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Location: maryland
Occupation: high school senior
Age: 18
Member Since: May 20, 2010
Answers: 32
Last Update: July 2, 2011
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ok so me and my friend are at the beach this week and we want to talk to some guys and possibly get their numbers!! but we dont know how to go about it/ say to them. How do we approach them and what do we say??
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Well if your bold enough to do it just go up to them and start saying hey. Introduce you self, tell them where your from. If they feel like their interested then they respond if not then i guess it was a bust. Personally I like to check out the guys and if they come up to me then thats whats up. If not all is fun in eye candy. :)
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My best friend, has another group of friends she hangs out with, without me, which is FINE. But, what I don't like, is if one of them is like alone/not doing anything, she will be like "can so and so join us" and i want to be like no. she can't. you don't include me, why should i be nice enough to include her?
what do you think? should i say something? pretty soon she'll be going to college at the end of summer. but its just irriatating, and all my other friends HATE her. (link)
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One word communication! Use it and you will go far in life. Just tell her how you really feel. Be nice about it though. Tell her you feel left out when she is with her other group of friends. That you never are invited to their plans. It doesn't really matter that all your other friends hate her. If you have a good time with her continue it. Just make sure the relationship is a healthy one. Also since she is going to go to college remember things are going to change. That is just how life is. You lose some and you gain some. That's the power in life. Hope I helped you some :)
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everytime i try breaking up with him he uses all of these really sweet lines on me and i believe him, i just wanna know why he's still holding onto me for so long if he's just gonna mess me around?
thanks alot (link)
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Most people don't realize what they have till it's gone but your welcome. :)
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me 18/f bf 20/m
my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and throughout our relationship i keep dealing with people telling me that he's cheating on me but i didn't believe it. so recently i checked his facebook messages and i saw a really dirty conversation between him and another girl as well as explicit pictures of her, so of course i asked him about this and he told me that his friend was flirting with this girl and his cellphone battery was flat so he used his phone to chat to this girl so in other words he is saying that it was his friend chatting to this girl and saved the messages to his phone, a part of me wants to believe him but i can't trust him and i don't have it in me to break up with him because he makes me believe that all of this is true. what do i do? (link)
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he is def. cheating on you. I think you need to realize it. No one deserves to be cheated on. there is better out there. maybe he does like you by right now he isn't showing that he loves you. You need to know that there is better out there and you need to let him go. he then may start to try and act right but once a cheater always a cheater.
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Hey :B I'm in eighth grade and 14.
Last week, I was at my friend Emily's house and her little brother had his friends over. Amongst them was a 12-year-old boy called Cody in 5th grade. He was really cute, the kind of kid you KNOW will be hot when he gets older ;)
So later that day, he added me on Facebook and has not stopped talking to me since. He goes to my school, and I see him around sometimes but there's no time to stop and talk.
I'm not trying to sound full of myself or anything, but I think that he has a crush on me? Because
- he always starts the conversation first
- at school if he sees me, he smiles and waves
- on Facebook, if I ask him a question, he's always like, "oh, I'll tell you tomorrow if I see you"
- if I don't see him at school one day, he messages me, "i didn't see you today :( "
- he told me that he had been held back a year in kindergarten and how he's supposed to be in sixth grade, and how sixth grade and eighth grade arent really that much of a difference :>
- He asked me to go over to Emily's house again one day so that he could meet me there
- he asked me if I was busy this weekend and if I could go to our school baseball game to watch him play
- if there's an awkward pause in the conversation, he's the one who goes , "soo, whats up?" come on talk!"
It's really cute and sweet and all. I think I may be starting to like him as well:/ I'm always thinking about him, the song that he told me was his favorite soon became my favorite, and I'm online more often in hopes that he'll come online :P I don't really know if I ACTUALLY like him but, IDK:O
But it's just wierd dating a kid like, three grades down and I just, I dont know. I'm confused:/ What should I do from here?
thanks for answering if you do:) (link)
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It does sound like he has a crush in you. I feel that you should just be friends with him. Are you now going into 8th grade or your going to be in 9th grade? 12 is kind of young for a 8th grader and you seem to realize it. Yet you do like him. If you like him alot then its alright but just make sure he really likes you because it would be embarrassing if he was just trying to be your friend the whole time. There are plenty of guys your age that is in the same mature level as you. I hope this gives you some kind of clarity.
