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i messed up and want to change
so i started off this one year program as this really chill awsome girl, then i started going out and drinking a lot and i slowly but sureley started really sluttying it up.
i hookedup with an entire group of friends and ir eally wrecked my name.
i really really want to change and get my friends back and let people see the girl they loved at the beginning.
how do i do this?
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Everyone's right about quitting drinking or at least drinking less. But about having 'hooked up' with a group of friends - I don't know that you have to be all that ashamed of that part of it. After all, anyone who hooked up with you is just as guilty of... whatever it is, as you are. If your name is "wrecked," then theirs should be too.
But of course, their names aren't 'wrecked', and yours shouldn't be either. Don't waste time on regret. If you lied to anyone, apologize for that, not for the sex. Just be a straightforward, honest and kind person from here on out (the best you can, just like anyone), and stick with the friends that stick by you.
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for onee the first thing you have too do is find you want too change in yourself & believe it also too .
What you also need to do is find out who your real friends are and who you want to be around .
Clam down on the drinking, its a bad habbit and not a great self character on you ! Just get yourself together (:
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It sounds like your problems are related to alcohol. So the biggest and quickest thing you could do to change is to stay away from the booze for a while. See what happens.
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being drunk can really mess up alot of things- i have some personal experience. If i were you i would calm down. drop the parties not completely if u dont want to but enough to where you can control it. talk to your friends and ask them for help, apologize to them for your behaviors and say how your scared to lose them.
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