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This girl is always staring me down, what should I do?
this girl is ALWAYS staring me down. shes a wannabe bad ***. she stares me down, gives me cold looks,and shes always talking about me , I hear her all of the time, shes not a good whisperer. She talks about me to her friends and they don't even talk about me or have a problem with me. I am not a mean person at all, I don't fight and argue with people and I have no idea why this girl doesn't like me. She gets mad when her friends come over and talk to me. It really gets on my nerves cuz I take 3 classes with her and shes always staring me down and giving me mean looks. I have never done anything to her and I overhear her all of the time talking about me to somebody, I hear her every time. She gets pissed when her friends talk to me and I overheard her telling them she doesn't like when they talk to me. I cant stand it when I walk into class and shes staring me down and giving me mean looks, its annoying and shes been doing it all school year. im not good at confronting people, I don't like arguing and fighting. I Have never been a b**ch to anyone lol. please help. what should i say/do?
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Ignore her, People who tend to go out and pick on people are obviously trying to get a reaction out of them. If people never gave a reaction to bullying then why the hell would people go out and pick on others? I'd be pointless.
If you don't show a reaction then she isn't going to get a reaction. Trust me, If she wants to be a bitch let her. I'm sure her friends will learn soon enough that they no longer want to be associated with someone that acts like she does. Sometimes you don't need to be a bitch, The girl is insecure about herself and that is exactly why she picks on you. Sometimes people pick on others because it makes them feel better, Maybe she stares you down because there is something about you that she envy's you for.
Also to point it out there if you show you don't give two shits she will eventually get bored and move on. If you hear her talk about you I bet any money it would really piss her off if you laugh it off and act like you don't care ;) She isn't a good whisperer because she is deliberately trying to grab your attention and seek a reaction.
Let her continue to make a fool of herself, You be the bigger person by laughing if off and walking away.
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Keep on ignoring it.
It's clear that even her friends think she is being bat-shit, since they are still talking to you. You might ask one of them what is going on with her, but ignoring it is probably your best bet. This girl is just making herself look silly. If you start confronting her, you'll look just as silly.
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Keep ignoring this behavior. As she mostly likly has a big crush on you.
1. staring
2. tellig her friends to stay away
3. being mean
These are all main signs she likes you so if you catch her looking your way smile and be kind. If she's mean then ignore her.
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HaHa! Flip her off and laugh in her face. She sounds like an annoying idiot with insecurity issues. :)
~Gracie~
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No matter what school, what grade, what workplace you end up at, there is always going to be a bitch without a cause. Yes its stupid and annoying, but probably the only reason she does this is to get a rise out of you and make herself feel better or cooler. Honestly, as hard as it may be, i suggest you ignore it and act like it doesnt bother you. Then, what shes trying to do wont work. Obviously she is immature, and i applaud you for not already taking it a step further and being the bigger person.
Just laugh it off. She means nothing to you. Keep it that way. Think of how pathetic she is acting and that you arent willing to stoop to her level.
Good luck!
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Ignore her,
Believe it or not, Someone who constantly talks badly about someone has insecurity issues, Jealousy issues etc. Sometimes you don't have to do anything at all it could simply be because there is something about YOU she is jealous about.
Karma is a real bitch believe me when I tell you, What goes around always comes around somewhere in the long run. If you don't show any reaction then she will get no reaction. You said it yourself, She is not a very good whisper. What does that tell you?.....It tells you she wants you to hear her because she is trying to piss you off. Shrug if off, Not everyone is going to want to hear her mouth and eventually she may find herself loosing her friends because of the fact that she has nothing good to say. People get bored of drama after awhile and this girl sounds like a real jail breaker with her mouth. Continue to be yourself and be happy. Don't be a bitch, Don't stare her down just ignore her. The truth is (It drives people INSANE to see someone they don't like happy) It is apart of jealousy. If you show no reaction to her then eventually she will realize she isn't getting what she wants out of you and she'll eventually stop.
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