Question Posted Wednesday February 2 2011, 7:08 am
I have this classmate and every boys in the class has a crush on her. It really annoys me, and maybe the other girls, too. And I'm afraid that I'll loose my guy friends if I tell my feelings about that girl. Is there anything I can do?
If you think she isn't trustworthy or is mean, very gently and without being a bitch you can tell your closest guy friends "Yeah, I know you all really like her, but I don't think she is so nice."
Your close guy friends might apperciate what you, as a fellow girl, can see that they might not.
But if you just jealous, you'll need to let it go. All your guy friends will be able to tell you are just jealous and no one really likes that. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Wednesday February 2 2011, 2:45 pm: You would lose your friends if you said something, because it would make you seem jealous and petty.
There's nothing you can really do. Just suck it up and be content with the fact that crushes are shallow things based on superficial details. These guys may appear to be in love with her, but it's probably for her face and her body. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
Vicky02593 answered Wednesday February 2 2011, 12:57 pm: If you really like this girl than you should tell her how you feel and if it's meant to be then it's meant to be. You should not worry about the other guys in the class if they are your true friends then they will respect how you feel. I would just be careful because If that girl does now every boy in the class likes her than it may all go to her head and she may enjoy the attention that she is getting. I wish you luck :) and like I said if it is meant to be than it is meant to be [ Vicky02593's advice column | Ask Vicky02593 A Question ]
tay030693 answered Wednesday February 2 2011, 12:52 pm: well depends on what you wanna say. do they have crushes on her too? and it may seem like all the guys have a crush on her but it seems like she isnt picking any of them so why worry? i know it may be hard to ignore the fact that the guys like her but it really isnt that big of a deal. If they are annoying you about her just tell them that it annoys you when they talk about her and that there are other things to talk about and do. I have a girl at school like that. She hangs with just guys and she she is really pretty. but in this issue Its not really a big deal if she gets what she wants. Your two different people and if they dont care to see then they will find out later on. hope this helped. [ tay030693's advice column | Ask tay030693 A Question ]
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