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I'm just finishing up the sixth grade school year. Everyone has changed so much. They talk about boyfriends and girlfriends and being "in love" with others. At first I found it rather comical that I am five foot seven and eleven and my classmates that range from four foot seven to five foot one are "falling in love", but then I felt left out. I have greasy hair and skin-all the time. I have braces and I have to wear a back brace too. Please help there is a school dance coming up and I'm really unpopular and I don't know what to do! Sincerely, Suffering in Middle School (link)
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people are always going to chang. Even you. Five foot 7 huh? I would love to be that tall. Im 5'3 and 18. I wish i was taller, if i was taller i would be soo good at sports. Do you do any sports? Eveybody loves sports, thats how you meet alot of people. Just a random suggestion. Also you have braces. When you get in highschool im pretty sure they will be taking off and you will have even nicer teeth. You might be a late-bloomer everybody will have their time. Also personality is everything. Be your self. Physically is only temporary. Guys like girls who are their selves and confident. Middle school dance. Just wear a cute dress or a cute outfit and have fun. Trust me there is more to life after middle school.
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I need some advice.
I need to get some money but I only have about 5 weeks until I leave for vacation during summer. And then after summer i'm going to college and won't be able to get a job then. Do you think I should get a job now? The only problem is that I can only work for 5 weeks maximum.. and it will be my first job. I don't know if its a good idea, but I could really use the money.. Or is there another way to make a lot of money but not fully committed to a long-term job? Please don't mention baby sitter, dog sitter, or lifegaurd. thank you! (link)
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when your on vacation you could find a part-time job and when your in college why couldnt you find a job? It is pretty impossible to find a job for 5 weeks unless someone hires you for like lawn mowing, baby sitting, the small tasks.
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i been applyin like crazy everyday and so far no one has called me for interviews and i have the expirence they are looking for but i cant get hired is there jobs im not aware of that i can apply at or what i need help (link)
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its really hard to get a job but just keep searching im sure you will find one. If you don't get a call back you should call them back to see if they looked and got to your application.
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is it normal for your boyfriend to act like he doesn't care about you around his guy friends? is that normal does he wanna show them that he's in charge or does he just make a joke? (link)
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A boyfriend should care about whenever the circumstance. Your boyfriend should love to be nice to around their friends so that they would treat you with the same kind of respect. You should tell your boyfriend whats up. If he still acts like a jerk then he isnt worth it. Just make sure you let him know whats up and if he still acts the same he isnt worth your time.
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I have a question about my friend Morgan who i am having an issue with. so a few weekends ago she came home from college, and she always wants me to come over, whenever we hangout, and always end up fighting because she's rude to me and she always wants everything her way. I have a few other friends but their busy most of the time, or we'll hangout like every once in a while. so she's the only one i hangout with. last weekend she wanted to hangout, but i was going out to eat with my dad. so she wanted me to come over after wards. when i was done eating i called her and our friend Elizabeth was with her, and they weren't home, and Morgan said she'd come over and pick me up, and when i asked her when she said oh i don't know, because she does everything on her own time. then when she finally came to pick me up, and in the car we were exchanging stories. Morgan has changed a lot and since she's become Christian so that's all she talks about, and when i was telling my story about something else they were both just uh huhing and smiled at each other like they don't care what i have to say. i spent the night and the next day i hung out with them and Morgan drove me to two places. then she wants me to drive her ass around town and when we get to my house we were going to have dinner but she changes her mind because the pastor called and his family wanted to have dinner with them. so i have to drive their sorry asses all the way back to my friend's house., and i am in a rush and their sitting their criticizing my driving. i know i shouldn't have been speeding, but Elizabeth kept opening the door of my car while i was driving and then on facebook, yesterday Morgan was posting stuff on Elizabeth's wall like oh i can't wait to hangout but not facing my fears with Nikita. (me) and other stuff like i can't wait to see you Friday as long as Nikita Seth isn't driving, and this is after i drove her and Elizabeth everywhere and she talks crap on facebook, i know it's not end of the world but she's really unappreciative. She thinks everything is about her and then she sits there and says oh i am Jesus lover and i am christian even though she's rude to me and makes it public on facebook about how awful my driving is like twice. And then tells me i need Jesus in my life. Maybe i am making a big deal out of it, but i think it's hypocritical of her to say anything, and she sits ther on facebook and says oh i
can't wait to see you, i mean would you call her a fake friend? sorry if this is long but i need help ASAP. (link)
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i feel like what she is doing isnt right. You should tell her that you feel like she isn't treating you like you think you should be treated. Thats the bad thing about girls they act one way then 10 minutes later they act so differently. It seems like she doesnt have a good relationship with the lord because if she did she would be trying to comfort u and be nice to you. I just think that she is starting to have a new faith and dont know how to act with it. Do you not have the same faith as them? You should try it. You will have a new thing in common plus its worth your while. If you tell her how you feel and she keeps treating you bad it seems like she isnt a good friend and keeping a friend like that isnt worth it and there are many of opportunities to meet new people. I hope this helped.
