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I think I'm ugly. I have a good body (as people tell me), I'm skinny, so that's in my favor. I don't have bad acne like a lot if my friends (no offense to them) but mine us very mild to none. I have freckles but they are fading and I've started accepting them. My nose is weird but I get it from my parents. I'm not real worried about my nose I learned to live with that too. But my face is so long!!!!! It's terrrible!!!!!! It's makes me want to cry hysterically when I see pictures of me! When I look in the mirror it looks round but it's not in pictures or real life. And because of my face I will never be that hot girl (not that I really care) just my face shape is soooooo long!!! (link)
Hey. Don't worry. Everybody has things that they don't like about themselves. Nobody's perfect. That's life.If you think your face is too long you could maybe try bangs that could help. My face is kinda long too I guess and I HATE my nose and I have small lips and a small chest and butt and I'm tall and really skinny so I know how you feel. There are some days when I look in the mirror and I hate the way I look. There's soo many things I wish I could change but I just remind myself that everyone has flaws and everybody feels that way sometimes. Just focus on what you like about yourself. You sound like a pretty girl to me. What you see as ugly may be beautiful to somebody else. Good Luck and I hope I helped! ~Gracie~


this girl is ALWAYS staring me down. shes a wannabe bad ***. she stares me down, gives me cold looks,and shes always talking about me , I hear her all of the time, shes not a good whisperer. She talks about me to her friends and they don't even talk about me or have a problem with me. I am not a mean person at all, I don't fight and argue with people and I have no idea why this girl doesn't like me. She gets mad when her friends come over and talk to me. It really gets on my nerves cuz I take 3 classes with her and shes always staring me down and giving me mean looks. I have never done anything to her and I overhear her all of the time talking about me to somebody, I hear her every time. She gets pissed when her friends talk to me and I overheard her telling them she doesn't like when they talk to me. I cant stand it when I walk into class and shes staring me down and giving me mean looks, its annoying and shes been doing it all school year. im not good at confronting people, I don't like arguing and fighting. I Have never been a b**ch to anyone lol. please help. what should i say/do?
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HaHa! Flip her off and laugh in her face. She sounds like an annoying idiot with insecurity issues. :)

~Gracie~


Hey everyone(: I was just wondering if these were some or most of the signs of being in love(:

♥ Always thinking about the person everyday all day?

♥ Always wanting to see him

♥ seeing him puttin a smile on your face and just feeling like you have something to look forward too

♥ One time when I was feeling sick like I was going to throw up I looked at pictures of him and thought about him then I felt better!

♥ always wanting to hear or see things that remind me of him

ok so out of that would you say someones in love? thanks!(: (link)
Sure,Ive never been in love but I think your in love. Good for you, I hope things work out ok! :)

~Gracie~


Well first off I am a teenager and a female and the other night(3 days) I had the best dream I have ever had and everysinse I think about it all the time and I have a smile on my face! ok heres the dream it was me and this guy I REALLLLLLY LIKE i mean really like and he dont know i like him or anything but we held hands and kissed and things like that in my dream and the thing I remember most is when we held hands and it made me sooo happy(: but then at the end of my dream (before I woke up) I tried to kiss him and he shook his head because he had a gf but he only had a gf at the end of the dream and not at the beginin when he aloud me to kiss him idk it was wierd but I loved it when we held hands! btw he is kinda a celebrity and not but maybe 1 or 2 years older than me I really hopes this means something good(: becuase I reallly like this guy! (link)
Umm, I dont believe that dreams mean anything. I think dreams are just things that have been on your mind. You know like good dreams are things that you wish would happen and nightmares are your fears and things that you dont wanna happen. I dont know really, thats just my opinion.

Hope I helped

~Gracie~


me 18/f bf 20/m

my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and throughout our relationship i keep dealing with people telling me that he's cheating on me but i didn't believe it. so recently i checked his facebook messages and i saw a really dirty conversation between him and another girl as well as explicit pictures of her, so of course i asked him about this and he told me that his friend was flirting with this girl and his cellphone battery was flat so he used his phone to chat to this girl so in other words he is saying that it was his friend chatting to this girl and saved the messages to his phone, a part of me wants to believe him but i can't trust him and i don't have it in me to break up with him because he makes me believe that all of this is true. what do i do? (link)
Dump him! He's a liar and a cheater and you deserve better. What good is a relationship without trust? He obviosly doesnt respect you and if you have any respect for yourself you'll leave him and find someone whos worth your time. Im sorry he did this to you. It sucks but you should move on.

Good Luck!

