do? :/
Um...one detail I left out is, I'm 17 and he's 15...I don't age matters but then again who knows.
Any and all help, thank you! (:
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At the end you gave it away. You are two years older than the boy. He might be thinking every thing he does is not up to what your use to. you have more two more od expierence than him. You might need to either keep it as friends or talk to him one on one about what you want the relationship to be.You made it obvious that he likes you, just tell him you both need to work on it.
Lillian
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i say that you should stay friends with your old friend. Since he is shy let him get more comfortable around you again. If you date him again it woukd just leave it awkward and him more shy. if he is a great guy like you said its always better to be friends and not lose him again. hope i helped
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