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OK, it’s a bunch of little movies in one and it’s a 90’s movie and it’s not a cartoon. I remember one had a hoola-hooping baby sitter and when she put the kid to sleep he yelled because he heard something in his room. So she came in and gave him milk and cookies. Then the closet door opened and it was a goofy monster and they became friends and ate the cookies and milk. The other story I remember was a girl who got a delivery at her house and it was a carpet and when she sat on it it would fly around her house. IT’S DRIVING ME CRAAAAAAAAAZY. (link)
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have you tried google or some internet source because i dont know what movie your talking bout srry :)
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ok so theres this guy lets call him jacob (not his real name) i really like him ...... for 3 years now i have been trying to pluck up the courage to ask him out but are always scared that he will say no i need advice on how to approach it suttly now just say it but do it in a sneaky way! kinda i guess...... im desprate please please please help me!!!
lots of love
tink2359 (link)
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well do you talk to him alot? if not then start talking to him! be yourself. thats the only way he will start to feel something. dont let your nerves get you down. i usually do stuff off of impulse. so when im nervous i just do it because i know im going to feel relieved when its all done. and if you do want to ask him do it! and if he doesnt like you i know it will be a bad feeling but just remember he wasnt good enough for you then and he wasnt the one and there arealways going to be cute guys out there. why do you wanna be sneaky? does he know you like him? if he does then just talk to him and if he doesnt then no need to be sneaky. plus guys like it if you are upfront. recently this guy told me to stop beating around the bush. so just be yourself. hoped this helped
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when i am in school, all i feel is bitterness to people especially to my classmates and friends. i have friends in our room but i think we are not really good friends, just a companion. I cant feel their presence at times you really need a friend. We just have a happy time always. and i think that they will not be there when you need them. (do you think im being selfish for not thinking that we are friends?) i have to that conclusion because i cant accept and i feel irritated to their attitudes at some points. I think they are being competitive and friends are enemy when it comes to grades. Also, i dont feel the tight of being friends. you know? i have good friends, an i know what i feel whether and its a good feeling. a feeling of "friendship". do you think its right? (link)
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it all depends on ur age level. upperclassman seem to acknowlege that there is more to life and things are going to change, and arent going to be together forever. I always feel this with friends as well. Im a senior and almost done with my last year and i feel like i have one friend that i will talk to when its all over and yet we arent going to the same college so it might not. when it comes to being competitive with grades just think does it all matter. you are you and they are them. if you do get a better grade or a worse grade so what? all that matters is you do well so you can better yourself. all you can be is yourself and enjoy each others company. thats what friends are. and i struggled with this alot too but just keep holding on because things only get bad so when there is good times u appreciate them alot better. did this help?
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I have this classmate and every boys in the class has a crush on her. It really annoys me, and maybe the other girls, too. And I'm afraid that I'll loose my guy friends if I tell my feelings about that girl. Is there anything I can do? (link)
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well depends on what you wanna say. do they have crushes on her too? and it may seem like all the guys have a crush on her but it seems like she isnt picking any of them so why worry? i know it may be hard to ignore the fact that the guys like her but it really isnt that big of a deal. If they are annoying you about her just tell them that it annoys you when they talk about her and that there are other things to talk about and do. I have a girl at school like that. She hangs with just guys and she she is really pretty. but in this issue Its not really a big deal if she gets what she wants. Your two different people and if they dont care to see then they will find out later on. hope this helped.
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im 18/f hes 19/m
im absolutely gutted right now. recently, up until this morning, ive had the most amazing, wonderful and deep conversations with the guy i like. I opened myself up to him more then anyone before. He told me secrets that not even his best friend knows. We have so much in common that we were actually genuinely stunned to even find someone with so many similarities. He would keep telling me how he cant believe we have so much in common, he even said that it was getting to a point it was scaring him, yet he says its the most amazing thing ever. We would send each other cute messages, and made plans to go out on this saturday night, provided that the area wasn't flooded (due to living in Queensland, Australia where there is serious flooding at the moment). Anyway last night he told me to text him again tomorrow.