~Gracie~


I'm 15 f and I gotten really close to this guy he's 16 almost 17 and last summer that's when I fell for him it's the closest I've ever gotten to a guy! And to this day I can't get him out of my head I legit can't and it makes me depressed like he just comes into my mind like once a day it makes me so sad bc I was so happy and now I'm not especially bc the people at school well I have friends but I feel noone else will take te time to like me no guys like me more than. But it's like I've been having issues and he just comes into my mind and sometimes makes me real sad I want him outof my head and I don't know how to get him out of my head i thought it would get better but nope Ive tried texting him to but itslike at his school he flirts ALOT but never really had a gf since so he does the same thing to girls to flirt with him. I just keep thinking bout him while he doesn't think about me much but idk I need help bc it hasn't gotten better:( (link)
Hi!
Umm maybe you are a little obsessed,HAHA. Just kidding. If you're thinkin about him alot and you think you've fallen for him then maybe you should just talk to him or ask to hang out with him so you can see if he feels the same way. Dont be too pushy and dont show him how much you like him until your sure that he feels the same way or that he's atleast just a little interested. And if he's not interested then forget about him and move on. The right guy for you is out there somewhere you just have to keep looking. You shouldnt let him make you feel depressed. I mean, come on he's just a guy. There's plenty of guys out there. He might be the first guy you've fallen for but Im sure he wont be the last. In a couple of weeks or months or whatever you might see some other guy your interested in and forget all about him. So just calm down a bit, dont let yourself get soo upset. He's just a guy and he's not worth your tears and frustration. Girl Power! Ha! That was lame. Anyways, Good Luck with everything and I hope I helped.

~Gracie~


Hi, I heard about Hetalia from a friend and I was wondering where I can watch episodes for free, if possible? Also can anyone tell me how many episodes there are and about how long? Thank you! (link)
Umm I never heard of that show but you might be able to watch it at hulu.com or tv-links.eu. That's where I watch all my fab shows. Hope you find it! Good luck :-). ~Gracie~


Today is May 25 and my period was suppose to come on yesterday May 24.....my period is a day late....i have been cramping and my stomach feels weird...it feels like my muscles in my stomch are tighting up....my body feel heavy when i try to move or stand up...could i be pregnant? (link)
Umm. Im really sorry but Im only 13 and I just recently got my period. Im still trying to get the hang of it. But maybe you should give your body some time? I mean, its only a day late.

Good Luck :)

~Gracie~


I am 13 years old and female and I have been in a Realationship with a 14 year old boy for about 7 months we started off fine he said he loved me showed affection now he shows less affection now we are always having disagreements and he always gets mad when I tell him no when he asks me to show him my private body parts is he tired of waiting for me should I break up with him he does claim me as his girlfriend but idk whats going on (link)
I personally think that he might just want sex. All guys or boyfriends start off nice in the beggining because they want you to like them and trust them. But some dont show how they really are until you've been with them for awhile. To me he seem like just another sex craved boy. If he really cared about you he wouldnt get upset when you told him no, he would've understood that that made you uncomfortable, or you just werent ready or you just didnt want to. Its your body and just because he's your boyfriend doesnt mean that he can tell you what to do with it. If he's asking you to do something you dont wanna do tell him no and if he has a problem with that, ditch him. You can find someone WAYY better. Someone who will respect you and your body. Trust me, Im 13 too, and I have an older brother who thinks girls are just things you play with until he gets bored. I understand girlie! :)

Best of Luck, I hope I helped! :)

~Gracie~


What songs are good for singing at talent shows
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Depends. Are you a boy or girl? What songs do you like? Country, Pop, Hip-Hop? How about something from Taylor Swift like 'Back To December', Our Song, Better Than Revenge, Love Story. Or Justin Bieber, Down To Earth, One Less Lonely Girl (if your a boy), One Time, Kiss And Tell. Anything from Miley Cyrus. Jessica Andrews- Summer Girl, Katy Perry - Fireworks, Hot N Cold, Teenaged Dream. Bruno Mars- Just The Way You Are, Nothing At All (if your a boy)
Broken Hearted Girl- Beyonce Breakeven- The Scrpt Secrets- One Republic Teenagers- My Chemical Romance

Thats all I can think of at the moment. Hope those are some good talent show songs. :)

~Gracie~


Ok people... im Female, 13 and im telling you all now that im not crazy... Could i Be a vampire?? I like the taste of blood, have a dark ring around my iris, can see in the dark well, extremely good sense of hearing, can feel peoples energey (can tell if someone is near even when i cant see and can pick up on their emotions or how they're feeling... Its like hummidity sometimes too), Love the dark, have animal like insticts especialy when i go into fight or flight mode, and have fangs..... What do you guys think????? (no im not a cannibal) (link)
HaHa! Your really weird! No offense. :) Sorry but your definetly NOT a vamp. They dont exist but if they did that would be totally awesome! LOL


I am a thirteen year old girl, and he is a fourteen year old guy and we are both in the eighth grade (almost Freshmen)

So, my best friend and I got in a fight for the twentieth time this month it seems, but he claims it is always ME. that starts it. We are project partners for a 30 minute documentary that is due next week, and I have done ALL the work. he has gone off ice skating while I filmed, and so many other times has he blown me off. He also left me for the ENTIRE science project, which I did an A+ job on and he got credit. I calmly asked him to help in the project more, thinking that he would be cool about the situation but no. He literally YELLS at me in the hallway, and making me embarrassed in front of everyone in the hallway.

