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i feel i'm making excuses for him
me 18/f bf 20/m
my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and throughout our relationship i keep dealing with people telling me that he's cheating on me but i didn't believe it. so recently i checked his facebook messages and i saw a really dirty conversation between him and another girl as well as explicit pictures of her, so of course i asked him about this and he told me that his friend was flirting with this girl and his cellphone battery was flat so he used his phone to chat to this girl so in other words he is saying that it was his friend chatting to this girl and saved the messages to his phone, a part of me wants to believe him but i can't trust him and i don't have it in me to break up with him because he makes me believe that all of this is true. what do i do?
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I'm a guy and if I was cheating that is what I would say so yea he's cheating lol dump him.
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Dump him! He's a liar and a cheater and you deserve better. What good is a relationship without trust? He obviosly doesnt respect you and if you have any respect for yourself you'll leave him and find someone whos worth your time. Im sorry he did this to you. It sucks but you should move on.
Good Luck!
~Gracie~
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I definitely think you need to end it with him. He's not worth being with if he's going to do that.
Another word of advice, if he tries to come back, like saying "I love you and I want you back," then he's just desperate to have a girlfriend, and he's very insecure about himself. You need to just let him go, and find someone who will not cheat on you at all costs.
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he is def. cheating on you. I think you need to realize it. No one deserves to be cheated on. there is better out there. maybe he does like you by right now he isn't showing that he loves you. You need to know that there is better out there and you need to let him go. he then may start to try and act right but once a cheater always a cheater.
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