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I'm not creepy obsessed but I think I am close to being obsessed


Question Posted Wednesday June 8 2011, 3:03 pm

I'm 15 f and I gotten really close to this guy he's 16 almost 17 and last summer that's when I fell for him it's the closest I've ever gotten to a guy! And to this day I can't get him out of my head I legit can't and it makes me depressed like he just comes into my mind like once a day it makes me so sad bc I was so happy and now I'm not especially bc the people at school well I have friends but I feel noone else will take te time to like me no guys like me more than. But it's like I've been having issues and he just comes into my mind and sometimes makes me real sad I want him outof my head and I don't know how to get him out of my head i thought it would get better but nope Ive tried texting him to but itslike at his school he flirts ALOT but never really had a gf since so he does the same thing to girls to flirt with him. I just keep thinking bout him while he doesn't think about me much but idk I need help bc it hasn't gotten better:(

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MelindaGrace answered Sunday June 12 2011, 2:39 pm:
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Umm maybe you are a little obsessed,HAHA. Just kidding. If you're thinkin about him alot and you think you've fallen for him then maybe you should just talk to him or ask to hang out with him so you can see if he feels the same way. Dont be too pushy and dont show him how much you like him until your sure that he feels the same way or that he's atleast just a little interested. And if he's not interested then forget about him and move on. The right guy for you is out there somewhere you just have to keep looking. You shouldnt let him make you feel depressed. I mean, come on he's just a guy. There's plenty of guys out there. He might be the first guy you've fallen for but Im sure he wont be the last. In a couple of weeks or months or whatever you might see some other guy your interested in and forget all about him. So just calm down a bit, dont let yourself get soo upset. He's just a guy and he's not worth your tears and frustration. Girl Power! Ha! That was lame. Anyways, Good Luck with everything and I hope I helped.

~Gracie~

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