I simply asked him a question for him to help more, and he hasn't talked to me since calling me dramatic to other people. all of his friends are against me, which is practically the whole eighth grade. Should I apologize, or should I just be brave and stay like this for the last eight days of school? (link)
He's a jerk! He doesnt deserve a friend like you. Dont ever work with him again. If I were you I would tell the teacher that he didnt do anything on the project. Dont apologize! You didnt do anything wrong.


i'm a teen girl i eat a lot and i eat food thats bad for me. it taste great and i don't wanna give it up; i'm skinny but i think i could end up fat if i keep eating like this. i tried eating less but i went back to my old way of eating within a few days. should i change my diet? (link)
I do the same thing! I dont really care too much about it because Im skinny and small. I have a tiny frame and a high metabolism so I dont gain much weigt but I guess its pretty unhealthy and we both should change our ways. LOL But Im honestly not gonna worry about it unless I start gaining weight or my doctor tells me Im unhealthy. Thats probaly irresponsable or whatever, but who cares! Like my dad says, We're kids, we shouldnt worry too much about stuff like this rite now. Lets have fun while it last! HaHa! That's my advice! :)

~Gracie~


Okay so I have this really good friend (I'm not like popular so yeah) but were always trying to kill each other pretty much. We've almost gotten into a punch fight 2 times because there are these jerky kids calling names and she thinks its funny and so I stabbed her with my pen. And she ignores me alot if shes around certain people. The other day she was calling me a rude name and I'm like if you don't stop saying that I'm gonna punch you annd shes like yeah I'm so scared so I hit her and she hit me back and said she could kick my ass. She's an arrogant bitch and I'm the only one she treats like this. We both work at the same horse stable and ride together often with our friend sally and everybody loves her because shes just soooooo fun to be around but I'm the only one who really knows what she's really like and she has a seriously shady past I've known her since we were 5 and she pretty had it in for my family and her parents did too. Her past has come up many times and she refuses to acknoledge that she was seriously an insane little brat.And she pretty much treats me like crap sometimes and she always pretty much lets it go but were always at each other troats like 3 timmes a week. Oh btw it usually is in our last period class so I usually blame school but now I'm starting to think she's seriously a huge bitch. and that I should seriously just like not be around her until she starts treating me better. advice plze? oh were both 14 (link)
Wow! That's what you call a friend? It sounds like you hate each other, I wouldve guessed you were enemies. Real friends arent like that with each other. You should find other people to hang out with.

~Gracie~


is it bad to push your other friends away when you have one main friend?
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Yea its kinda mean. Just because you have a "best friend" doesnt mean you should push away all your other friends. Why cant you just be friends with all of them? you can never have enough friends. At least thats what i think. :)

~Gracie~



Do any of you know how to get a bigger butt in a month? Some people say you can and they try to sell you stuff but they don't say anything about how it works before you buy their stuff. Does it work or is it all a scam? (link)
Umm. Bread makes your but bigger. HaHa :)


my mom wont let me get my belly botton peircered so i did it my self now i can't find a belly ring any where and i dont have any money (link)
Aww! That sucks! Maybe you can ask a friend to buy you one? Or a sibling maybe? I kinda want a belly button piercing. Did it hurt?
Good Luck
~Gracie~


Ok I was just wondering how do you get a guy to notice and look at you like when you pass them in the hallway? like to make them notice you and wanna talk. Cuz there is there are some really cute guys at my school but I only see them in the hallway so yeah! please help!!(: Thanks!! (link)
Be cool, calm and collected. Haha! Dont try too hard, it'll make you look desperate, then guys will just use you then dump you. Trust me on this, I have an older brother and I see him do it all the time.
~Gracie~


Me: 13 (almost fourteen)
Him: 14
Both in the eighth grade

Today, I finally took a stand for myself. My best friend (who is a guy)had jokingly called me a bitch for the past three weeks, and he treats me like nothing. So I finally told him that, and he called me dramatic and won't talk to me. He's now running off with girls that he knows don't like me, just to make me jealous. I really want to keep being his friend, but I really don't know. I

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Jeez! He sounds like a jerk! Ditch him! Trust me, you can find better friends, and If he treats you like that then he isnt really your friend at all.
Dont apologize. If anyone needs to apologize it's him. :)




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