So i did as he requested, and texted him, being all cute again like the night before. Only for him to be responding to me all weirdly...he didn't even reply to the last text i sent him. he told me he was super bored and dying from trying to think of a new band name. But still just because he's trying to think of a band name shouldn't mean he's not able to talk to me. So anyway, feeling a bit rejected i hopped onto my face book. I was really upset because i really really fell for him and he was just acting so strange to me... so i was updating my status with lyrics and whatnot, whilst texting my best friend telling her how i think i ruined it with him, even though i have no idea what i've done. Next minute i get 3 notifications, all from him. two of them were liking my status (one about me wanting to put glow in the dark stars on my roof, from the previous night before, and one status i only just updated with the lyrics 'don't waste your time on me your already the voice inside my head, blink 182 sesh in my room (link)
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Just ask him about it. Ask him why he is acting that way. Maybe he is afraid of getting into relationship and getting up hurt or ruining the friendship. Boys act weird to hide their emotions. Just ask him.
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im 18..me n my bf we r planning to have sex and i really want to do it2 bt i am afraid wat if i get pregnant? sometimes condoms are not fully the protection and i waz just thinking whats the good thing to do? (link)
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well think of things do you really love him does he love you? do you think it will mess things up with him? Protection just make you sure you handle it right. It never is 100 percent safe but as long as you use it and use it right it shouldnt be a problem. If you are scared dont really do it. You will know when the right time is. Hoped i helped a little.
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So there is this cute boy that I am attracted to. We don't talk because we don't really have a reason to. However, one day I was around him in the class he was in and he kept glancing at me and days after, he would constantly steal glances at me, in passing in the hall or when I'm with other my group and he's with his I will notice him quick look over at me. Sometimes they are even long stares, to the point that one time he almost stumbled over the person walking in front of him because he was to busy looking at me. Now, today, my friend (she's in his class with his best friend) and I was talking to her outside of their class as he and his friend were sitting there waiting for the bell. She later texts me and said that the boy's friend had said "poor (my name)" and they started cracking up laughing. I don't know why they said that and she didn't hear any more of their conversation. But that just proves to me that maybe this cute boy isn't attracted to me. I don't know what to do. I am 16 band female, he is 17 and male as is his friend.
Do you think he is and if he is, why do you think his friend said that?
Thanks! (link)
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he might be interested and he might just be an immature boy trying to mess with your feelings or you can just be taking it the wrong way. If he is feeling you im pretty sure he would say something and if he does thats a type of boy you would want. If he is just going to mess with you and not say any thing just try to ignore him or ask him whats his problem. You dont want to fall for his anticts and end up being a mess. I just say dont take it as he likes you or anything until he talks to you cuz you can end up getting hurt feelings if its just a little game. Hope I helped.
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I am a female senior in highschool and I currently like a guy who is a freshman. He's three years younger than me. Is that wrong? What should I do? I'm afraid to tell anybody because I think I'll get teased, but on the other hand I really like the guy and hes way mature for his age :) Help! Im so confused. (link)
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If you like him go for it. I liked a sophomore and im a senior. It wasnt the best results but i dont really have any shame. I thought the same thing i didnt want to get teased or anything but my friends thought that it was cute. If you feel like he is mature enough then go head. Its not wrong as long as you realize that they arent fully mature as senior can be. Since you said he is mature than i think its fine. You cant help your feelings so go for it
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19/f there's this cute guy i see whenever i go to school. he smiles at me sometimes when he sees me. i saw him on monday and we saw each other after that like a million times. so i am afraid he thinks im stalking him. he's usually with his friend, but anyways today i walked past him in the library and i was at the bookshelf reading a book. then i was walking towards him and his friend when they were at the copy machine and he was looking at me and kinda smiling at me. and his friend something like do you know her? and he said yeah and i turned around and was like what? and i had this weird look on my face, i was so embarrassed because he and his friend were laughing. he probably thinks im stupid huh? and a total stalker lol i guess? what should i do? should i still talk to him? (link)
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Im pretty sure he is going to talk to you. So if he does, thats a score. If he doesnt then i think you should talk to him. Obviously he likes what he sees.
Wait it out first and see if he talks to you and if not you go step out and talk to him.
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The school I want to attend says their minimum requiremets is a 3.0, but I have a 2.8. I scored really high on
my act. Do I have a chance? Or should I not bother trying to get in at all? (link)
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oh you def have a chance. If you scored really high on the act. Apply im pretty sure they will accept you. They look at more than just your GPA.
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